I've changed.
Born in 1992, I became increasingly impolite and faceless.
The main charges are as follows:
Invitations from unimportant people are rejected;
Not a close friend, Hugh wants to come to my house to play;
As soon as you enter a friend's house, you will open the other party's refrigerator to find food;
If you want to talk endlessly together, you must smell the same;
The most sincere smiley face, only for the most familiar people...
To say, it is completely trapped in the social comfort zone, counting down, surrounded by acquaintances.
Do you remember the crusade against the post-00s and post-95s in previous years? The point where they were sprayed the hardest at that time was that they were rude.
They completely violate the social norms of the so-called social people, not kind, not warm, not actively pulling relationships, not familiar with them, they will not bother to pay attention to you, drag fiercely.
In 2022, I got older and joined them.
Play only with the people I like, play with whoever is good to me, and according to my observation, the entire youth group, including the post-85s, is moving closer to this virtue:
The young people who used to cry and shout to get out of the social comfort zone came back one by one, and collapsed happily with familiar friends.
I found a survey of friends after 85, 90 and 00, and although their ages are not uniform, their attitude is very firm. We agree that:
"Even if God hacks me to death, I will give my time to my real friends."
Young people have to live a solid life in a city, at least have two homes.
A home of one's own, a good friend's home – are places where you can come to your door at any time and don't treat yourself as an outsider.
Is it still a guest to a friend's house? Isn't that my house?
What else do you want to take with you to a friend's house? Just bring your mouth.
The process is generally like this:
Enter the community light car familiar with the road, and even have the access control card of the friend unit building.
Enter the door to find your own slippers to change, and go straight to your friend's refrigerator to get a snack to eat.
Slumped on the couch, turned on the TV, and gave a blind meal to a friend who was busy cooking.
"I've unwrapped this bag of spicy strips, you wine, I want to drink."
I watch TV, don't forget to make me a cake.
Do you still have the chicken feet from the last time, you have prepared them for me. ”
A friend may never cook for someone, but is cooking soup for you.
There is a story that a good friend was at her house and had to eat shrimp tails on a big night. She bought it all over the world, and it turned out that this was not good, that was not good.
In a fit of rage, she slammed her phone and snatched the door out, only to buy the shrimp tail back and watch her friends eat it.
Friend @ Big Lulu showed off to me, her girlfriend's house has her own food grid, the things in it are specially for her to eat, and the girlfriend husband is not allowed to move. Duck neck, chicken thighs, potato chips, dachshunds, inexplicably flavored sparkling water, and handmade beef jerky sent by Dad.
The purpose is that if you don't eat, you are not allowed to go out of this house.
Sounds pretty faceless, right? Even more terrible is yet to come.
After the acquaintance gathering, the posture will change from sitting to lying down, commonly known as Shangkang social.
The servants gathered, and the two of them slept.
Four people gather, the servants lie down, playing with their mobile phones and gossiping.
And everyone has no manners, open the T-shirt to pat the belly, floss the teeth without covering the mouth, grab your dog in the arms, usually wear full makeup of the person's all-vegetarian face.
There is a famous saying that there is a limit to the shame a person feels when he realizes that he does not want his face, and once he crosses it, he will get great pleasure from it.
At a friend's house, the deeper the feelings, the less face you have.
And if you're the one who invited your friends, you won't get bored.
Cook when you want to cook, and take out a few people when you don't want to.
Talk when you want to talk, don't want to talk like no one at home, you should wash clothes and work overtime.
When you happily invite friends to your home, you willingly give them the ticket to step into your life.
With other people, it will cost electricity.
With friends, it's charging.
Together with people we don't know well, we tell a lot of lies.
When we meet familiar friends, we talk a lot of.
Parents are short, life is trivial, and even evolve into a large Amway scene, which is a bit of a retro meaning of mothers meeting girlfriends.
Bring a box of huge delicious dried fish for your cat to taste.
Bought a huge bag of unpalatable potato chips and stuffed them in your mouth to feel the sensation.
Slept on a very comfortable pillow, next time you come to my house to try.
Convenience store bartending has a new trick, learned which new song is ready to shine in KTV, play which good script to kill...
And most importantly, which pair of cps have recently been bumped, and have already picked a video from the favorites to press the head for friends to see, which cannot be rejected.
The specific picture is like the following picture of this terrified Henan uncle:
- "I don't sniff I don't suck"
- "Sniff again, you haven't watched the most classic promise video yet!" ”
It is not counted in person, and it will be checked in the future, and the tough attitude is like the teacher checking the homework.
Thanks to the blessing of my friend, I not only bumped into the major internal entertainment CP, but also understood the love of Kudo Shinichi x Murong Shilan, Su Mingyu x Fan Shengmei, Sun Wukong x Yue Yunpeng.
And people who have been together long enough are quite tacit in talking.
@DUO Conversations with friends, like passwords. "Who and who is that" "Oh I know if it's that who" seems to have said nothing, but in fact, the gossip exchange has been completed.
@QIAN like to lose money with friends, one person's words are stubble, and the other person can always pick up. "I told her that after she died, she would bury her closer, so that she could come out and play at night." She said no, I talk too much and will make her grave restless. ”
Even at the grandest life party, we will use our own way to make some small accidents that only friends will not mind.
@ Milk tea is not too sweet Often late, even on the day of a friend's wedding, or indisputably late.
"She called me, where she is, just waiting for you."
I hung up the phone and didn't believe it, but when I arrived, she left me a position in the middle of the row, and the emcee asked, can you start? She said, yes. ”
Reader @Jia's story is more dramatic.
"The first time she told me about a boyfriend, I felt like the house was collapsing.
The day she and her husband received their permits, I was a witness, and I arrived earlier than they all.
And when I got married, the emcee on the stage played on the spot and asked her to say a few words, and she cried until she couldn't say a word. ”
Amos Oz has a very apt saying, a quiet, stable friendship that does not require constant emotional proof and does not depend on how often we see each other.
Friends are familiar with all your terriers, can pick up all your words, you know how many people your friends have talked to, and friends know how humiliating you are when you get drunk.
We never make a good impression in front of each other, we like or fall in love with each other, it is this impolite, undignified.
According to the previous social concept, potential connections are always more important than friends already have.
But now young people don't believe in this set.
We commute to work, eat and sleep, get tired, get irritable. Interacting with familiar friends is like a poem from a boring life, not necessarily necessary for survival, but it will make you feel important.
@ Juvenile Heart Went to work in the afternoon and told a friend that he was upset and wanted to resign. My friend said, I'll give you some bean blossoms to eat.
@joy Huang Xinling half-work and half-studying for graduate school, took a lesson A, told her friends about this, and said that she wanted to reward herself with ice cream, and immediately received a red envelope"
@Per r picked up his friend and made a heartfelt and funny welcome card to warmly welcome Gao Xiaosong in the northeast.
@ Good Life I didn't receive flowers since I was a child, and I wanted flowers on my birthday. While complaining that she was sick, her friend took the subway for two hours with flowers and handed it to her by hand.
A person's life is a life of living for relationships. What does a truly comfortable relationship look like?
The past days are not only remembered by you, but also by your friends.
Participating in a friend's serious little day will stimulate your desire to live a good life.
On the eve of the start of an important job, he would drink and talk to a child in a department about work, and he would say that he didn't want to hear you say this. Ask a friend out for a drink, and every word you say will echo.
I used to shout to get out of my social comfort zone, but I'm giving up now.
Growing up is the process of gradually reducing friends. That being the case, leaving energy to the people who really matter may be a more comfortable option.
We can chat at any time, and a sentence of "What have I eaten lately, so delicious" can open the conversation.
We chatted and talked about people disappearing, which meant that everyone was back to their daily routines and busy.
We don't necessarily get anything out of friendship, but because of them, in a noisy world of people, you never have to worry about you being faced with an empty door.
We knocked violently, and after the door opened, there were smiling friends.
As long as you like those guys, that's enough.
Written by: Big H
Editor-in-Charge: There is money
Vespers Hours:
The happiest thing in the world,
It's just an ordinary night off work.
Go to dinner with friends.
May you have a willingness to spoil you
Allow your unbridled "faceless" friends