Being bullied, it really doesn't feel good. But many times you will find that the person who is being bullied always has the opportunity to let the other person bully. Is it that you have a cowardly personality and do not argue or grab; whether you have few friends and your family does not care about you, or that the other party just treats bullying people as a common thing, and your personality has become a tool for the other party to vent negative emotions. At this time, you have to protect yourself, and you must make yourself strong enough that the other party does not dare to bully you at all.
So, in real life, what do you do to fight back against the people who bully you? This often requires you to find the real reason for the bullying, and then prescribe the right medicine to really solve the problem.
First, change the characteristics of weak personality, and gradually strengthen your heart through various ways.
Many times, because of their weak personality, they have low self-esteem and are afraid of offending others. Therefore, do not argue about anything, even when you are reasonable, you blindly avoid dodging, so that others think that you are a soft persimmon and egg. In this case, it is possible to become the target of bullying by others. Therefore, in life, you must continue to cultivate your self-confidence, often encourage yourself when doing things, cheer yourself up, cheer for yourself, so that when you encounter others bullying you, you will respond decisively, and let the other party retreat.
Second, make more friends, do not let yourself be isolated, more friends, others naturally dare not easily bully you.
Making friends can give yourself courage. In this way, when others bully you, you have not yet taken action, and your friends have formed an iron wall of influence in front of you. In this way, the other party wants to bully you, he also needs to weigh whether he has this ability, one person to deal with a group of you, that is not a joke. After all, one person and one sentence can make him have no chance to speak. So, in real life, don't let yourself be a lonely individual, be gregarious, let yourself have friends, so that it is difficult to bully you again for convenience.
Third, force yourself to grow, let yourself become a person with strength and connotation, others naturally do not dare to bully you.
When you are bullied by others, you are powerless, and you are weaker than others, you can only be angry. Because your ability does not allow you to resist. Even if you resist, it will not have a good effect, but it will anger the other party and make you suffer more. At this time, you must understand the principle of accumulation and thin hair, and you must enrich yourself in this way, improve your various abilities, and then become a person with strength and connotation. Once you have the power, the content in your eyes will make the person who bullied you discouraged, he will not dare to provoke you, let alone bully you, because he knows that bullying yourself will not end well.
Fourth, if the problem is too serious to be solved by oneself, inform the parents, parents, and even the relevant judicial departments to severely punish them.
If the other person's bullying has escalated to the height of bullying, it has caused serious damage to your body and spirit. And you can't solve it by borrowing your own strength, so don't be silent and endure. Tell the parents, the school, the truth about the other person bullying you. Let them help you solve the problem, or even call the police and let the relevant departments intervene, it is possible to finally solve the problem completely. Just like the movie "Young You" played by Yi Qianxi and Zhou Dongyu, the final bitter fruit is that no one wants to see. And many times, it is because the solution is improper, and the parents, schools, and teachers do not care enough, which will eventually lead to tragedy.
In life, when someone bullies you, you must find your own reasons, and then, let yourself work hard to change the current weak situation, and then make yourself strong through various ways so that the other party does not dare to recruit you. Or seek help through the proper methods, give the other party severe punishment, let the other party know the harm of bullying others, and stop this behavior. In life, we don't bully others, and we don't let ourselves be bullied by others.