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Each of us middle-aged people, when we are young, may have experienced a period or more unforgettable feelings, loved a true love, loved dead and alive, loved the sky dark, wholeheartedly invested, and later still failed to come together, maybe that person does not love, or has someone else split his legs, or maybe there should not be this relationship in the first place. No matter which situation, it will bring you deep harm, make yourself not think about tea, and even have depression, and finally come out of the need to go through these 5 stages.
1. Loss of self-esteem. At this stage, it can be said that people are almost crazy, close to a state of madness, lose interest in everything, and suffer in pain every day. Every day, I don't believe that this will happen to myself, I don't want to admit that the person doesn't love me anymore, and all I think about is to find the other person and contact the other party.
I tried everything I could, felt that the person was still thinking about myself, fantasized about meeting him on the street, or even went to the unit, went to the place where the person might pass, and waited. In order to be able to meet one side, say a word, listen to the voice of the voice, even if the other party scolds a sentence will feel a lot more comfortable, all day long in the head is full of that person's shadow, people are almost decadent.
2. Emotions are always out of control and start to get angry. Knowing that no matter how hard he tried and how humble he was, he was powerless to return to heaven, and he began to have hatred in his heart. You've caused me so much pain, and I can't make you feel better. So I began to suspect that the past was all false, I was deceived, I played with my feelings, and the resentment in my heart began to increase, and that person was a heinous person. Didn't love me at all, just acted with me.
It is so hateful to think of the other party as a scumbag. Curse that person every day in your heart, so that that person will not have good results, and even want to curse that person every day with three incense sticks. So I had a heart of revenge in my heart, and I came up with a lot of bad methods, in short, I wanted to make that person as miserable as possible in the future, hate to the bone, drink his blood, eat his flesh to relieve the hatred in his heart, and it was impossible to express it in words.
3. The mind begins to be unstable, like a swing, turbulent. One moment I hated it to death, and the next I fantasized that the person would change my mind, whether there was still a chance to return to me, to be reconciled as ever, and my mind could not be at peace for a moment. Every day I was thinking about it, and sometimes I started deceiving myself. One moment the same person can come back, and the next moment I hope that person has encountered disaster.
From time to time always to recall, recall once good, once sweet, the heart is a mixture of tastes, mixed feelings, listen to a sad song, will also find that the lyrics are written is their own, and then tears, is sad, is happy, sad, sad, sad, they are already unclear, every day began to be a little trance, the days are spent in such a muddy nightmare.
4. The mood begins to be depressed, what a depression, feeling like a loser, all of which has run out of meaning. I'm not interested in anything, and I'm not even in the mood to play. I will also lose confidence in my work, start to be a little decadent, my heart is wandering, and my mind is full of light thoughts. One moment I want to be such a person, and the next I want to be such a person, I think wildly.
Hope to be a very successful person, let the person envy, let the person begin to regret. Then I looked up and straightened my chest without looking at the person, there were many suitors around me, I was proud of myself, and everything was to make that person envious.
5. All the pain and sorrow have begun to fade and begin to return to a normal life, only occasionally thinking of the person. Even if I mentioned the previous relationship, I would only smile, feeling that my head was short-circuited at that time, and I was a little naïve, and some were too naïve. Now that I think about it, it's not shocking. At this time, you can accept another person, and a new relationship can be fully started.
When there is a new love object, it seems that everything has not happened before, even if you occasionally think of the past, there will be no feelings, and now you will put your mind on this love object, maybe this is a good scar and forget the pain. That's what you go through when you're young.
To sum up, people will experience several relationships in their lifetime, for a person who has heavy feelings, every breakup will be a great hurt, but it is not long memory. Therefore, people will never mature until they are over forty-five years old, and some people are born with infatuation. True maturity must be after the age of confusion, then it is really mature.
Have you ever experienced it? Honestly it's okay.