It's that time of year again

It's almost the New Year, and it's time for friends and family to get together. At this time, each family rushed to give gifts, visit each other and bless each other, summarize the past, and look forward to the future. For young men and women of the right age in each family, the meeting at this time will definitely be concerned by the elders to ask about the "when to get married", which must be talked about, as the saying goes: add people to import, people want to prosper. People who have already talked to friends have no pressure to answer this question, and people who have not talked about friends cannot give an answer to this question. In the face of the crowd's questioning, the scene was very embarrassing and the pressure was great. Especially for older young men and women, this year will be very difficult.

I don't know when, unmarried men and women who work outside, because they can't stand their parents' nagging and urging marriage, are forced to make a move: rent a friend, comfort their parents, go home to cope with the scene, hope that the whole family will have a happy and happy and peaceful year, and do not have to be questioned and chased like a debt, so as not to make the whole family unhappy.

Xiaohai is 33 years old, opening a shop in a fourth-tier city to do business, not bad in ability, good looking, his hometown is in the countryside, and he is still single, which should be a fate. The year before, near the New Year, the cousin in his hometown died. This time, he must return to the countryside and should have participated in the funeral of the deceased elderly. At this time, Xiao Hai was anxious to temporarily hold on to his feet, learn from others, rent a girlfriend, and return to the countryside to cope with various social occasions.

The girlfriend who rents is called Xiaoguo, and the situation is very similar to Xiaohai. 31 years old. Only daughter, people are also beautiful. The two were introduced by the intermediary to meet, hit it off, and planned to try to communicate first. Xiao Guo and Xiao Hai returned to their old hometown, and then went to Xiao Guo's house during the New Year, to pay homage to Xiao Guo's parents, even if they met the parents of both sides, both sides agreed, and the two established a love relationship.　

We have been in this relationship for nearly half a year. One day at noon at dinner, XiaoHai was in his shop, saw Xiaoguo hanging on the computer QQ chat record, there was a boy who wanted to meet Xiaoguo for a meal.

Xiao Hai told Xiao Guo not to meet, and if they did, the two would break up.

Xiao Guo said: "The boy has made several appointments, and she has not gone to see him." This time it was at a restaurant not far from the store, and I just went to meet him."

Regardless of Xiao Hai's feelings, Xiao Guo still went, met, ate, and returned to Xiao Hai's shop.

But Xiao Hai's heart was already turbulent at this time.

After half a year of interaction, Xiao Hai felt that Xiao Guo's play was strong enough, wild, like a child, and his heart had not yet been withdrawn. Usually unable to keep up with Xiao Guo's mental trajectory, erratic, this time Xiao Hai has completely lost confidence in Xiao Guo. Even if Xiao Guo was sure of Xiao Hai later, it would be difficult to heal the spiritual barrier caused by Xiao Hai, and the interaction between the two would end.

Xiao Hai did not stop on the way to making friends. At the beginning, Xiao Hai, who was of the right age, set a rule for his future girlfriend in his heart, and it was difficult to find a fate when choosing to choose. The original age has become the older age today. Nowadays, girls choose boys, the first time will pull the elderly Xiao Hai dial to the ranks of non-consideration, in their eyes, Xiao Hai belongs to the team of crooked melons and crack dates.

Find friends locally, pick and choose, that is, some people. Boys and girls are selected with different emphases. Girls care about the genus, the difference is not a day; boys value the three views, and the three views do not fit together.

Of course, girls are the first consideration for boys' personal assets. Xiao Hai had a favorite person at the beginning, but the other party's vision was high, no matter how hard Xiao Hai tried to develop, it was always not up to her financial needs standard: when you have a million, she feels that two million is enough to be qualified to talk. When you have three million, she hopes that five million will be happy and her wish will be fulfilled.

Although Xiao Hai knew that his emotional intelligence was very poor, he still understood that this kind of cunning woman was not something he could control.

Local girls are not easy to find, then find a foreign place, or rural. Maybe the East is not bright and the West is bright. Girls from other places put the bride price in the first place in the selection. One girl offered to be able to fund a house for her unmarried brother; a girl asked for a bride price of 200,000 yuan. Find a girlfriend in a remote area, with additional conditions to open your eyes!

It's that time of year again.

In the face of the expectations in the eyes of her parents, Xiao Hai thought, if she could, she really did not want to go back to her hometown for the New Year.