When I watched "Snail Dwelling", I was shocked by the three views of the characters in it.
A sister who knows that her sister is a little third and exchanges her flesh for "money", but still does not continue to stop her depravity, but lives in the new house sent by her sister's lover - Haiping.
A Song Siming, who has parents, wives and children, and has a heavy responsibility, has the responsibility and obligation to take care of his children, and preserves the chastity of marriage, but he still has to get tired of his wife while pursuing the depravity and stimulation of extramarital affairs, exchanging money for lust.
A boyfriend who loves him deeply, is deeply pampered, but also for money and power, committed to a middle-aged man, with carnal desires in exchange for brilliant sister - seaweed.
In the story, no matter how they are persecuted by life, they also choose to obey the desires of profit and expose their ugly human nature, which makes people afraid of such depravity!
And the seaweed of "knowing three when three" may be one of the shameless people that have to be talked about in this book!
I knew that Song had a family, and I was still a primary three
Song Siming's wife and children intersect with seaweed in the book.
The first time, it was seaweed and xiaobei who went to Huaihai Road to drink soy milk, and it was difficult to get to the position, and they met the Song Siming family who came to buy food.
At that time, Song Siming affectionately called her "seaweed" and asked her why she was here, Xiaobei was dissatisfied, but did not have doubts, but believed the pretext of seaweed, and still treated her wholeheartedly.
But Xiao Bei probably won't know that the top of his head is already green and verdant!
Just like that, but not only that, Seaweed actually already knew that her lover had a family, a daughter, and a wife, but she still chose to stop for this man, commit herself to him, and exchange it for the ticket of the red tongtong.
Although she is very disgusted with the words "money and color trading", her choice is indeed like this.
The ugly face of exchanging the flesh for profit and surrendering in the face of depravity can only bear good results in the end.
And the "Song has a family" that Seaweed knows is precisely the proof that she has no principles and bottom line, and she and Song Siming are linked because of money, and because of money.
In this exchange of lust, she chose to give up a beautiful and positive life, chose to be a mouse that did not see the light next to the sewage, and used deliberate "knowing" to hurt a strange family, a woman who had not had a vendetta.
Of course, Song Siming is not a good person, his seemingly affectionate seduction of seaweed is actually just to satisfy his sense of vanity and conquest, and his infinite attachment to the sweetness after stealing is really just to retain the feeling of youth.
There is no love, only desire!
Knowing that he is loved by his boyfriend, he still betrays him
Seaweed's boyfriend, Xiao Bei, is really a good boyfriend:
Xiaobei is a colleague of the first unit where Seaweed works, and since the two got along, Seaweed has moved out of Haiping's house to live with Xiaobei.
He and Seaweed, if there is no interlude, may have been married long ago, and a happy family would have been achieved.
Although her boyfriend Xiaobei is not as rich as Song Siming, he has a heart that loves seaweed, just as in the original text:
XiaoBei habitually threw everything he thought was delicious into the seaweed bowl. He would be meticulous enough to pluck out the long bean sprouts, pick out all the meat stars that could not be hidden left and right, and move them to the seaweed little by little.
Although the days are very poor, Xiaobei still works hard to save money, and it is difficult to save sixty thousand yuan of savings, just to marry the beloved girl, but because of the seaweed sister's purchase of the house, there have been twists and turns.
However, his thoughtfulness and tenderness towards seaweed is undisguised.
It is only clear that seaweed has betrayed its beloved and chosen a difficult and spurned path for nothing more than alms-giving, undignified money.
As she said to her sister:
"Who is XiaoBei from me?" I didn't marry him, as if I didn't have to be responsible for him, right? ”
She said the cruelest words in the most indifferent tone, so ruthless and unjust, so cold and cruel, I think, in the values of seaweed, it is a natural thing.
And I thought that she was easily changed by her sister's set of marriage cruelty theories, and her attitude towards love innocence and loyalty was easily changed.
This is not only the reason for her sister, but she has not yet tasted the taste of money and profit, once tasted, she can not learn to restrain, learn to taste shallow, because it is too tempting, so in the face of love that should really be cherished, she has become ruthless and unjust.
And she may lack a backbone in the face of temptation, and a firm value orientation, so that she has taken a detour, but in the face of her sister's persuasion, she answered so coldly.
Maybe from the heart, she didn't love her boyfriend so much, and she wasn't so willing to bear the wind and rain of no money in life, so as soon as there was temptation, she threw herself down and softened her bones.
However, her attitude towards her boyfriend is really shameless enough, while trying to take advantage of Song Siming, she also feels that this state can deceive her boyfriend's eyes and use it in both compartments, which is really shameless!
"When three" without love is the most shameless
In the original text, Seaweed once said this to her sister Haiping:
"He and I (Song Siming) won't have any results. He is a man of his career, and I am just a morning dew, looking for an opportunity, I still have to break with him, I see this very clearly. ”
Such a seat of words makes the "third party" behavior of seaweed sit solid, and it is precisely such a table of words that makes me feel that seaweed is really shameless!
From this sentence, I know two messages:
First, seaweed knew that there was no result with Song Siming.
Why did she see so clearly? It is precisely because she has not invested much emotion, or she has not invested in feelings at all, let alone desire and expectation, so she looks very open and does not seek results.
As she once confessed in her heart:
Do you know? Man's body and spirit are separable. Even if you love someone spiritually, the flesh will not be loyal to him. The flesh is a very shameless and shameless greed, and in the face of the greedy flesh, the spirit will appear very small.
She knows that her actions will hurt her boyfriend, and she also knows that this kind of behavior will hurt many people, and she is also shameless, but she still does such a shameless thing, just for the vanity of prosperity, the embrace of money, she knows that mistakes are wrong, and she is shameless.
Second, since she knows that she and Song Siming have no results, she still chooses to continue this extramarital affair with no return and results.
why? Because of money, she wants Simmons to be piled up with money, she wants to taste the taste of money, the willfulness of money, and she wants to continue this wrong dream.
Because she wants Song Siming's money, so she commits herself to him and exchanges her body for money, this kind of loveless "dang three", even more shameless and cruel than the loving "dang three", because there is love, at least there are good memories, at least there is sincere payment, and the loveless "dang three" is only left to use and squeeze.
With a seemingly shy commitment, the initiative to love this man is so hypocritical!
Of course, Song Siming is not a good person, let alone an affectionate man: a woman who has no love to pay, only to use, with a man who only pursues carnal desire and uses disguised affection to cover up the ruthlessness, this scene of two-person characters only touched themselves, but disgusted others!
How ridiculous!
summary:
In "Snail Dwelling", there is no character that I like, this cruel marriage story, the life of the hundreds of things, so that the wanderer does not dare to step into the palace of marriage at will.
Marriage is indeed like this, but marriage is not only like this, as Sanmao said:
"If you don't like it, the multi-millionaire will not marry; if you like it, the billionaire will also marry."
Therefore, in marriage, money is not the theme, with money, it may not be possible to achieve a happy marriage, and the emotion and affection ignored by marriage are the protagonists of its existence.
Therefore, because of money, it is easy to give up the seaweed of the loving relationship, "knowing three when three", such a knowingly criminal practice, it is really too shameless!
And the existence of betraying marriage and feelings can only be spurned by the torrent of the times, and it is deeply hated!
(This article represents only personal views, welcome to comment)
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