As we all know, in 2017, after the 19th National Congress, the mainland has entered a new era of socialism, and the main contradictions of the mainland society have also changed, in the past, the main contradiction of the mainland society was mainly to pay attention to material and cultural needs, and after the mainland entered a new era, it has been transformed into the need and yearning for a better life, which also reflects from the side that the people have always put food and clothing first for life, and only to solve the problem of food and clothing. I will think about other needs such as mental convenience and entertainment.
Indeed, if a person does not even have to eat, how can he have the heart and energy to think of satisfying his own spiritual needs, so this is also a natural law, but in ancient times on the mainland, there was such a person, who was even poor and could not afford to eat meat, but constantly spent money to marry a wife and a concubine, this person was a Ming Dynasty official Hai Rui, why would he insist on always taking a wife and taking a concubine? Is there something unspeakable hidden in him? Let's take a look!
Qingguan Hai Rui
Hai Rui was an official during the Ming Dynasty, his father was actually just an ordinary person, there was no big achievement in his life, just able to barely maintain the family life, and not long after Hai Rui was born, his father was overworked and died, from then on, Hai Rui could only rely on his mother.
His mother Xie Shi is a very strong woman, after the death of her husband, did not remarry others, but alone to support the family, such a woman for her son requirements of course is very strict, so When Hai Rui was young, she did not have a very happy childhood, not able to play with other children, but from a young age, she was asked by her mother to study all day and let him get a meritorious name.
And Hai Rui is also very able to understand his mother's suffering, so he is also very sensible, and from an early age he was inspired to become a clean official who does not serve the powerful, does not seek selfish interests, and is just and upright. Facts have proved that a person with such a great ambition must not be a mortal, and Hai Rui, who has such a grand ambition since childhood, did pass the examination after growing up, and was later appointed as a Zhi County and became a real official.
And Hai Rui, who has become a high official, naturally has not forgotten the oath he made in his heart since he was a child, Hai Rui has truly become a clean official, he is very divided into the people when he is an official, help them reduce their tax burden, and he is also very patient with those very difficult suspenseful cases, and will never make false assertions, so the local people are also very fond of Hai Rui, the county.
In addition, Hai Rui himself is also very simple and frugal in terms of personal living habits, he is not as particular about pomp and circumstance as other officials, but more like to wear cloth clothes, eat things are not luxurious, but more like to eat coarse tea and light rice, only on the birthday of Hai Rui's mother Xie, Hai Rui will be willing to let the servants buy some meat for the family to celebrate his mother's birthday, otherwise, in ordinary times, Hai Rui never allows servants to buy meat food.
"Ma Bao Man" was ordered to divorce his wife several times
After Hai Rui became famous, his mother Xie Shi also began to plan a marriage event for her son, so, with the approval of his mother, Hai Rui married his first wife Xu Shi, Xu Shi is a very virtuous and virtuous woman, never pay attention to luxury, but like Hai Rui, pay attention to simplicity and simplicity, so the two can be said to be a match made in heaven, very compatible, Hai Rui is also very fond of this virtuous and virtuous woman, and the couple love very much.
But what people did not expect is that Hai Rui is a mother treasure man, Hai Rui's mother Xie Shi is very dissatisfied with this daughter-in-law, the reason is that Xu Shi has given birth to two daughters to Hai Rui since marrying Hai Rui, and has never given birth to a son, and at that time, the ancients believed that only sons are incense, if there is no son, it is broken incense, so under Xie's tough attitude, Hai Rui had to divorce his wife and gave Xu Shi a letter of resignation.
Subsequently, under the Zhang Luo of his mother Xie Shi, he ushered in his second wife Pan Shi, Pan Shi is a strong and very strong woman, and Hai Rui's mother Xie Shi is a similar personality, the two personalities are very tough people collided together, the natural scene is also very ugly, so Hai Rui's mother Xie Shi will always quarrel with his wife Pan Shi, later, Xie Shi finally can't stand this daughter-in-law who annoys her every day, so he strongly asks Hai Rui to leave his second wife.
In order to inherit the incense, he constantly took concubines
After Hai Rui divorced his second wife Pan Shi, he was forced by his mother Xie Shi to marry a third wife Wang Shi, and after marrying Hai Rui, Wang Shi finally gave birth to two sons for Hai Rui, which made her mother-in-law Xie Shi finally feel that they had a successor in the Hai family, so they did not force Hai Rui to divorce his wife.
However, what people did not expect was that because Hai Rui was very upright, did not speak around, and accidentally offended the emperor, he was beaten into prison by the emperor, and by the time Hai Rui was released back home, Hai Rui's two sons had already died! For Hai Rui, it was simply a thunderbolt on a sunny day, and it was originally a hard-won child, but it turned out to be dead again.
Therefore, Hai Rui's mother forced Hai Rui and Wang Clan to have a child, but the Wang Clan had already lost its fertility at this time, how could she have another child? Therefore, Xie Shi forcibly forced Hai Rui to take a few concubines and let those concubines give birth to children for Hai Rui. But Hai Rui was originally a clean official, never corrupt, there was not much Feng Lu at all, and he had married so many wives, where could he spend money on concubines? He had to borrow money from his friends and take two concubines.
epilogue
However, heaven did not go according to people's wishes, even if Hai Rui later took a few more concubines, none of the concubines gave birth to a son for Hai Rui, and Hai Rui's mother Xie Shi was only able to die with regret later, and she could not see her grandson who had studied all her life before dying, so their Hai family's incense was broken after Hai Rui's generation, and no children could inherit their family's incense.
After the above, we can also find that the reason why Qingguan Hairui is so poor that he can't even afford to eat meat, he still has to marry his wife and concubines, in fact, is because he is a mother treasure man, unwilling to rebel against his mother, and in the end he can only end up in this fate.
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