Parent-child time, to be cherished

Taken on January 15, 2022, Shenzhen Futian Bonjour Center West District

The time we spend with our children decreases as they grow older, and our children go through infancy, childhood, adolescence, adulthood.

From adolescence onwards, children spend less time with us. That's when I started, I started to have my own playmates. With playmates, you will go with your playmates on the weekends to "go north and south". Therefore, parents who are free on weekends sometimes can't see their children at home, wondering if it will be a little lost?

Therefore, we as parents, only when the child does not have the ability to be autonomous, we are more accompanied.

This companionship is short-lived, but we must cherish these moments. These moments don't come many times, only those free weekends and a few hours off work every night.

Don't think it's a lot, for parents and children, in fact, there are very few. A few years passed quickly, and if we didn't get in touch when we could get more contact, it might be too late when we came back.

Parent-child relationship before the age of three

Before the age of three, a good parent-child relationship is to give a sense of security. This sense of security gives the child enough, the child will naturally have a calm mood to vent their emotions, so that the child's growth will be in a healthy and safe process.

Children at this age build up their own lifelong emotions, which are entirely created by their parents. If the child grows up with violent emotions, it is that the parents do not give a sense of security. If the child grows up with a calm emotion, it is the parents who give them a sense of security.

Therefore, the parent-child relationship between parents and children is very important.

What kind of parent-child relationship is the best? There is no answer to this, that is, at any stage, parents must express their emotions to their children, and when we take care of the children's emotions and understand the children's emotions, this shows that these are good parent-child relationships.

In short, children and parents are the closest relationship, parents maintain well, children naturally benefit in the parent-child relationship.

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