Every time, I was strong in the loneliness of wandering
Every time, even if you are very hurt, you don't shed tears
I know I've always had a pair of invisible wings
Take me flying through despair
On the bus, listening to this familiar song, I suddenly felt full of positive energy. It's been a long time since I've been so touching, and the life of an adult is not easy, in short, it's not easy to be born.
I don't know when life has become less vivid and interesting, there are fewer days of laughter, more occasions to force laughter; there are fewer opportunities to do whatever you want and release your mood, and more times to tolerate and be full of grievances.
However, many people's childhood is still very good, just like the story in a fairy tale, happiness and happiness are the end.
The beauty of childhood is enough to offset all the disasters and misfortunes, which is an inexhaustible source of power to support you to move forward.
For example, in my childhood dreams, I sometimes can't bear to disturb it. The joy of childhood is like a number of family treasures, you can climb the rock and climb the tree, and you can dive to the bottom of the river to drill the tree hole.
In the spring, you can go to the house to catch the house finches, in the summer you can go down to the river to touch the fish and catch turtles and crabs, in the autumn you can pick sweet potatoes and dig potatoes, and in the winter you can build snowmen and have snowball fights.
In that "year-round" good time, you can also do unlimited reverie, such as whether the car that is speeding by is a pink and cute beauty.
Is there a domineering rich man with two beards in the distant metropolis, and whether the distant uncle is really green as Grandma said.
Of course, there are also some people who are not so lucky. Matilda, the little girl in the movie "This Killer Is Not Too Cold", is like this.
Her father was a drug dealer, her parents would only be fierce to her all day, her sister only knew how to dress up all day, the family was smoky, and 12-year-old Matilda was also a problem girl, smoking and saying dirty things and lying.
Matilda's childhood was filled with fear, despair and brutality. There is a dialogue in the movie:
Matilda asks Killer Leon:
Is life always hard?
Or is it just childhood?
Leon replied: Always.
For Matilda's part, life is gray, there is no hope, no dreams, and living is only a reason not to die.
No matter what your childhood life is, the life of adulthood must be like the song, wandering, lonely, hurt and desperate.
How to fly through this despair, break through the cocoon into a butterfly, and be reborn from the fire! Of course, "invisible wings" are still needed.
"Invisible wings" are expectations: there are expectations, there is motivation, there is a goal, talent has flesh and blood, there is a soul, the connotation of life can be enriched and extended, and the value of life can be reflected and revealed.
"Invisible wings" is exploration: the courage to dare to be the first in the world is trained. Nietzsche shouted to the man behind him, "Don't follow me." ”
Giving up the clouds of people, giving up the same trend, taking their own road, exploring the dangers of the unknown, and tasting the hardships and bitterness of the road is the essence of life and the true meaning of life.
"Invisible wings" is self-confidence: train yourself, learn to be calm, zhang chi has a degree, bend and stretch freely, naturally, by self-conscious and confident, confident people, the charm of life will inevitably bloom.
"Invisible wings" is the attitude: if a person is right, his life is probably correct.
Always maintain a modest, cautious, energetic and optimistic attitude towards life, righteousness will always exist, health will always exist, happiness will always stay.
"Invisible wings" are responsible: bend down, do things seriously, do not complain, do not get discouraged, and seriously take on every responsibility. Responsible people, every time they look up is a wonderful appearance.
"Invisible wings" is gratitude: only grateful people will know how to cherish, and only those who know how to be grateful will become open-minded and broad-minded.
The power of gratitude comes from the heart of people, but also from the mysterious power of the universe, all over the world, knowing gratitude is the guarantee of our hearts and minds, and it is the internal driving force for us to move forward.
Everyone has "invisible wings", as long as they have a responsibility, a self-confidence, a quiet, a pure land, a touch of sweetness, a happiness, a grateful heart, will be able to spread their wings and soar in the sky of life.