Traffickers should never be forgiven!
Child abduction and trafficking seems to be very far away from us. We can always see such tragedies in TV dramas or on the Internet. Every time a child is lost, each of us becomes indignant.
According to the survey, the probability of young children being abducted in the south is much higher than in the north. This may be related to the educational concept of southern parents, there are too many children in the family, and there is little time to manage them one by one.
After the nanny stole the boy for 26 years, "Conscience Discovery" wants to return it
But the criminals in this story are not strangers, but babysitters of the children's homes. The nanny was named He Xiaoping, and she once conceived 2 children, but she did not know why, and died shortly after the birth of the children.
This is an absolute fatal blow to He Xiaoping. Her son died in her arms, and her spirit almost collapsed. Even if it can be regenerated, can the child really be saved?
In this way, she set her sights on "stealing other people's children". Because the old man in the village once told He Xiaoping that raising children from other families may be transferred.
In this way, she incarnated as a nanny from the countryside, and under the introduction of the intermediary, she chose Zhu Xiaojuan's family because she had a young son.
In this way, her plan to steal the child was on the agenda, and once when Zhu Xiaojuan and her husband went out together, she took the child back to her hometown, took it for herself, and changed the name of the child.
When Zhu Xiaojuan and his wife found that the child was lost with the nanny, it felt like the sky had fallen. The plot that could only happen in idol dramas was born in their own lives.
After 5 years, 10 years, 20 years, there is still no result, the ways to think have been thought of, and the places that should be found have been found. But the child seems to have disappeared out of thin air.
In fact, after He Xiaoping and the child were brought home, they became pregnant again within a few years, and this time the child was very healthy, and usually there was almost no illness. In this way, after having your own child, how can you still care about this stolen child?
= Therefore, this child does not learn every day, steals chickens and dogs, drinks and smokes, and drops out of school at the age of 15. Life sucks. In this case, He Xiaoping made a decision and wanted the child to return to Zhu Xiaojuan.
The lost and regained son did not move Zhu Xiaojuan
When her son, who had left her for 26 years, stood in front of her again, Zhu Xiaojuan was not very excited, and even resented. After learning about the child's growth with He Xiaoping, Zhu Xiaojuan commented to He Xiaoping: Are you throwing a bag?
If there is really a bitter intention, after taking the child away, why not educate him well? After you have your own child, why not send it back immediately?
These many doubts made Zhu Xiaojuan unable to accept the child immediately. After all, he had been deceived once before, and an imposter child appeared in his life.
She is still torturing herself, so this time she still can't help but be defensive in the face of her own son. He was already over half a hundred years old and could not withstand any blows.
After a child is abducted, the chances of normal growth are small
Attachment to the mother, nothing can be resisted
From birth, the attachment relationship between the child and the mother arises spontaneously, when the baby's vision is very weak, by smelling the smell of the mother's body to produce a sense of security, when the vision becomes stronger, the most seen is the mother's loving eyes when feeding.
Later in life, the attachment between the baby and the mother also continues to heat up. Although the child's growth process can not be missing any family members, but have to admit that the role of the father can never catch up with the mother.
In this way, when children are abducted, it means that they will never see their mothers, and coupled with strange factors in the environment, it will accelerate their autism.
This kind of psychological problem experienced in childhood, even if it can be alleviated, will still be manifested in adulthood, such as being indifferent to family affection and insecure about feelings.
The guidance of adoptive parents plays a major role
When the child is abducted, he is originally missing the care of his parents, becoming suspicious, and if the adoptive parents do not double their compensation for him, his life will be ruined from then on.
After all, it is a small child, and their three tubes have not yet been fully formed, and they do not even know how to express their emotions. Although many children can grow normally without receiving scientific education, the effect must be poor.
There are many more problems and contradictions in them than the latter. This is also an important reason for advocating science education in recent years!
Today's Topic:
What would you do if your child was abducted? Do you want to take your life?