Speaking of Wang Jun, many people are unfamiliar with this name.
Everyone may not know her, but they must know her husband, Wang Shihuai.
Wang Shihuai is an excellent actor, who has participated in wonderful works such as "Red Carpet Black Dream", "Tea Horse Ancient Road", "Give Me a Reason to Love", "Breaking Ground".
Wang Shihuai and Wang Jun were first in love, broke up because of family reasons, and did not expect to meet again many years later.
After the reunion, the two cherish each other extraordinarily.
Wang Yun did not care that Wang Shihuai had been divorced, that he was sick with a mentally retarded son, and was willing to take care of the children with him.
Wang Jun's getting along with his mentally handicapped stepson is a good story.
Wang Yun was born into an ordinary family in Hefei, Anhui Province.
Her childhood, like that of ordinary people, grew up in play.
After going to school, her parents did not have high requirements for her, hoping that her daughter could study hard, have a stable job in the future, and find a good man to marry and have children.
On the other hand, Wang Shihuai's parents also hope that their son will study hard and marry and have children in the future.
Wang Shihuai is different from Wang Jun in that he has had a dream of being an actor since he was a child and hopes to go to art school.
When he was fine at home, he would imitate the characters in the movie, be seen by his parents and reprimand him, and the idea of being an actor was snuffed out in the cradle by his parents.
Because of this decision by Wang Shihuai's parents, he met Wang Jun.
In 1972, at the age of 15, Wang Shihuai entered Hefei No. 9 Middle School and became a classmate with Wang Jun.
On the day of the opening of the school, Wang Shihuai met Wang Yun on the campus and was deeply attracted by the youthful and beautiful Wang Jun.
Unexpectedly, Wang Shihuai and this female classmate were classmates, and he was secretly happy in his heart.
Wang Shihuai wanted to share the table with Wang Yun and took the initiative to ask her if she would like to.
Wang Yun was frightened by Wang Shihuai's impulse, but still nodded, indicating that he was willing to be at the same table with him.
Later, Wang Yun and Wang Shihuai went to and from school together, studied together, and talked about ideals together.
They are often teased by classmates to say "it's a couple". The two men looked at each other and smiled, bowing their heads shyly.
The two children who had just opened their love sinuses did not understand love, and neither of them dared to open their mouths.
Immediately after graduating from high school, Wang Yun and Wang Shihuai faced different choices.
Under the arrangement of his parents, Wang Yun chose to continue his studies. Wang Shihuai faced going up the mountain and going to the countryside.
When Wang Yun and Wang Shihuai will meet, they have no idea. Wang Shihuai did not want to miss such a good girl and decided to confess.
Wang Yun finally waited until this day and nodded in agreement.
After graduation, Wang Shihuai did not go to the mountains and go to the countryside, but chose to pursue her dream of being an actor, planning to enter the Chaohu Lake Cultural and Labor Troupe.
When he told his parents about his thoughts, the parents hesitated for a moment and said: You are all adults, you make your own decisions, and we parents do not care.
His girlfriend Wang Yun also supported him as an actor, feeling that he had the potential to be an actor and would definitely become a talent.
Wang Shihuai took the exam with confidence and successfully obtained the admission letter.
Because he was a "little white" in performance, he studied modestly in the troupe, worked hard, became an excellent drama actor, and began to perform around with the troupe.
Wang Shihuai has already established a family and proposed to his girlfriend Wang Jun.
Wang Yun took Wang Shihuai to meet her parents, and at first her parents warmly received her, and learned that Wang Shihuai was an actor, and her attitude was reversed 360 degrees.
In that era, actors were not recognized, parents felt that the job was unstable, and parents let Wang Jun and Wang Shihuai break up.
Wang Yun also wanted to confront his parents, but his boyfriend lost confidence first.
Wang Shihuai knew that Wang Yun's parents did not want to see him, had no money and no house, and Wang Yun followed him and wronged her.
One day, he asked Wang Shihuai to come out and propose to break up, and Wang Yun did not believe his ears when he heard it.
She didn't ask why, she didn't hold back, and turned away. Wang Shihuai looked at her back and couldn't let go for a long time.
What he didn't know was that Wang Yun was already in tears and couldn't accept breaking up with her boyfriend in his heart.
This incident hit her very hard, it took a while to come out, and the parents looked at their daughter decadent, very distressed, and a little regret to stop the relationship.
After the breakup, Wang Jun and Wang Shihuai also had no contact, and each struggled for life.
In 1977, Wang Jun had already gone to Japan to study, and Wang Shihuai was still performing in the troupe.
He was not satisfied with the status quo, just when the college entrance examination was resumed, he decided to enter the "Shanghai Theater Academy" and study acting.
The first college entrance examination, no matter how old you are, everyone has a dream of going to college, everyone is eager to try, but there are not many opportunities.
The Shanghai Theater Academy has tens of thousands of schools taking the exam and only recruits 5 students.
Wang Shihuai was under great pressure, and for this opportunity, he studied desperately, except for sleeping, other times were used for rehearsals.
A book can be rehearsed hundreds of times a day, and every action and expression is studied repeatedly.
Kung Fu paid off, Wang Shihuai got the acceptance letter for the play, and the whole family was happy.
Wang Shihuai was not happy because of this, he knew that he had a lot of places to study, and he often studied performance with his teachers after the school started, and he was an excellent student in the school.
In 1981, Wang Shihuai graduated, and the Shanghai Film Factory threw an olive branch at him.
He himself also wanted to stay in Shanghai, and according to the distribution situation at that time, where to go back and forth, he was assigned to the Anhui Provincial Repertory Theatre.
Wang Shihuai can only return to his hometown to develop, he is unwilling, and has been looking for opportunities to gain a foothold in Shanghai.
Three years later, Wang Shihuai got the opportunity to shoot a scene, but he did not expect superb acting skills, so that he once again attracted the attention of Shanghai Film Studio.
This time, no matter what obstacles there are, the Shanghai Film Studio must sign Wang Shihuai. He was very happy and finally wanted to enter the unit of his choice.
Not only is the career booming, but also the love is ushered in.
Zhang Xiaoming is an actor and a colleague of Wang Shihuai.
Because of the work, two strange young people are intertwined.
Wang Shihuai fell in love with Zhang Xiaoming at first sight and began to pursue her wildly, sincerely paying to impress Zhang Xiaoming.
Usually, the two are busy at work and can only find time to meet without work.
In such a relationship, Wang Shihuai and Zhang Xiaoming's feelings quickly warmed up, and they planned to get a license to marry.
After marriage, they did not give up their jobs and were still busy. But in 1984, Zhang Xiaoming became pregnant and slowed down her work.
After the birth of the child, Wang Shihuai wanted her wife to take care of the child at home, and she did not want to give up her career and wanted to go out to work early.
The two were deadlocked, and Wang Shihuai could only compromise.
Usually, the two of them, who have free time who take care of the children, so that when the children are sick, they can't take the children to the doctor at the first time.
On that day, Wang Shihuai and Zhang Xiaoyue both had jobs and could only hand over their children to their parents. As a result, the child had a high fever, and the grandparents did not find it.
Later, the grandson kept crying before he realized that it was not right, and he touched his forehead and burned it. When the child was taken to the hospital, he had gone from a high fever to pneumonia.
After the doctor's treatment, the pneumonia was cured, but Wang Shihuai's son was mentally impaired and mentally retarded all his life.
Wang Shihuai was very guilty, because he neglected his son at work, which caused his son, who was less than one year old, to fall ill.
He also blamed his wife for working so early and not taking care of the children.
In later life, Wang Shihuai and his wife Zhang Xiaoming often quarreled for three days and a big quarrel for two days because of this matter, and all their feelings were quarreled.
In 1987, when his son was 3 years old, Wang Shihuai divorced his wife, and he and his mentally handicapped son depended on each other.
After the divorce, Wang Shihuai reduced her work for her son and tried to spend as much time as possible with her son.
However, the cost of his son's medical treatment is high, and the salary of filming cannot be maintained for a long time, and he can only shoot more dramas, so that he has no time to accompany his son.
Wang Shihuai is difficult to make a decision, after careful consideration, for the sake of her son's health, choose to shoot more dramas, and accompany her son at home when she is not working.
When the film remuneration arrived, he took his son to the major hospitals in Shanghai to find a treatment. Every time I heard the same answer, the doctor couldn't do anything about it.
Wang Shihuai did not believe that there must be a way to cure her son, while filming, while seeking medical treatment, this state of life has been maintained for 12 years.
At the end of the 90s of the last century, I did not expect to meet my first love Wang Jun again.
Since Wang Shihuai's divorce, she has been worrying about her son's affairs, and has no time to think about lifelong events, and sometimes she thinks about her son's life.
The appearance of Wang Yun has given him hope for marriage again.
When Wang Shihuai returned to her hometown to pick up her son to see a doctor, Wang Yun returned to Anhui from Japan, and she did not expect the two to meet.
Wang Shihuai and Wang Yun had not seen each other for many years, and the two were still a little shy and did not know what to say.
He took the initiative to break the embarrassment and said: I haven't seen you for many years, please eat.
At the dinner table, the two talked away. Wang Yun was very distressed about Wang Shihuai, and it was not easy for a person to bear so much.
In the past few years that Wang Yun went to Japan, because of doing business, he has always been single, and he has talked several times in the middle, but he has not had a problem.
Wang Shihuai advised her: She is not young and should consider getting married. She said: I didn't meet the right person.
Later, Wang Shihuai and Wang Yun regained contact, and the small flame of love also burned again and became together again.
Wang Shihuai was divorced and took a mentally handicapped child, and Wang Yun did not mind at all and was willing to take care of him with him.
But he was entangled in his heart, if marriage was unfair to Wang Jun, he could only suffer with himself, and wang Yun's conditions could find a better and live a happy life.
He took the initiative to talk to Wang Yun about this topic: You and I are married, and we have children with intellectual disabilities, and our lives will not be so easy.
Wang Yun said: I have also thought about this problem, although I am not the mother of the child, I am willing to take care of the child as if it were my own child, and do my best.
Wang Shihuai was very touched to hear these words.
Wang Shihuai and Wang Yun put the marriage on the agenda, Wang Yun told his parents to marry his first love, the parents were still quite surprised, although they were not satisfied with his conditions, but did not say anything.
They did not hold a grand wedding ceremony, and simply ate a meal and then went through the door.
After marriage, Wang Yun and Wang Shihuai took care of their mentally handicapped son together, in fact, more time was spent on Wang Yun taking care of it.
In the past, Wang Shihuai returned home, accompanied her son to do rehabilitation training, fed his son food and medicine, and wiped his body.
Now wang yun is doing these things, not too bitter, not too tired, and takes care of his stepson every year.
Wang Shihuai was distressed about his wife, and when she was at home, she wanted to help take care of her son, but she was stopped by her wife. Wang Yun told him: You can rest well.
Because I was tired enough from filming, I didn't want him to come home and work well.
Wang Shihuai is very touched, and she must shoot well to support her family, and now she is at ease with her work.
There is a wife Wang Jun at home, do not worry about the son's condition, whether you eat well and sleep well.
Because Wang Yun put all her energy on her stepson, under her careful care, the stepson's body recovered well, and every day it was developing in a good direction.
Now the stepson is no different from normal people, has learned to eat, but also learned talent, Wang Yun is very pleased, with the stepson proud.
Wang Shihuai and Wang Yun have been married for two years, and have been taking care of their stepson, and have not considered having children of their own. Parents on both sides urged them and kept being vague.
Wang Yun is because the stepson does not want children, afraid that the stepson will mind that he has children, afraid that the stepson will think that his parents do not love him.
And Wang Jun's heart still wants his own children, whenever he sees the situation of the stepson, he gives up such a thought, and the stepson cannot leave people around.
Wang Shihuai wanted to have another child, and knowing that his wife also wanted it, he persuaded her to have one. Wang Yun refused.
He did not give up and continued: When they are old and their sons are alone and have no one to take care of, how sad we should be. We have a child, and the child can help the son.
A word awakened the dreamer, and Wang Yun felt that this child should be born. It didn't take long for their daughter to be born and the whole family was very happy.
For this daughter, Wang Shihuai is very loving, pushing off work to accompany her daughter to grow, he is afraid of neglecting the care of her daughter because of work.
Under the care of Wang Shihuai, her daughter grew up healthy and strong, and was the "pistachio" of the family.
After having a daughter, Wang Yun did not ignore his stepson, and even his energy was on his stepson.
Sometimes, when the daughter and the stepson have conflicts, she is all towards the stepson and does not let the daughter bully her brother.
What the stepson wants, Wang Yun will buy for the stepson, and the things that her daughter likes, she will consider it again and again.
Wang Yun treated his stepson better than his own daughter.
She is a competent mother, and Wang Shihuai's second marriage to her is a blessing cultivated in the previous life.
Later, Wang Shihuai took the filming remuneration, bought a villa in the suburbs of Shanghai, and the family of four lived in it, and also brought her parents from her hometown to her home.
Usually, when he was busy at work and was not at home, he was afraid that his wife Wang Jun's two children would not be able to take care of him, so he asked his parents to help.
The in-laws and mother-in-law were old, and Wang Yun was reluctant to let them help, and even served them himself, afraid that they would not be used to it when they first came to Shanghai.
The in-laws like to farm, so she will give them a small piece of land in the yard to grow some vegetables.
Wang Shihuai reduced her work, helped her wife at home, went to shoot a script she liked, and did not watch the children at home.
With a wife, children, and parents around, Wang Shihuai's life is very happy and satisfying. He was able to get out of the divorce dilemma because he married Wang Jun.
Wang Yun is a good mother, a good wife, and a good daughter-in-law.
She was willing to do this for Wang Shihuai because of love.
Because love and Wang Shihuai are intertwined, because I love my mentally handicapped stepson, because I love filial piety to my in-laws and mother-in-law.
Wang Yun is a great woman.
The most selfless, the most sincere, the greatest in the world is love.