There is no one who does not aspire to a good marriage, but not everyone can get what they want.
In the face of the derailment of the article, Ma Yili bluntly said that "marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished", and generously chose to forgive.
But five years later, the two announced their divorce.
When there is betrayal in a marriage, the relationship is in jeopardy and can collapse at any time.
But can a marriage without betrayal really come to an end smoothly?
Wang Shihuai and his first wife were like-minded and soon talked about marriage.
In the first year of marriage, he ushered in a new life, but he preferred that the scene was not long, and the asphyxiation caused by pneumonia caused by pneumonia made his son less than one year old mentally impaired.
The hearts of the husband and wife were like knives, and a rift gradually arose because of this.
There is no vulgar betrayal scene, and the two still come to the strange road.
Living in guilt and self-blame, Wang Shihuai took her son around to seek medical treatment while working.
Perhaps God can't bear it, although his son's illness has not been completely cured, but he has met his first love.
"I will take good care of the child, don't be afraid of me being tired, I want to be with you, what are you afraid of?"
Shocked by the bravery and affection of his first love, Wang Shihuai took a step forward and stepped out of his new life...
The young man has his own Ling Yunzhi, but he can lament the short fate
On November 27, 1957, Wang Shihuai was born in Hefei, Anhui Province.
He has been fond of literature and art since he was a child, and successfully passed the examination of the Anhui Provincial Song and Dance Troupe at the age of 12.
But the little boy was full of joy and waited to join the group, but his father stopped his dream.
It turned out that his parents were intellectuals, and he hoped that the child could also "cherish the valley of Tibetan and ink".
"You are still young, it is a good time to study, don't think about the mess, or focus on your studies first!"
Under the slightly strong advice of her parents, Wang Shihuai gave up her eligibility to join the group.
Wang Shihuai, who went to school with peace of mind and was smart since she was a child, has always been among the best in grades from primary school to junior high school.
When he graduated from middle school, he was admitted to Hefei Ninth High School with excellent results.
This is Anhui's provincial model high school, and those who can be admitted are top students.
It was also in this school that Wang Shihuai met her junior high school classmate Wang Jun.
Young people are always simple and enthusiastic.
When she met her old classmates in the new environment, Wang Shihuai was overjoyed and subconsciously became close to Wang Jun.
Borrowing things, asking questions, chatting and playing games, he was always the first thing that came to mind.
Wang Jun, who had just entered school, was also very uncomfortable, and in the face of the warm greetings of her old classmates, she always smiled and nodded in agreement.
High school life was intense and fulfilling, and it didn't take long for the two to fully integrate into their new environment.
When they met at the mouth of the alley, they went to school with the morning breeze.
Sitting together in the cafeteria, they discuss learning challenges at the dinner table.
If the teacher is interesting in class one day, they will secretly look at each other.
At a hurried glance, there was a joy that neither of them had noticed.
Those serendipitous encounters gradually became default conventions.
The tacit heartbeat has made the simple and ignorant love between the two people.
The young feelings slowly ferment with the fragrance of books, and the longer they go, the stronger they get.
But as graduation approaches, their chances of meeting begin to diminish.
Because she could not participate in the college entrance examination, Wang Shihuai was admitted to the Chaohu District Art Troupe with her love for literature and art.
Wang Jun, who did not have an artistic idea, went to work in a factory arranged by his family.
It was not until 1977 that the news of the resumption of the college entrance examination came.
The two immediately agreed to go to university together.
It coincided with the Shanghai Theatre Academy setting up an examination center in Anhui.
Faced with this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, Wang Shihuai's heart was inevitably moved.
There are only 5 places to admit, but there are 50,000 applicants.
"I still have work to do every day in the art troupe, but this opportunity is so rare that I can only seize all the time to learn!" As long as there are no rehearsals and performances, I go back to my dorm room to review my homework. ”
Kung Fu is not worthy of his heart, plus Wang Shihuai originally studied well, he was admitted!
At this time, Wang Jun also delivered good news, she was admitted to Hefei University.
The dust settled, and the two finally fell in love.
Because they could not meet often, they chose to exchange feelings by letter.
"Wang Jun, I have been selected as the male protagonist of the drama "Sunrise"! I've been busy rehearsing lately, I can't communicate often, you have to take good care of yourself..."
Hongyan passed the book, and the paper was short and long.
The days of sending letters also lasted three years.
In the fourth year, feeling that the relationship was at its best, the young couple began to take each other to meet their parents.
To Wang Shihuai's surprise, Wang Jun's parents expressed strong opposition to their romance.
It turned out that the profession of actor was not favored at that time, and Wang Jun's parents were even more conservative.
"What future can the drama have? Work is tiring and unstable, and it's not decent to talk about it! If you really get married, how will he take care of the family? How to take care of you? We have to plan for your future happiness! ”
Wang Jun did not listen to her parents, she kept persuading, trying to make them let go of their prejudices.
Wang Shihuai did not give up, he tried his best to show the second elder that he was both an upright and self-motivated person.
However, the two old men were iron-hearted and refused to accept it.
In love for six years, they walked through each other's youth.
From secretly happy to loving, they made the most sincere promises to each other.
I thought it was a childhood sweetheart and a match made in heaven, but I couldn't survive the difficulty of Wang Jun's parents.
They have no choice but to break up.
The ambition is rewarding the disaster, and the relationship is broken by Lizhi
After graduating from university, Wang Shihuai was assigned to work in the Anhui Provincial Repertory Troupe.
Here he met his first wife, Zhang Xiaoming.
Because they have the same ideal hobbies, the two gradually became acquainted.
And Wang Shihuai, who was busy with work, also buried her first love in her heart.
In 1982, Shanghai Film Studio invited Wang Shihuai to play the male number one in "Zhang Heng".
But when the director saw him, he was not very satisfied.
"You can't support this role now, so it's better to play Feng Shaoqing!"
From male number one to male number two, it is fake to say that you don't mind.
But instead of being sentimental, Wang Shihuai devoted herself more attentively to the shooting.
The experience of being replaced made Wang Shihuai realize the importance of ability.
"There will not be only one male number one invitation, the important thing is whether you can seize it."
When the crew of "Hua Luogeng" recruited actors in 1983, he successfully seized the opportunity with his acting skills.
It is not easy to play a well-known mathematician, but Wang Shihuai shows Hua Luogeng's love and dedication to his career to the fullest with his accurate grasp of the role.
Subsequently, he won the audition opportunity for the highlight of the year of the Shanghai Film Studio - "Drifting Adventure".
Although there are not many lines of the protagonist drifter, he has a rich inner world.
Wang Shihuai used movements to express her mood and convey her feelings with her eyes, and passed the audition with a delicate performance.
Because of this drama, he won the recognition of the director and the love of the audience, and was also transferred to the Shanghai Film Studio.
After entering the new environment, Wang Shihuai put more energy into her interpretation career.
from the handsome "Fang Dasheng" in "Sunrise" to the "crappy brother" in "On the Water Side";
From the handsome "He Mutian" in "A Few Sunsets Red" to the male protagonist "Cao Dongming" in the horror film "Two O'Clock at Midnight".
He not only won the first Acting Society Award for "Sunrise", but also completely became a household name.
The acting career is in full swing, but Wang Shihuai's marriage has come to an end.
He and his wife Zhang Xiaoming became acquainted because of the drama, and because of their like-mindedness, the two soon entered the stage of talking about marriage.
In the year when Wang Shihuai filmed "Hua Luogeng", they also entered the palace of marriage.
Stills from the TV series "Hua Luogeng"
At that time, the salary of actors was average, in order to earn more money, and for his dreams and career, Wang Shihuai was either filming or on the way to filming.
He had no time to take care of the big and small affairs of the family, and he threw his brain on his wife.
In order to subsidize his family, Zhang Xiaoming did not give up his job.
She is both a teacher in the theater, an actor in the theater, and sometimes a director behind the scenes, living out as a workaholic.
After work, she became a housewife, mopping the floor, doing laundry, cooking, and cooking.
High-intensity work and trivial housework will inevitably crush people, and Zhang Xiaoming can't help but complain.
"Is this my home alone? The husband can't even see a figure! ”
Not long after, Zhang Xiaoming became pregnant, and the burden of life became heavier.
Faced with the financial pressure brought by the child, before his son Wang Haiping grew up to half a year old, Zhang Xiaoming went back to work.
Because the salaries of the two were not high, Wang Shihuai did not think about it, just to raise children and take on more plays.
But he also missed the exhaustion in his wife's eyes just like that.
In the fall of 1984, Wang Shihuai, who was filming "The Storm of Honeymoon" in Hangzhou, took time to return to Shanghai to see her children.
I don't know if it's a coincidence or lucky, he caught up with his son's suffocation caused by pneumonia.
Fortunately, the neighbor upstairs was a doctor, and he treated his son in time, which saved Xiao Haiping's life.
The couple hurriedly sent their son to the hospital, and after some diagnosis and treatment, the doctor announced that the child had caused brain cell necrosis due to lack of oxygen in the brain, and the intellectual damage would not be able to recover.
Hearing this news, Wang Shihuai's heart was painful, and Zhang Xiaoming was even more unable to cry.
The son's affair gave them a blow.
Only then did Wang Shihuai and Zhang Xiaoming realize how incompetent they were as parents!
After getting married, they neglected to manage the family and were busy with work even after the birth of their children.
Blaming themselves, feeling guilty about their children, and even complaining about each other, all these emotions almost suffocate them.
But they also know that no matter how sad they are, the child will not be fine.
Wang Shihuai's scene has not finished filming, even if he no longer wants to leave, he has to return to the crew first.
It hurts to think of his son, and only busy work can temporarily free him from difficult emotions.
But he can not think about it because of work, but Zhang Xiaoming, who is taking care of his son at home alone, cannot.
Xiao Haiping's every cry tore her heart, and she lived in self-torture almost every day.
Inevitably, she also complained about her husband who was filming outside.
When Wang Shihuai finally finished her work, Zhang Xiaoming could no longer face him and his children.
The relationship could no longer be maintained, and their marriage came to an end.
It has been difficult to raise a son for twelve years, and it is difficult to refuse to continue the front edge affectionately
After the divorce, Wang Shihuai took on the heavy responsibility of raising her son alone.
In order to facilitate the care of Xiao Haiping, he also tried his best to choose scenes filmed locally in Shanghai.
His son was mentally impaired and slow to learn things, so he took the trouble to teach it over and over again.
Under his patient teaching, Xiao Haiping not only learned to speak, but also learned some basic life skills.
From stumbling "I'm hungry" to picking up a spoon to eat.
Her son's small learning achievements made Wang Shihuai happier than she won the grand prize.
With his hard work, Wang Haiping finally entered primary school.
Wang Shihuai thought that she was a little more relaxed, but she didn't expect the accident to happen again.
That day, he went to pick up his son from school as usual, but the child suddenly fell to the ground, foaming at the mouth and convulsing, he hurriedly carried the child to the hospital, but was told that the child had epilepsy.
His son's condition needed more careful care, and he couldn't take care of it alone, so he took his parents over from his hometown.
Since then, as long as Wang Shihuai does not film, he will accompany his son at home.
He took his son to major hospitals in Shanghai and actively sought better treatment.
Even when filming in other places, Wang Shihuai did not forget to inquire about famous local doctors and prescriptions.
From tertiary hospitals in the city center to individual clinics in remote townships.
As long as he heard that it could cure or improve the child's symptoms, he would run over to see it himself.
The bumpy experience made Wang Shihuai no longer believe in fate, but he did not expect that fate would also favor him.
That day, as usual, he took his son to seek medical treatment, but met his first love, Wang Jun.
After a long absence, the two will inevitably exchange pleasantries.
Wang Shihuai then knew that soon after they separated, Wang Jun went abroad to study, and now he is also single.
And Wang Jun was also embarrassed after hearing what Wang Shihuai had suffered over the years, and bluntly said that he did not expect him to experience such a thing.
At the beginning of the hasty separation, no amount of emotion turned into regret.
Now that I see you again, I don't know whether to lament the impermanence of fate or say that fate is not ending.
After this chance encounter, the contact between the two became close again unconsciously.
Wang Jun was moved by Wang Shihuai's strength, and Wang Shihuai was also moved again by Wang Jun's gentleness.
A heartbeat that transcends time has made the two people who have experienced the world finally come together again.
Promising Wang Jun that she would never be wronged, they got married.
After getting married, Wang Jun stayed at home to take care of Wang Haiping wholeheartedly, so that Wang Shihuai could work with peace of mind.
She treated Wang Haiping as her own, and little by little she learned to get along with him and teach him instead of Wang Shihuai.
Feeding medicine, bathing, rehabilitation, she never pretends to be anyone.
She is more careful and patient than Wang Shihuai, and Wang Haiping's health has become better and better under her care.
When Wang Shihuai was concentrating on filming, Wang Jun gave birth to a daughter for him.
He was thrilled and grateful to his wife.
Wang Jun did not treat Haiping badly because of the birth of his own daughter, and he still treated him very well.
Wang Haiping also likes his sister very much, he knows that he is now his brother, he wants to set an example for his sister, and even when studying, he will no longer fool around.
Perhaps my sister can also feel the love of her brother, she has been clinging to Wang Haiping since she was a child.
Wang Haiping also let her cling, took her to play, and made trouble by her.
He didn't know much, but he knew to take good care of his sister.
From toddler to school, he took his sister's hand and escorted her all the way up.
When my sister grew up, she didn't change her attitude towards her brother, but treated him better.
She took Wang Haiping out to play and introduced him to her friends.
How her brother used to take care of her, how she takes care of her brother now.
Take him to the hospital, help him prepare medicine, accompany him to training...
"Look, I can take good care of my brother too!"
The older she gets, the more Wang Shihuai is worried about Wang Haiping's illness and worries about what she should do when she is not in Haiping.
Wang Jun did not have such worries, not only was she not worried, but she couldn't help but laugh at Wang Shihuai's sentimentality.
Wang Shihuai with Wang Jun and their daughter
"I know the children I taught, not to mention how worry-free Haiping himself is now, and how bad is his sister? Even if he can't take care of himself, that girl won't let her brother suffer a little grievance, don't worry about you! ”
Wang Jun's words alleviated Wang Shihuai's worries, and he gradually relaxed his heart when he watched his children take care of each other.
"If life deceives you, don't be sad, don't be anxious!
Be calm in the days of melancholy: believe it, happy days are coming! ”
Although Wang Shihuai's first half of his life was quite unsmooth, he never let himself immerse himself in sad emotions, he was always in action and never gave up.
Now there are virtuous and capable wives, sensible and lovely children, and the pains that used to be have finally been smoothed by the happy life now.