In 1981, 24-year-old Wang Shihuai was angrily scolded by his girlfriend's father for "get out", he looked at Wang Jun, who was in tears, and felt ashamed, lowered his head and turned to open the door to leave.
A few minutes ago, Wang Shihuai met the parents of his first love girlfriend, and the other party was very satisfied with seeing him tall and handsome, so he asked about his profession, and Wang Shihuai proudly replied, "I am an actor."
The second elder immediately lowered his face, turned his head and scolded his daughter: "How did you find such an unreliable person, what is an actor?" It's a drama, the job is unstable, and it doesn't earn money or decency, so I quickly broke up with him and went to Japan."
In this way, they met and fell in love in high school, and they broke up completely in their senior year.
But later, when Wang Shihuai divorced and took care of her son alone, the two reunited with their deceased, and they were no longer young, they got rid of the confinement of their parents, and also understood the true meaning of love, and joined hands again, and the fire of rekindling old love burned for a lifetime...
01 High school meets first love
Wang Shihuai came from a very ordinary working-class family, but her parents were intellectuals, and the most important thing since she was a child was cultural edification.
Because his father particularly likes poetry and songs, all kinds of books at home are almost piled up on the shelves, and Wang Shihuai likes to read since he was a child under the influence of his father, and his personality is also quiet and artistic.
As she entered primary school, Wang Shihuai's height improved by leaps and bounds, and in the sixth grade, she completely stood out from the crowd, and her temperament became more and more than her age.
At the age of 12, facing a small promotion, Wang Shihuai got a great opportunity, and the local Anhui song and dance troupe saw him as a good seedling and took the initiative to invite him to join the troupe.
Wang Shihuai was very moved, he admired literary and art workers since he was a child, but his parents resolutely refused.
The child is still young, and he needs cultural edification to increase the connotation, not to mention that hobbies are just hobbies, if they are regarded as a lifelong career, they are not doing business.
Rejected by her parents, Wang Shihuai showed a disappointed look on her face, but he also understood that his parents' words made sense, many people in those days could not even afford to eat, let alone chase their dreams.
In 1972, he was successfully admitted to high school and met his first love, Wang Jun.
The first time the two met was at the gate of the school, Wang Shihuai said goodbye to her parents and walked to the newspaper place alone carrying a large bag and a small bag.
A beautiful girl walked up, the other party was tall and tall, with exquisite facial features, her face was red after looking at herself, she turned around and left, Wang Shihuai's heart jumped, and her ears were red.
After that, she walked into the classroom and waited patiently for the teacher to assign seats, and Wang Shihuai suddenly found that the beautiful girl she met today was actually her classmate.
He immediately shouted at the teacher: "Can I be at the same table with her?" The teacher had no opinion, and Wang Jun did not refuse.
The first love is the most ignorant, they don't understand what "like" is, they only know that they want to talk to each other after class.
After learning that Wang Jun likes to listen to songs, Wang Shihuai also stole his father's baby radio to school, and as long as there was time, the two would go to listen to music under the tree.
Many classmates realized that they were close and even often coaxed the two to "be together", Wang Shihuai and Wang Jun never refuted after hearing it, but lowered their heads and smiled.
After four years of getting along, the two had long established a relationship and got along very harmoniously and happily, until the relationship between the two ushered in the first big turmoil after graduation.
02 The art troupe exercised for two years, and was broken up after graduating from the theater
Wang Shihuai was told that she needed to "go to the countryside", and her parents were red in the eye, reluctant to let the child leave her suddenly.
Wang Jun is also very sad, afraid that Wang Shihuai has been gone for several years, you know, in that era when long-distance lovers can only rely on letters, once separated by thousands of miles, maybe they will really never see each other again.
When Wang Shihuai was anxious, he got the good news that the Chaohu Art Troupe was recruiting, and he directly signed up for an interview and started a two-year career as a literary and artistic light cavalryman.
After joining the troupe, Wang Shihuai has been rapidly transformed, on the basis of learning singing, drama, dance, and performance, he has also become a host, choir member, and sketch actor.
In 1977, the great policy came and the college entrance examination resumed, he and Wang Jun decided to sign up together, one was successfully admitted to the theater, and the other entered a well-known university in Anhui.
Wang Shihuai's application experience is very difficult, the theater is very well-known, the local registration candidates are as high as tens of thousands, the interview and written test took ten days to finish, but the school only needs five new students, which means that every admitter is the pride of heaven.
On the eve of the interview, Wang Shihuai was busy with the work of the art troupe during the day and secretly practiced by herself at night, and finally successfully obtained the admission letter.
Of course, "holding Buddha's feet on the verge of death" is not the reason for Wang Shihuai's success, and the two years of basic skills accumulated in the Art Troupe are the key to his university places.
Coupled with his handsome image and steady temperament, he naturally became fragrant in the eyes of the interview teacher.
After entering the school, Wang Shihuai worked very hard, got up early every day to train, and did not return to the dormitory to rest until the lights were turned off late at night.
He and Wang Jun write a letter every week to express their thoughts about each other and tell interesting stories about the week.
In his sophomore year, Wang Shihuai began to participate in dramas, and his excellent appearance was recognized by the Shanghai Film Studio, hoping that he could give up his studies and directly play the male protagonist of "Pen in Love".
But at that time, the school did not want to release people, and Wang Shihuai herself was not mentally prepared for "sudden employment", so she gave up this opportunity and planned to consider whether to go to Beijing or Shanghai after graduation.
In 1981, near the end of his senior year, he decided to go to the Shanghai Film Studio, but was told that there was a new policy, and he came from there, and returned to work there after graduation, and his relationship with Wang Jun also came to an end.
Before deciding to work, Wang Shihuai first went to his girlfriend's house to meet his parents, and the chat atmosphere was very good at first, until he told the second elder about his profession, and was immediately treated coldly.
Wang Jun's parents looked down on Wang Shihuai's profession, believing that he was a dramatist, undignified and unstable.
Wang Shihuai didn't want to give up her career, nor did she want to let go of Wang Jun's hand, so the second elder made a quick decision and directly booked a ticket to Japan to send her daughter to a foreign country.
After a complete breakup, Wang Shihuai was very painful, so he focused on his hometown repertory troupe, and he vowed to get ahead.
03 entered the film and married actor Zhang Xiaoming, and divorced
In 1983, Wang Shihuai's works were launched one after another, among which the film and television drama "Zhang Heng" starred as a supporting actor greatly increased his popularity.
In fact, at the beginning, the director originally wanted him to play Zhang Heng as the protagonist, but after seeing his depressed appearance due to lost love, he did not dare to let him pick the girder, and retreated to give Feng Shaoqing to him.
The popularity has been improved, Wang Shihuai gradually found the best state, "Hua Luogeng" announced that he took the initiative to come to the door, and the Hua Luogeng played by him is almost exactly the same as himself in terms of image and demeanor.
In 1984, he finally got the opportunity to enter the film and married Zhang Xiaoming.
Who is Zhang Xiaoming? He was a college classmate of Wang Shihuai, and the two were often assigned to an acting group when they were in the theater.
At that time, Wang Shihuai was always criticized by teachers because of his desire to perform, and Zhang Xiaoming would take the initiative to explain when he was reprimanded for being depressed.
Later, the two often followed the teacher to perform in other places, and they were all typical "desperate three women" types, and naturally had endless performance topics.
It was one winter, Zhang Xiaoming was wearing a cool dress to perform on the stage, and after the end, his face was red from the cold, his body couldn't stop shaking, and Wang Shihuai was distressed and draped his coat directly on her.
After graduation, Zhang Xiaoming stayed directly in Shanghai Film because he was a local, and Wang Shihuai also came here after three years of hard work.
Reunited again, the relationship between the two quickly warmed up and got married, and a year later their son Wang Haiping was born.
The arrival of the child did not make this little family happier, but quarreled constantly. They are all excellent actors, there are continuous film appointments, and no one is willing to take the initiative to give up their careers, and the rest of their lives only revolve around children and firewood, rice, oil and salt.
Haiping grew up under the supervision of neighbors, and it was not until he was two years old that he was caught in asphyxia shock due to pneumonia that the couple realized the importance of accompanying their children.
Hearing that the child was critically ill, the couple rushed back until ten days later.
However, although the child woke up, he severely damaged brain cells due to asphyxia, decreased intelligence, and suffered from permanent epilepsy.
Zhang Xiaoming and Wang Shihuai were extremely distressed, scolding each other and accusing each other of being too busy with work and not fulfilling any of their responsibilities as parents.
After that, the two took the initiative to give up part of their work and stay at home to accompany their children, but they did not expect that family conflicts would become more and more serious, and they often quarreled over some trivial matters.
Coupled with the fact that the child's situation is becoming less and less optimistic, often committing epilepsy, they are very exhausted, and their love is gradually exhausted, and they are quietly divorced a year later, and the child is raised by Wang Shihuai.
Because she realized that the child really could not leave the company of adults, Wang Shihuai decided to take her son to work, and without his role, she took her son to play nearby, and when she came to his scene, she asked her colleagues to take care of it.
After work, he rarely participates in dinner, but goes home to help his son take a bath and then lull him to sleep, and the rest of the night is the most relaxing time of the day, he can listen to songs, or review the script.
Wang Shihuai's parents felt sorry for their son, so they decided to move from their hometown to Shanghai to take care of his children, and with the help of the elderly, Wang Shihuai was finally able to let go of his hands and feet to break into his career.
Of course, when he is not busy, he will also take his children to various places to seek medical treatment, hoping to help his son cure epilepsy.
The child who has lost his mother is most greedy for his father's embrace, so even if his father takes himself to see a doctor every time he has to take medicine afterwards, the child is also very happy, because at this time, he can get the father's full care.
And when he learned that his father was going on a business trip again, he cried loudly, and every time he saw his son crying so miserably, he secretly decided that he would resolutely never marry again in the future, and he was afraid that his new wife would not treat his son well.
04 After divorce, he took care of his mentally disabled son, and remarried his first love after the second marriage
In 1996, Wang Shihuai, who had just walked out of Hefei Airport, took her son and prepared to go to a doctor who treated epilepsy.
As soon as he stopped the taxi, a familiar figure made him unable to take his eyes off, the other party turned out to be Wang Jun, she had returned from Japan.
Wang Jun naturally noticed him, and saw the little boy beside him, and immediately understood that his former first love was married.
Wang Shihuai plucked up her courage and asked, "Can I invite you to a meal?" ", Wang Jun nodded in agreement.
At the dinner table, Wang Shihuai took the initiative to tell the other party what she had experienced over the years, including divorce.
Wang Jun confessed that she has not lived well for so many years, although she has a decent job in Japan, but she has never had a confidant, and her life is very lonely.
Before leaving, Wang Shihuai took the initiative to ask for contact information, and in this way, in addition to work and taking care of his son, he had another task, making cross-border calls with Wang Jun in his spare time.
But he did not take the initiative to reconcile, because he did not know whether the other party could accept his son and treat his son well after marriage.
Wang Jun told him the answer with practical actions, as long as she returned to China, she would buy a variety of toys and supplements for her children, and she was usually very concerned about her children's health, and when she saw dust on her children's bodies and faces, she would gently wipe them off.
Although the child is small, he can clearly feel the kindness of the other party, and as long as he gets along with Wang Jun, he will lie in her arms and not leave.
That day, Wang Jun and Wang Shihuai were walking on the street, Wang Jun suddenly confessed: "I am not Haiping's biological mother, but I will definitely treat him with a good conscience", Wang Shihuai was moved and took the initiative to hold her hand.
After marriage, Wang Shihuai was worried that Wang Jun would not be able to adapt, and took the initiative to send the child to his hometown, but he did not expect Wang Jun to refuse directly: "Haiping is so pitiful, do you want him to lose his home?" Since I am his mother now, I will love him for the rest of my life. ”
Not only that, Wang Jun also took Wang Shihuai's parents to Shanghai again to personally take care of the two elderly people in their later years.
Later, she had two daughters, she still guarded and stuck to this big family, and even feared that her daughter would bully Haiping, and constantly told her daughter to take care of her brother.
"Old drama bone" Wang Shihuai finally experienced happiness, the home was full of smoke, the elderly and children gathered together, his wife was even more considerate and gentle, and he became a winner in life!
summary
In the best years, I met my favorite lover, but in the end I was forced to let go due to external obstacles.
Fortunately, a few years later, they met again and held hands, and they were indeed lovers favored by God.
After all, in this world, there are misses and regrets, and not all of them are like them, and the two love each other again.
As early as 2005, Wang Shihuai also commented on her bumpy marriage: "Reunited again, found the lost true love, although it was late, a little late, but there is a different artistic conception, in this life and this life, I will cherish it very much."