preface
Wang Shihuai was a popular actor in the 1980s and 1990s.
He is particularly good at playing the artistic image of Elegance and Calm, deep and wise, with his solid basic skills and skilled acting skills, he has created many roles that are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
"Hua Luogeng", "On the Side of the Water", "Sunrise", "Two Midnights", "Home in Shanghai", "Moonfall Jade River", "Island Without Winter", "Tea Horse Ancient Road", "Accompanying Reading", "Give Me a Reason to Love", "Under the South Sea", "Life Apocalypse" and so on are his masterpieces.
But the life of the old drama bone is full of ups and downs and helplessness,
He was married twice, and the first marriage his ex-wife left him with only a son with epilepsy, and life was difficult.
Fortunately, not long after, he re-met his first love Wang Jun,
Wang Yun not only loves him, but also treats his epileptic son as his own,
Later, the two gave birth to a lovely daughter, and Wang Shihuai finally lived a happy life.
Now he is retired, but his life is more colorful, and he has fulfilled his dreams for many years.
01
In 1957, Wang Shihuai was born in Hefei, Anhui Province, he liked literature and art since he was a child, and he admired "literary and art workers", so at the age of 12, he was admitted to the Anhui Peking Opera Troupe and song and dance troupe.
However, his parents were very opposed to him doing this line of work, and they did not let him go to school when he was admitted, but he did not expect that later, he was wrong, and he still embarked on this road.
After graduating from high school, Wang Shihuai should have followed the guidance of her parents to go to college, but under special circumstances, he had to "go to the mountains and go to the countryside" first.
My parents are very remorseful: I knew that today, it was better to let him go to the song and dance troupe, but now it is too late to regret it.
In the end, Wang Shihuai thought of a way on his own, and he was admitted to the Chaohu Cultural and Labor Troupe with excellent results, so that he did not have to go to the mountains and go to the countryside.
The work of the cultural and labor troupe is very tedious, and it has exercised Wang Shihuai's various abilities.
They are "literary and artistic light cavalry", there is no fixed job and role, where they need to go,
The host, drama, dance drama, opera, choir, everything must be learned, which laid a solid foundation for him to enter the university later.
After the resumption of the college entrance examination in 1977, Wang Shihuai immediately enrolled in the Shanghai Theater Academy.
Here he not only reaped his career, but also met his first wife, Zhang Xiaoming.
Don't look at the literary troupe for so many years, but at the beginning, Wang Shihuai's acting teacher did not like it,
Because when he was in the literary troupe, he often performed skits, and when it came to the rehearsal of the play, he often cleverly moved the small gimmicks that had been on the stage in the past.
Although it can always make the students laugh, but the teacher looked at it and criticized him with a calm face: "Wang Shihuai, you are like a swimming fish on the stage, you can't catch it, but you have to remember that there is nothing in your heart, and no matter how wonderful the external skills are, it is only a kite with a broken line, and you can't become a good actor." ”
The teacher's words were like a basin of cold water poured on Wang Shihuai's head, and he immediately fell down.
At this time, Zhang Xiaoming, who was in the same performance group as him, found that he was in a bad mood and came to enlighten him: "I think the teacher is right, we should sink our hearts to study well and quit impetuousness." ”
Zhang Xiaoming is a Shanghai girl, she is dressed generously, shy and polite, full of youthful breath, Wang Shihuai suddenly developed a good feeling for her understanding, the two people got closer and closer, only a layer of window paper.
In the winter of 1981, Wang Shihuai and Zhang Xiaoming followed the teachers of the Department of Acting to perform for the workers in the oil fields of Jiangsu.
At that time, the weather was very cold, but Zhang Xiaoming only wore a thin dress to perform on stage, and after a play, she froze and shivered backstage.
At this time, Wang Shihuai saw that he was very distressed, and he ignored the eyes of everyone in the background, and directly opened his military coat and wrapped Zhang Xiaoming in his arms, at that moment, everything needed to be said.
After graduation, Zhang Xiaoming stayed in Shanghai Renyi, while Wang Shihuai was assigned back to the Anhui Hefei Repertory Theatre.
However, the distance did not separate the lovers, but stimulated Wang Shihuai's fighting spirit:
He vowed to act hard and come to his lover as soon as possible.
In 1983, Wang Shihuai participated in the TV series "Hua Luogeng" and attracted much attention, was transferred to the Shanghai Film Studio, and he and Zhang Xiaoming were finally reunited.
In 1984, the two got married, the new house is only seven or eight square meters, the layout is very simple, but the two people are very happy, and soon gave birth to a lovely son.
But no one expected that their son would become an eternal pain in their hearts.
02
After the birth of their son, Wang Shihuai and Zhang Xiaoming's careers are thriving and getting busier and busier.
Wang Shihuai relied on the wonderful performances in "On the Side of the Water" and "Sunrise", and was promoted to the head of the film studio, and the film contract continued.
And Zhang Xiaoming also followed the Shanghai Renyi "Home" crew to perform around, and there was no way for them to send their son back to his hometown in Anhui and be taken care of by his grandparents.
Unexpectedly, when my son was 2 years old, he almost suffocated due to a violent cough caused by sudden pneumonia.
Although his life was saved, he was in a coma for a full 10 days, because the lack of oxygen caused some brain cells to die, and intelligence may be affected.
The son is everything to the parents, looking at the son on the hospital bed, Wang Shihuai fell into a deep self-blame, and he did not want to die.
After Zhang Xiaoming learned about it, he also rushed back overnight, but he could no longer see the healthy and lively child.
Zhang Xiaoming could not accept this result, and she beat and scolded Wang Shihuai:
"You know filming all day, you haven't cared about your son since he was born, and now your son is like this, you're satisfied with you bastard, you still have my son." 」
Wang Shihuai was also angry in his heart: "I don't care about my son? What about you, you're his mom, how many days have you managed him? I told you not to shoot the scene you have to go, now son like this you blame me? Who the hell is to blame! ”
Zhang Xiaoming collapsed to the ground crying, yes, who can blame? Who is to blame?
After their son was discharged from the hospital, Wang Shihuai and Zhang Xiaoming deliberately reduced the time of filming, and took their son everywhere to seek medical treatment.
For a whole 8 years, they looked for hundreds of Chinese and Western doctors, but they failed to "correct the symptoms".
It was not until later that he found a "qigong master" in Shijiazhuang and treated his son's illness for his son.
They watched their son get better and better, but they found that they could never go back to the past.
In particular, Zhang Xiaoming's temper has become very sensitive, as long as Wang Shihuai mentions the filming thing slightly, she will go crazy.
The beautiful love between them has long been consumed by the messiness of life,
After a long time, the two people could no longer bear the life of torturing each other, and Zhang Xiaoming calmly filed for divorce.
Wang Shihuai let her go and took on the burden of taking care of her son herself.
He is also ready to be single for a lifetime, after all, with such a child, no one will want to marry him again.
The parents watched their son work so hard, and took the initiative to come to Shanghai, taking on the task of taking care of their grandson, so that Wang Shihuai could take a step out and go to filming again.
This time, Wang Shihuai was fully devoted, starring in classic film and television dramas such as "Several Degrees of Sunset Red" and "Two O'Clock at Midnight", and his fame was also getting bigger and bigger.
However, just when his career was full of spring breezes, fate gave him a heavy blow.
Once he took advantage of the end of work to go to school to pick up his son from elementary school,
Two people walking on the playground, the son suddenly fell to the ground, spitting white foam and convulsing,
Wang Shihuai was frightened, quickly picked up her son and rushed to the hospital, and the doctor told him a painful news after examination:
Children have epilepsy caused by lack of oxygen to the brain when they are young, and it may be difficult to cure this disease.
Wang Shihuai fell into the ice cellar again.
03
At night, looking at her son's sleeping face, Wang Shihuai couldn't help but burst into tears, pain and guilt,
He hated that he cared too little about his son, and hated that he couldn't exchange his heart, liver, brain, and lungs for his son, just to exchange him for a healthy body.
After the pain, Wang Shihuai secretly vowed that in the future, she would rely on her son for her life, and no matter how bitter and difficult it was, she would cure her son.
Since then, Wang Shihuai has once again embarked on the road of seeking medical treatment.
Every time he went to a place to shoot a movie, he first asked if there was a famous doctor in the local area who could treat epilepsy.
Even if there was a glimmer of hope, Wang Shihuai quickly informed her parents to bring her son over, and he took her son to see a doctor during the shooting break.
The son had to drink a lot of medicine every day, and Wang Shihuai boiled him up every day after finishing work and coaxed him to drink.
The son was bitter and refused to drink, and with a push of his small hand, he sprinkled a bowl full of Chinese medicine on Wang Shihuai.
Wang Shihuai was not angry, nor did she blame her son, but first saw if her son was burned, and then she went to change her clothes.
In those years, Wang Shihuai was often awakened by nightmares, and was not relieved until she confirmed that her son was not in trouble.
The parents were very distressed to see their son working so hard, and kept persuading him to find another woman to start a family.
In fact, Wang Shihuai did not think that for so many years, he often felt very empty,
But as soon as he thought of his son, he immediately dismissed this idea.
Even if he wanted to, who could accept such a child? Even if you accept it, can you be good to him? Impossible.
I didn't expect fate to be so wonderful.
In the autumn of 1996, Wang Shihuai took her son to Hefei to find a doctor, and when he was waiting for a taxi at the airport, the figure of a woman next to him caught his eye.
The woman reached out and brushed her hair, the movement was so familiar, could it be her? Wang Shihuai exclaimed in his heart!
He couldn't believe that the ground was looking up and down at her, and the woman turned her head to look at him.
Then the two exclaimed almost at the same time: "How are you?" ”
It turned out that this woman's name was Wang Jun, and she and Wang Shihuai were fellow villagers in Anhui.
When I was in high school, two people admired each other in their hearts.
Later, Wang Shihuai went to the literary troupe, Wang Yun was admitted to the university, and the two of them showed off their cards to the family, but they were taken apart by Wang Jun's parents.
Because they feel that Wang Shihuai is just a "out of tune" small actor and is not worthy of their daughter.
Wang Jun was really good, after graduating from college, he went to Japan to study, and then he stayed there to work, this time to visit relatives.
Unexpectedly, more than ten years later, they could even meet again, the two lamented the impermanence of fate, chatted a few words and then hurriedly broke up,
But Wang Shihuai had more eyes, he left Wang Jun's contact information, and he vaguely felt that something might happen.
04
Later, in addition to taking care of her son and filming, Wang Shihuai had a happy thing, that is, to call Wang Jun, who was far away.
The two men confided in each other about their past, and Wang Yun was shocked by Wang Shihuai's experience.
And when Wang Shihuai knew that Wang Yun was now alone, the flame in his heart burned again.
But he never dared to confess, because he was not sure whether Wang Yun could accept his son.
Soon, Wang Yun came to Shanghai on a business trip, and her performance surprised Wang Shihuai.
Wang Yun actually bought a lot of gifts for Wang Shihuai's son, and was very concerned about his condition, and offered to come home to visit him.
Wang Shihuai watched her gently wipe the dust off the child's face, looked at the maternal tenderness in her eyes, and sighed with emotion.
It seems that she has not changed, she is still as innocent and kind as she was more than 10 years ago, and only such a person can give her son a home.
Soon after, Wang Shihuai showed his love to Wang Jun,
He said, "Wang Jun, I have never forgotten you in all these years, but I don't know if you can accept me now, and my sick son." ”
Wang Yun's words made him a little lost,
"I'm not his biological mother, and I certainly can't do what he did to his biological mother."
But Wang Yun then said, "But I will treat him with conscience and take care of him."
Wang Shihuai was very moved, Wang Yun did not say any rhetoric, but her every sentence was from the heart, sincere,
He believed that Wang Yun would be able to be good to his son.
In 1997, the two people officially married, after the marriage Wang Jun gave up his job abroad, returned to meet her husband and teach her children, and soon after the two gave birth to a daughter.
However, Wang Yun did not snub his stepson because of his daughter, but as soon as he had time, he threw his daughter to his in-laws and took his stepson to see a doctor.
When his stepson fell ill, Wang Jun hugged him tightly despite being scared, and then sent him to the hospital.
When his stepson went to school, Wang Yun was worried that the teacher would not take good care of him, and he had to take time to take a look almost every day.
When wang yun slept at night, he also developed a habit of setting an alarm clock that never turned off in the middle of the night, and at the point he had to go to the child's room to take a look, afraid that he would suddenly fall ill in the middle of the night and be treated in time.
Wang Jun's kindness has been rewarded, and after so many years of treatment, the child has recovered well, and has basically been no different from a normal child, and his height has grown to one meter eighty-three.
Now, the wife is virtuous, the daughter is lively and lovely, and the son's epilepsy is also controlled.
Wang Shihuai said: "I think I am now the happiest man in the world. ”
Wang Yun, a weak woman, carried a home with her own strength, and the hardships in it were self-evident.
Wang Shihuai found that her wife was becoming more and more haggard, and her white hair quietly climbed up her sideburns.
Wang Shihuai felt very guilty, and he slowly reduced his time filming and spent more time at home with his wife and children.
In an interview in 2005, Wang Shihuai said with emotion: "After walking through the vicissitudes of emotion, I counted on the crowd to find him for thousands of degrees, and finally found the once lost true love, although it was late, late, but there is a different scenery, I want to cherish it in this life and this life." ”
At the age of 60, he officially retired from the Shanghai Film Studio and had more personal time.
In 2016, he joined the drama "Hamlet" and played two roles in one person.
In fact, Wang Shihuai was originally from drama,
But then in order to live and make money has been filming, did not act well in drama,
Now that I have retired, I can finally get through a good addiction, and I can also give myself a "dream".
And Wang Shihuai's ex-wife Zhang Xiaoming did not remarry, still alone,
She is now a professor in the acting department of the Shanghai Theater Academy and often comes back to visit her son.
Wang Shihuai never blamed her, and always said good things for her in front of her son.
After all, the situation was special at that time, she was very miserable in the face of such a son, and it was also human nature to walk.
Maybe she didn't expect it, but Wang Shihuai, who took the initiative to take care of her epileptic son, was happier, and her heart has always been ashamed of them.
And Wang Shihuai did not think so, he thought that he was a man, he should take the initiative to bear it, taking away her son maybe she would be better.
Wang Shihuai is such a person, always keeping in mind the responsibility on his shoulders, whether it is for the family, children, or career, he is not ashamed.