The Book of Rites says: "A gentleman does not exaggerate his deeds, nor does he honor his merits."
Shooting the head bird and taking yourself too seriously will make other people jealous.
Arrogance can not nourish luck, but will destroy good luck.
You think you are a heavenly being, but in the end you are just a down-to-earth mortal.
Be solid, don't float to the sky, lose the direction of life.
Good times do not drift
I have seen a very incisive concept called "good luck management". What is said is that when people are particularly smooth, they must suppress their momentum.
"Soldier Immortal" Han Xin was also a low-key and patient person, and even endured such a strange humiliation as the humiliation of crotch.
However, as a founding hero, Han Xin, after establishing the world's merits, having the prestige of the world and the power of the extremely popular subjects, he lost the patience and vigilance of his youth, and began to drift.
Han Xinming knew that he had achieved great feats and had become a thorn in the eye and a thorn in his flesh by Liu Bang and Lü Hou.
There was a great threat to the rule of the Han Dynasty, but it could not achieve the rapids like Zhang Liang.
Not only did he covet authority and act in a high-profile manner, but he also thought that Liu Bang could divide the land to him so that he could build a country china.
In the end, there was the idea of replacing Liu Bang, which was obviously too floaty.
Sure enough, with the acquiescence of Liu Bang and the planning of Xiao He, Han Xin died tragically at the hands of the woman.
Trees are big! As a person, the greater the merits and achievements achieved, the more low-key it is, and do not drift, otherwise it will be extremely happy and sad.
Lightning always strikes the tallest object.
Only by lowering your posture and walking humbly can you walk steadily and far.
Adversity does not fall
I especially like a sentence that Luo Xiang said in "The Thirteen Invitations": "When the god of fate pushes you to a brave moment, I hope you can be as brave as you think." ”
Friend Lao Chen, with a group of brothers, started his own business.
However, it is not easy to start a business, the market competition is large, the operating cost is high, and it is difficult to sustain.
I also encountered verbal support from customers, but I was slow to place an order.
At the most difficult time, he mortgaged all two houses in the family and paid everyone a salary.
However, the income of the group still fell, and gradually some people left, and finally only 2 people were left to accompany him.
They know that Lao Chen is under great pressure, that there are three children to be raised in the family, and that his parents in his hometown also need his care.
I had never seen Old Chen hanging his head in frustration, nor had I ever heard him give up.
Every time I meet Lao Chen, he is happy, talking about business experiences, talking about interesting things in the team, as for the difficulties in front of him, he does not mention a word.
He always said: "The business level of our team has nothing to say, the customer turns around and comes back, will definitely find that we are the most reliable." As long as you bite, don't fall behind, just do it. ”
As he expected, after more than a year of perseverance, the company turned a profit.
In difficult situations, retreat is instinctive, and perseverance is skill.
What you have to do is not to win right away, but not to fall now.
Hold on, carry it over, and one day it will usher in the willow dark flowers.
Be human like water
"With the softest of the world, the strongest of the world."
To be a man is like making water, the water is soft, but soft and boneless, the faith is persistent, and the pursuit is unremitting.
Nine curves of the Yellow River, how much yin, how much temptation, even if the guanshan mountains are stacked, a hundred turns back to the east into the sea He has been a little shaken,
The majestic and heroic footsteps he once stopped for a moment, even if he was crushed to pieces, he would never flinch,
Former servants and successors, fight bravely, day after day, year after year, firmly set goals, not arrogant and impatient,
Thousands of times of "ticking" and "ticking" have forced countless holes to be carved out of the stubborn stone.
Lower your posture and walk humbly, in order to walk steadily and far!
Perseverance, standing firm, one day will usher in the willow dark flowers!