Parents are the child's first teacher, parents are very important to the child's education, but despite this, many parents still educate their children in a very extreme way, regardless of whether the child can accept it or not, whether it is harmful to the child's dignity. It is infuriating to think of one's own child as an object of wanton play.
Beijing, January 12. Some netizens broke the news that on a subway in Beijing, a woman scolded her child on the car, not only pinched the child's face, but also let the child kneel in front of all the people on the subway, and other passengers on the subway dissuaded her, but the woman said to be nosy.
According to insiders: on the subway, I accidentally saw a child who looked only seven or eight years old, sitting in the seat opposite him, holding a smart phone in his hand, as if playing a game, at this time, a woman squeezed the child's face fiercely, grabbed the mobile phone, and the child wore a mask on his face and was also knocked off.
But the child seems to have become accustomed to it, and did not react too much, but he carefully put on the mask, the woman saw the situation, the anger was even worse, and turned his hand to knock off the hat worn on the child's head, at this time, the child did not dare to pick up his own hat, and could only look at the woman pitifully.
Until this moment, the passengers only looked sideways, and then shook their heads slightly, after all, this is their own business at home. But what the passengers did not expect was that the woman was becoming more and more lawless, and when she saw the child, she dared to reach out to block her own slap, so she dragged it to the ground, threw the bag away, and shouted: "Kneel!" ”
At this time, the passengers could not sit still, and began to persuade the woman who beat the child, the child was still young, did not do anything excessive, and it was a public place, even if it was his own child, he could not be so wantonly humiliated. This is extremely detrimental to the child's development.
Unexpectedly, the woman replied, "This is my own child, and if I want him to do something, he will have to do it." ”
It can be seen that this woman who is a mother, her desire for control has been extremely strong.
As everyone knows, women's behavior of scolding and insulting children in public has violated relevant laws.
Liu Heyong, a well-known child psychologist, chief education expert of the All-China Women's Federation Marriage and Family Magazine, director of the China Family Education Society, and director of the China Family Culture Research Association, said: "Letting children kneel down and admit mistakes in public on the subway is not only a wrong way of education, but also has violated the laws of the country.
Ginger thinks
In today's society, children need the correct guidance and care of parents more than ever, and often some of the children's mistakes are caused by parental indulgence or wrong education methods, and in these two aspects, the wrong education methods are the absolute factors.
Children play mobile phones, there is a phenomenon that mobile phones do not leave their hands, parents need to do, is not to see children pick up the mobile phone, to stop it with violence, so that not only hurt the child's self-esteem, make the child become more withdrawn, introverted, and can not stop the child's habit of playing mobile phones.
Parents should talk to their children in the way of getting along with friends, let children open their hearts, arrange time reasonably, listen to their children's voices, and respect their children in public, which is the responsibility of today's parents.
What do you think?