Hello everyone, I'm Mommy.
A few days ago, there was such a term on the hot search: #In fact, pregnancy is not so difficult #.
I thought it would be some pregnancy tips to help relieve the discomfort of pregnant mothers. Can click in to see, good guys, with the "show husband" video.
Some brainless marketing numbers, stealing videos of others recording pregnancies, tell everyone: as long as there is a husband's meticulous care, pregnancy is just like that.
What is even more chilling is that shortly after the abortion incident in Xi'an, this entry was grandly on the hot search.
I really don't understand, it's 2022, why do people still think it's easy to get pregnant and have a baby?!
(Possible risks after pregnancy)
Not to mention that everyone's husband is such a normal man in the video (isn't it right for you to take care of her when your wife is pregnant?). I hope that all men will use the standards of normal men to demand of themselves, not worse than rotten).
Even if the husband is considerate of his mother to open the door for thoughtfulness, considerate to the home, the discomfort and pain of pregnancy will not disappear out of thin air.
After this incident, I found that even if many people tell the truth about fertility in a different way - pregnancy is very hard, childbirth is more painful, there are always people who pretend to be deaf and blind (there is no discrimination against deaf and blind people), and think that having children is just that.
Since this is the case, I don't think it is necessary to tell these people how difficult it is to get pregnant.
Instead of expecting these people's understanding, it is better to go straight back. At least you can vent your emotions and make yourself less aggrieved.
The next content, the sisters who will not be intimidated must learn it! Sisters who will be intimidating can leave a message to add after reading it.
When others "humiliate you in appearance"
01 "How did you get so much fat after you got pregnant, just look at the figure, and think it's a big mother." ”
Hui: How did you get so old when you became an adult, just looking at your face, I also thought it was a great uncle.
02
"Just kidding you, besides, you're already fat, don't let me say it."
Reply: I also joked with you, and besides, you are already old, and I will not let you say it.
03 "If you are pregnant, you should pay attention to the image, and now you look scruffy." ”
Hui: Why do you have to take off your coat and change clothes when you go home, and don't maintain your image?
04 "After the female star gives birth, she can recover her figure in a few days. ”
Reply: Stars are still good-looking and rich, why can't you.
05 "Look at you like this, does your husband still have 'sex' interest in you?" ”
Reply: No, I have it, is it for you? If you have something to do, you have to have nightmares every day.
06 "Do you still leak urine after giving birth?" Can adults not even urinate? ”
Retracement: When no one is standing on the wall to pee, do you think of yourself as a dog?
When others interfere with your "fertility choices."
01 "You must have three children before the age of 35, otherwise you don't have the energy to take care of the children." ”
Recoil: For my sake, it seems that you can take care of me completely.
02 "Hitting painless is not good for children, and it is not allowed to hit." ”
Hui: Anesthesia is still not good for the body, do not do you still play when you do surgery?
03 "If you can't eat it, you have to eat it, and now the child in the stomach wants to eat." ”
Reply: When others persuade them to drink, they have to drink if they can't drink it? Isn't that drinking yourself to death?
04 "It is better for the baby to be born on the xth of x month, early caesarean section, don't give birth naturally. ”
Retracement: x month x burial is better, who will be stuck in the day "go"?
05 "My mother said to give birth to a girl to 10,000, to give birth to a boy to give 20,000 ha. ”
Regurgitation: Son preference is not allowed. Can my mother heal myself at home when I am sick, and my father is sent to the hospital when she is sick?
06 "Don't let your husband accompany the birth, he will have a psychological shadow, after giving birth to a child, he will divorce you." ”
Regurgitation: Your experience doesn't apply to me. If you don't look for your husband in the garbage heap, you won't have this troublesome ha.
When others ignore your "pressure and effort"
01 "Women who are pregnant and do not go to work, do not they have to rely on men to raise them?" What's so great about having a baby. ”
Reply: Men can't have children, don't they have to rely on women to give birth? What's great about going to class.
02 "Pregnancy at home does not have to do anything, enjoy the blessings, how good." ”
Hui: When you are old, you don't have to do anything when you lie on the hospital bed, and you also enjoy the blessings.
03 "Which woman does not have children, how can you be so pretentious?" ”
Reply: Which man does not work to earn money, how can you earn so much.
04 "The older generation still works in the field when she is pregnant, and you look at the current women giving birth." ”
Hui: The average life expectancy of the older generation is only forty or fifty years old, do you also have to follow suit?
05 "Actually, pregnancy is not so difficult. ”
Reply: In fact, the annual salary of millions is not so difficult to earn.
06 "Where is there no pain in giving birth, overcoming and overcoming it will pass, as for saying that you are so miserable?" ”
Reply: Where are the immortals, living and leaving, as for the three meals a day that do not fall to the ground?
(Tip: keep smiling when you are back, don't get angry, the lethality will be greater)
Teach everyone to return to the words today first, I don't know how many sisters have seen and learned.
In fact, everyone has such a part of the "people" around them, who have not given birth to children but know how to have children better than anyone, and their mouths are like tying up double cannons, crackling and only saying "pregnant and having children is like that.".
You tell them how difficult it is to tell them, they become deaf faster than when the rocket takes off, they ignore your pain and pressure, and even think that you are arrogant.
In the end, they have a good mouth cannon, and you can only get a stomach gas.
Therefore, I implore you sisters: when you are frequently questioned about fertility, don't keep swallowing your breath, and return your mouth when you should return the mouth.
It is best to hold a "since you can't wake up and pretend to sleep, then simply give them a slap" attitude and force them to think differently.
Only when the knife is stuck to the root of their thighs can they feel the pain.
Of course, in order to prevent some levers from coming to find trouble, I still have to state: writing this article is definitely not to teach everyone to talk to the people around them with thorns, let alone to create an atmosphere of fear of marriage and childbearing, but to provide a little intimidating thinking for sisters who have too good personalities.
Everyone still has to decide whether to return to Ha according to the actual situation.
Remember "watching" + "forwarding" to remind those who have broken mouths: you can not understand the hardships, but don't easily erase the efforts of every pregnant mother.