Yang Qihan, who was sitting on the stage, was slightly embarrassed. It turned out that not long ago, he had just formed a "liangzi" with his mentor Luo Zhenyu on Weibo.
Ma Dong asked, "It's not too big to see the hilarity": "Qihan, before you were eliminated, do you have some resentment in your heart?" Yang Qihan had no choice but to admit it and said, "I am on the Internet."
On the real name diss teacher Luo Zhenyu, this matter really should not be, this point should indeed be apologized. Sorry, sorry. "Starting from the fifth season of Strange Story, Yang Qihanyi
Straight is a "light crazy talent", and has a great oath to compare with the people of the world. In the sixth season, the sincere apology to Luo Zhenyu clearly shows that he has grown, less unruly, more tolerant and humble.
In life, who doesn't start their growth first by confessing?!
Confession is a positive self-perception of the Famous Saying of Zhang Ying, a Qing Dynasty scholar, who let him be three feet away! It is said that when Zhang Ying was an official in Beijing, he received a message from his family
letter. The letter said that they wanted to expand the house of their hometown to the neighbor's territory, and the neighbor naturally refused to do so, so he came to the house every day to make trouble. The family felt that the nest was on fire, so they gave it to Zhang Ying
Write a letter asking him to punish this neighbor. Zhang Ying cried and laughed after receiving the letter, so he replied to his family with such a poem: "Thousands of miles to repair books are only for the wall, let him be three feet and what."
impede. After the family received the letter, they did not understand it very much, and felt that it was too much to do so, but Zhang Ying's words could not but listen, so they retreated the wall three feet. See that, neighbor
Ju felt embarrassed instead, and gave way to build some houses for Zhang Ying's family in other places.
Take a step back, the sea and the sky; further, lose both. Admitting encouragement is not a confession of defeat, but a little bit of mind and a little bit of anger that we must have in the university hall of society
degree. Star Zhao Youting is a very good person. At the "Strange Flower Conference", he was very modest to say that in the matter of "knowledge and speech", and
Ma Dong, Cai Kangyong Gao Xiaosong three mentors than, he "confessed".
In his relationship with Gao Yuanyuan, he has also always been the party of recognition. Whenever Gao Yuanyuan was angry with him, he never confronted him head-on, but took the initiative to admit his mistake and be careful
Caress, wait for the high round qi to dissipate and then communicate well. In the world of feelings, he confessed, but if he was a humble gentleman, he gently cared for his marriage with Gao Yuanyuan
marriage. He said, "Confession is not giving up or admitting defeat, but a positive self-perception." "In life, we often have to face all kinds of contradictions, with our families, with
Colleagues, even strangers, inevitably have some entanglements. The sword and crossbow will not solve the problem, and when it is necessary to admit it, it should also be generously recognized. The ancients said "Great
The husband can bend and stretch", retaining a little elasticity of personality, is to leave a space for himself to advance and retreat freely.
Confession is the glue of interpersonal relationships In "Qing Yu Nian", Fan Siru, played by Guo Qilin, is like a living treasure. When he first appeared, he wasn't so "cute" because
All day long he thought about how to tidy up Fan Xian. When Fan Xian was just taken to the Fan Mansion when he became an adult, Fan Siru thought that he was a concubine and racked his brains to give this illegitimate son brother Yi
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He first fought with Fan Xian and lost, so he chased Fan Xian with a stick and beat him, but was blocked by his sister Si Si and did not fight. He was very unconvinced, and if he didn't succeed, he would regenerate
A count. He pretended to ask Fan Xian to go to the restaurant for dinner, and bought a few small to ambush him on the road, waiting for Fan Xian to ambush him. This time, it was not done, those few mixes
Chao Was beaten by Fan Xian's bodyguard Teng Zijing. Neither time was successful, and Fan Siru was a little sad. However, when he learned that the best-selling book "The Red Chamber" was written by Fan Xian, love
Rich as his fate, he completely "confessed". He chased after Fan Xian, the elder brother and the short brother asked him to open a bookstore with himself, Fan Xian wrote books for him to sell, and the brothers earned together
money. When Fan Xian first entered the Fan Mansion, he was originally wary of the Fan family. Fan Siru's "confession" made him see the simple cuteness of this younger brother. From now on
Fan Xian and his brother formed an alliance to take care of him wholeheartedly and did their best to protect him. Confession seems to be soft on the surface, but in fact it is to give each other a way to put aside stereotypes and mutual
Opportunities for acceptance. Franklin, the leader of the American Revolutionary War, was a broad-minded politician. At one point, he wanted to work with the Pennsylvania State Court
A congressman collaborated on a project, but the congressman always disliked Franklin and often ignored him.
Franklin tried to talk to him several times, but he turned him away. Franklin was helpless, and after many inquiries, he knew that he had a very precious out-of-print book.
He went to the congressman in the name of "borrowing books" and earnestly asked the parliamentarians to lend him books. The Councillor saw Franklin's attitude so humble and sincere, for the sake of a book
The book "instigated" into this way, unconsciously relaxed his guard against him. Franklin took the opportunity to explain his political position and opinions to him. As the conversation deepens, learn about it
Deepening, the relationship between the two people became more and more harmonious, and they even had the intention of seeing each other and hating each other. In the end, the congressman decided to be Franklin's supporter and advocate. When the relationship is deadlocked
Innings, clever "confession" is the best way to break the ice. Interpersonal relationships are a college question, two strong people are the most difficult to get along with, and the best relationship must have one side
Know how to admit it, know how to bow your head.
Confession is the umbrella of life during the Three Kingdoms period, Sima Yi, can be called the originator of the "confession" world. In order to avoid Cao Cao, he "instigated" for 18 years. At that time, Cao Cao was very
He valued Sima Yi's military ability and wanted him to assist him in conquering the world, but Su Wen Cao Cao was narrow-minded and the city government was extremely deep. Fear of attracting the disaster of killing, in order to avoid Cao
, Sima Yi has feigned illness three times. The first time was when Cao Cao was still serving as the chancellor of the Han Dynasty, he sent someone to find Sima Yi, and Sima Yi did not dare to offend Cao Cao and pretended to be ill.
Pretending to have a leg disease, lying down and unable to move.
Cao Cao suspected that Sima Yi was pretending to be ill and deceived himself, and later tried to test him many times. The second time was when Cao Hong went to see Sima Yi, who was on crutches and said that he had a leg disease
Good. The third time was when Cao Shuang went to find Sima Yi. This time Sima Yi began to pretend to be stupid. He threw his clothes on the ground, his mouth full of soup, deliberate nonsense,
In this way, Cao Cao put his mind at ease and let Sima Yi go. Cao Cao's method was" As "If a capable person is not used by me, he will be killed." "If it weren't for Sima Yi, he would have pretended to be stupid, presumably."
Like Yang Xiu, he would have already become a ghost under Cao Cao's sword. Eggs touching stones will self-destruct, stones touching stones, and hard touching hard is a lose-lose situation. When the situation is not as good as people,
Admitting encouragement is the most aggressive approach. There is a kind of possum on the South American continent, and the best survival skill is to admit and pretend to die.
This rat is small, eats fruit and seeds as food, and has no lethality. They usually live in trees and move very carefully. Whenever you find a tree under the intruder
The invaders, instead of fleeing immediately, watched the enemy's every move with their eyes wide open. If they are really captured, they will be frightened first, and their faces will fade and open
Mouth, tongue sticking out, eyes closed and the whole body shaking violently. Then the belly bulged, the breathing and heartbeat stopped, and the expression was very painful and made a fake death
Son, escape the enemy. Confession is not cowardice, and allowing oneself to live is a kind of strength in itself. Recognition is a stress response after fully understanding one's own strength, which is a kind of high
Performance of emotional intelligence.
Lao Tzu said in the Tao Te Ching, "Keep the gentle place", in modern parlance, it means to confess. Leave a kindness to others, a little humility. For yourself, keep a original intention, save one
Dot Ya quantity. When things go wrong, don't worry about gains and losses with people. When you meet people, don't argue about your or my strengths. We must not only recognize the strong, but also learn to recognize the weak and not spare others
Will spare people, only more can reflect a person's pattern and upbringing, recognition is the highest level of decency!
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