Birthday is a special day for everyone, especially for the mother, this is a day of her identity change, so birthday is very important for many people. Especially the birthday of the children in the family is always put on the agenda.
Children are happy for their birthdays, but it is the parents who suffer
Kojima girlfriend's child is already a first-grade primary school student, he is about to usher in his 7th birthday, because the child is more popular in the class, he wanted to spend the birthday in a low-key manner but was arranged by the students in advance of the birthday schedule, the girlfriend heard about it, had to hold a small birthday party for the child.
Although it is just an ordinary birthday party, but because there are children's classmates, adults and then call on the participation of three or five friends, can not be too shabby, games, dinners are essential, a child's birthday, spent thousands of yuan. At such a party, the children are happy, but they really suffer the adults.
What are the reasons why parents tend to celebrate their children's birthdays?
1) Increase your child's sense of security
The fast-paced life mode of modern society makes it difficult for parents of dual-career workers to have the opportunity to help their children have a good birthday, and many children can only take the money given by their parents on their birthdays, watch TV alone, and eat dinner that they want their parents to accompany.
Of course, such a birthday is not what the child wants most, and it will also make the child lose the sense of home security, and what they need more than the money given by the parents is companionship.
2) Enhance children's sense of well-being and belonging
At the same time, if parents attach importance to their children's birthdays, they can also enhance their children's sense of existence and belonging from the side, and in the case of parental participation, they can enhance the happiness of the overall family.
3) Cultivate children's love of life
The child's inner feelings to the outside world are the most direct, the sense of birthday ceremony, the attention of parents, can pass on a mode of life to the child, teach the child to be full of love for life, such warmth and companionship, can make the child have a positive attitude towards life, the future of their own life mode choice, there is a positive guidance.
Since birthdays are of great significance to children and family stability, how to give children a birthday has become the key.
It only makes sense if the child's birthday is celebrated like this
Although parents attach importance to it, they cannot be extravagant and wasteful
Birthdays can't be ignored, but don't be overly extravagant. Parents must first establish a correct consumption concept for their children, correctly understand the meaning of birthdays, not to spend more and live better, but to pay more attention to the sense of birthday ceremony rather than money.
The model should try to prepare according to the characteristics of their own family, economic ability, warm and happy family reunion is the most meaningful birthday party theme, not to the big restaurant party is called birthday, a warm dinner for a family of three, can also bring more good memories to children.
Tips for a child's birthday
Parents can try to take their children to participate in public welfare activities, more contact with nature, or take this day as a "family day" to spend, parents put down all the work in their hands, concentrate on accompanying their children, let the children on this day, always full of the most beautiful memories, but also take children to museums, zoos, etc., children are interested in playing, both enriching knowledge and enriching life.
Kojima would like to say:
In general, from a psychological point of view, paying attention to the ritual sense of life can better stimulate children's yearning for happiness, embrace life with a sunny and warm attitude, and let children feel more beautiful, which also confirms the importance of celebrating children's birthdays from the side.
Birthdays can also teach children to understand maternal love, respect every great mother, let children realize that their arrival is the happiest moment of a family, so that every family member can feel each other's love, so as to better promote the harmony of the family atmosphere.