The encounter between people and people depends on fate, fate allows you and me to meet, and let you and I know each other, but unfortunately, in the end, we did not walk together.
When faced with such an ending, you may be sad, you may regret, but this is the reality you have to accept, not all people who love each other can be together.
At this time, you may also sigh: "If I had not met you, would it be a different scenery?" "Unfortunately, there are no ifs, some just meet and then leave."
Instead of regretting missing out, it is better to hug each other's days of love, at least in those days, you comforted each other and gave each other warmth, isn't this the best gift?
Everyone who passes by will bring you growth, and because of this growth, you have become the best version of yourself, which is the best meaning of encounter.
If you have not met, you will not be heartbroken
When you meet a person, your heart is naturally joyful, excited, and even have a feeling of "three lives are lucky", you think this is a lifetime, this is the love you want.
But what you didn't expect was that you didn't have a good ending, some were just sad, some were just indifferent, you don't know why it became like this, but the ending has been decided, can't be changed, leaving you alone heartbroken.
In the TV series "Know It or Not", the moment when Minglan met The Little Grandpa must have been a stunning time, although the situation at that time, she could not believe that the Little Grandpa would like her, nor did she think that the two people could have a good ending, but she still chose to pursue bravely.
Maybe she also thought of the ending, but there was always a glimmer of hope, maybe two people can break through the door, break through the world, and the people who love each other can walk together.
But the resistance of the family, the concept of the door, still separated the two people, from lover to brother and sister, and in the end, he married another woman, and she could only be alone.
Some people said that Minglan had never truly loved, otherwise how could he marry Second Uncle Gu so quickly? In fact, it is not that she has not loved, but she has chosen to hide her sadness and start to face life again, and she can't always hold on to her memories for a lifetime.
Maybe she also thought that if she had not met, she would not have this heartbreak, but she also thought that she was grateful for such a period of time, for having such a memory, thinking of this, she would be very grateful for the appearance of that person in her life.
If you haven't met, you won't regret it
Yu Kewei sang in "Passing through the Human World": "Passing through the human world, it is nothing more than a moment, and every side by side is just a shoulder rub." ”
At the beginning of the encounter, you did not expect to rub shoulders with him, but fate is like this, not everything you want can get, and there are many regrets, and there are many loves that cannot be.
Reader Xingxing said to me, "I knew I shouldn't have met him, so that I wouldn't have had so many worries, and I wouldn't let people toss and turn and be so painful that I couldn't sleep." ”
Stars and exes met at a friend party, they fell in love at first sight, immediately added contact information to each other, and then began to chat, date, and then confirm each other's relationship.
At that moment, Xingxing thought that she had finally waited for the right person, and she also expected that the two people could have a happy ending, but not all the people who loved each other could be together.
Xingxing's family is in the countryside, and the ex's family conditions are better, and he grew up in the city from childhood, when his family knew about him and Xingxing, he strongly opposed, and said that he wanted to break off the relationship, the ex could not stand such pressure, and chose to break up with Xingxing.
He said that he had not thought of trying for love again, but the burden on his shoulders was too heavy to continue, and maybe this was their ultimate fate.
The stars have no way, she can only accept such an ending, if they have not met, perhaps there is no regret, but that person has warmed her for a while, how can she forget?
Writer Zhang Wei wrote: "Every love is to meet people who hold up a lamp and have similar figures. After the happy meeting, don't be afraid to hurt and leave. My dearest of you, thank you for coming, thank you for illuminating. Thank you for going, thank you for remembering. ”
Perhaps, we will all encounter some situations that love and cannot be loved, at this time, we will always sigh, without meeting, there will be no later stories.
But if you think about the days he has accompanied you through, should you be grateful for having come, if it is not this wonderful encounter, how can you have such a good memory?
Thank you for coming, thank you for remembering, in the days to come, I hope to cherish each other!