You Shi is the continuation of Jia Zhen, the fourth generation of the presiding lady and hostess of Ningguo Province. Jia Zhen was a hereditary third-class general, at least from Yipin. You's wife, Yi Furong, was destined to be the Lady of the Commandments.
"Lady of the Commandments" is not a casual title. Although more than five pins are called "commandments", only more than two pins can be called "Lady of the Commandments". Lady You's rank was only lower than Lady Xing's.
However, You's presence in the Jia family is eye-catching. Like Lady Xing, she was criticized for being "too obedient to her husband". Ning Guofu was almost turned over by Jia Zhen and Jia Rong's father and son under her indulgence.
The scandal in Ningguo Mansion was the ugliest of all, and the daughter-in-law Qin Keqing was deeply involved in the scandal of climbing ashes, and her death was unclear. And the gathering of you's two sisters and Jia Zhen and Jia Rong's father and son is even more well-known.
It's a bit hard to say that Youshi is indeed a bit difficult! She continued the string for Jia Zhen, and she was not Jia Rong's biological mother. She is childless and has a very ordinary family. Father You Laopa is most likely just a six-pin xiaojing official. And there are no brothers to lean on. The two younger sisters, You Second Sister and You Third Sister, were also brought by the stepmother You Lao niang, and were not related by blood.
These difficulties of YouShi made her dare not anger and disobey Jia Zhen. Once she is rejected by her husband and "divorced", she will have nowhere to go.
However, it is not advisable to be in its place without seeking its own government. Although You's family is despicable, it is not an excuse for her to indulge her husband and son as a wife and mother.
Wives and mothers have their own family responsibilities and responsibilities, especially the stepmother is more difficult to continue the string. However, because of the difficulty, he allowed his husband, son, and family to run amok and lawless, and it was difficult for you to be understood and forgiven.
The wife and husband are less troublesome, You Shi should not be allowed to use the word "xian", and Cao Xueqin is not polite to her. After inspecting the Grand View Garden, when Jia Xichun quarreled with his sister-in-law and complained about the mess in the Ningguo Mansion, the author said that You Shi had a "disease in his heart and was afraid of being told"!
I really have to ask the heart without shame, how can there be a disease in the heart, and where are you afraid of people saying it!
You Shi has no status in the family, the servants and slaves are not afraid of her, and she herself has no shelf.
From Xi Chun, he got angry and went to Li Feng's Daoxiang Village. There was a lot of relaxation between the concubines. Here Youshi had to wash his face and make up his makeup, and then two things happened, which vividly reflected You's problems.
(Seventy-fifth time) Li Feng was busy ordering Su Yun to take his makeup. Su Yun took it while bringing her own rouge powder and smiled, "Our grandmother will have less of this." Grandma is not dirty, this is mine, I can use some. Li Yi said, "Although I don't have one, you should take it from the girls." How to blatantly take out yours. Fortunately, it was him, and if it were someone else, wouldn't he be annoyed? ”
Yu Shi smiled and said, "Why not?" Since I came here, who has not made it, and today suddenly feel dirty again? As he spoke, he sat cross-legged on the edge of the kang. Silver Butterfly came up and busied herself with removing the wrist bracelet ring, and then covered a large hand towel under the lower section to protect the clothes. The little girl fried beans held a large basin of warm water and walked to Youshi, only bending down to hold it. Li Yi said, "How come there are no rules like this?" Silver Butterfly smiled, "Say that one by one is inorganic, say that a gourd is a scoop." Grandma just treats us more leniently, no matter what happens at home, you will be satisfied, no matter when you go out at home, in front of relatives, you will only go with the toilet. Youshi said, "You just go with him, and when you wash horizontally and vertically, you're done." Fried beans hurried to kneel.
You Shi had to wash his face at noon, and Li Feng didn't have rouge. Su Yun took her own and gave it to her.
Pay attention to this detail, Su Yun is not a person without rules, and the rouge she casually gives to You's own is not lazy, but You's "not picky", which she used casually before.
When Li Feng criticized Su Yun for not borrowing the girls' gifts to You's, You's also said, "Since I came here, who hasn't made it, and today I suddenly feel dirty again?" ”
Youshi is so, roughly looking at it is easy-going, but it is also unpretentious and unruly, or even indecent.
Her little girl fried beans is even more excessive, and the Jia family's rule is that the servant waits for the master to wash his face, and he needs to hold the basin with both hands and kneel in front of the master with both hands on the basin. But the fried beans were just bent over and not kneeling.
Bending over was disrespectful at the time. Jia Zhen wanted to give a toast to Jia Mu, because the bed was too short and she had to kneel, not to mention the slaves who served the master.
Li Feng, such a charitable person, said "how can it be so unruly" at first glance, which shows that it is not a good word!
You's big girl Silver Butterfly criticized the fried beans, "Grandma just treat us more leniently, no matter what at home, you will be satisfied, no matter at home out, in front of relatives will only follow the toilet." ”
From the words of the silver butterfly, it can be seen how casual You Shi is at home, and the indulgent servants are at ease without etiquette, and forget about etiquette in relatives' homes.
You's leniency is good, and it's not good to be as harsh as Wang Xifeng. But basic rules and etiquette cannot be undermined by her mother-in-law.
Aristocratic giants like Ning Guofu and Rong Guofu, the rules and etiquette are decent. You Shi didn't care about decency at all, and he knew why Ning Guofu was not well managed. She didn't even want to be a monk for a day and hit the clock for a day, and she did nothing at will, and the results could be imagined.
If not, the ancients paid attention to the door. The good Ningguo Mansion allowed You Shi to freely destroy the rudeness of small households, and You Shi was at fault.
It's also interesting in the back. Later, after YouShi went to serve Jia Mu to eat, Jia Mu ordered her to go to the table to eat as well. As a result, she said that she was not used to the big table, and Jia Mu arranged for a bunch of mandarin ducks, amber, silver butterflies and a bunch of other ladies to eat with her.
What's more, Jia Mu's rice was gone, and You Shi actually held the white rice of the servants and ate it.
(Seventy-fifth time) Jia Mu looked at the negative hand for fun. Seeing that the person who was waiting for the rice was holding a bowl of rice from the next person, You Shi was still eating white japonica rice, and Jia Mu asked, "Why did you faint, and bring this rice to your grandmother." ”
You Shi is the hostess of Ning Guo Mansion, and it is not too much to eat the same meal as Jia Mu. But he just held the food of the servants and ate it. This series is not useless.
Youshi used the rouge of the servants to eat at the same table as the servants, and ate the white japonica rice of the servants... All prove that she is the low position of your lady, the life of the handmaiden.
Although YouShi is noble, her self-requirements are low, and no one in both provinces is afraid of her.
You's casualness towards herself and others makes her feel as if she is not the master of the Jia family, but just a servant of the people, which belongs to the self-willed depravity!
For Youshi, many people have commented, Wang Xifeng scolded the most fiercely! But Jia Tanchun said it most spicy. "Don't pretend to be honest. In addition to the court's punishment of crimes, there is no beheading, and you do not have to be afraid of your head and tail. ”
You's inaction, magnanimity, and laissez-faire are both her character and her disguise. For Youshi, she doesn't care if others are good or bad, and her own good is really good!
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