The TV series "Perfect Partner" is starred by Gao Yuanyuan, Zhang Luyi, Wang Yaoqing, Wu Min, as well as You Jingru, Wu Junmei, Li Naiwen, Yu Entai and other powerful actors, who play important roles in the play. The story focuses on the workplace, life and marriage of the two families, and is an urban work with realistic themes, which is being broadcast on Hunan Satellite TV.
The title of the play is "Perfect Partner", but in fact it is not perfect, Chen Shan, played by Gao Yuanyuan, faces the bottleneck of her career, but still has to work hard to balance her career and family, bears great pressure, and complains about her husband Sun Lei's incomprehension and distrust.
And Sun Lei, played by Zhang Luyi, in order to put more energy into the family, so that Chen Shan can put more of his career pursuits, gave up the opportunity to go abroad for further study and promotion, and the result is that Chen Shan repeatedly touched his bottom line on the issue of children.
The same situation also happened in another family, Lin Qingkun, an investment banking elite played by Wang Yaoqing, and Wu Min, a full-time mother.
In Lin Qingkun's eyes, Wu Min was once his perfect partner, who could handle the family and children alone and let him concentrate on his work. This model lasted for many years, but as Wu Min's resentment of widowed marriage accumulated, the contradictions between the two sides gradually intensified.
These are two very representative families, essentially want to discuss with the audience, what kind of marriage model is correct, which is a difficult question.
Lin Qingkun and Wu Min are the model of men and women, from the model alone, the division of labor is always the most efficient method, which is why Wang Qingkun is satisfied with the status quo, because from the perspective of indifferent rationality, their family is indeed operating efficiently, and it can be seen that the family's economic conditions are thriving, and the house is getting bigger and bigger.
But man is not a cold machine, this pattern has been estranged from each other for a long time, I do not understand your work, you do not understand my life, become a family two worlds. The so-called same bed and different dreams are like this.
It can be seen that there is actually no problem with the division of labor between the two, the problem is that the pace of the two is not the same, Lin Qingkun is moving forward, and Wu Min wants him to stop.
Li Shi once made an interesting argument that the titanic's love was great because the ship was going to sink tomorrow. The problem for Lin Qingkun and Wu Min is that the ship of their family, one still wants to rush now, and the other wants to stop, what to do? This is actually one of the truths of marriage, and the pace of two people must be the same.
Lin Qingkun actually still loves Wu Min, he does not trust anyone, but only trusts Wu Min. And Wu Min wants to accompany, in essence, she still loves Lin Qingkun, if she does not love, Lin Qingkun is responsible for making money, and it is better for people who do not go home for money. But their pace has been at odds, and they are doomed to disembark without resolving their differences.
On the other hand, the other family, Sun Lei and Chen Shan, is a typical dual-career family, each other have jobs, but also will take care of the family, the difference is that Chen Shan is more focused on work, and Sun Lei's focus is on the family, on the surface, it seems that it is still quite happy, both of them also have the wisdom of running a marriage, but there is also a hidden rift.
In the second episode, Chen Shan sent out soul torture, she was always asked "how to balance family and work", she was dissatisfied with Sun Lei's lack of facing this. In fact, Sun Lei did not have to face it, but made a choice from the beginning, and his choice was family. This is also a seemingly loving couple, but in fact, the sorrows and joys are not connected.
However, this is only a small problem, the mature Chen Shan and Sun Lei, in fact, have digested this emotion by themselves, but the "small sugar pill" thing has exposed the real rift between the two, that is, the choice of position.
In Sun Lei's view, his sacrifice and Chen Shan's progress are actually for the family, for a family of three, hello to me. Therefore, he has always understood Chen Shan very well and supported Chen Shan's work. On the high-speed rail, Li Yu was given Ma Wei, which was Sun Lei's attitude, in his eyes, the big family in heaven and earth was the largest, and the family was nothing more than a wife and children.
But in the "little sugar pill" matter, Chen Shan's position chose to make him angry, in his opinion, no matter what the truth is, the child has a problem, Chen Shan should unconditionally stand on the side of the child and the family. However, Chen Shan chose a balanced strategy for the sake of performance and continued to work for the "little sugar pill".
Marriage is a bundle of interests, and in the extreme, whether right or wrong, you first have to stand on the side of your family, that is, unconditional trust and support. Chen Shan felt that Sun Lei did not trust himself, but in Sun Lei's view, what he wanted was not the truth, but a position, the position of a family, children and small sugar pills, should not be something that could be balanced.
Pace and position are the more important part of maintaining marriage, and they are also part of the binding force of marriage. Marriage is a complex science, not a "perfect partner" can solve, how to choose and choose, are testing wisdom. meow