1. Low-key and introverted, thinking during solitude triggers the reminiscence of life course
Outside the window, the snow fluttered down, decorating this quiet winter day even more solemnly. Yu Xiaowei sat alone in front of the window, silently watching this familiar scenery. Those memories that had long passed flooded into his mind in an instant, and he had nowhere to run.
Born in a musical family, he has been a "problem boy" in the eyes of everyone since he was a child, and his naughty behaviors are endless, and he has suffered a lot for this. If it weren't for the care of his family, maybe he would have been sharpened and more mature in the wind and rain.
However, even in the school where his mother worked, Yu Xiaowei was still a "pit mother expert", and boldly gave his mother a record-breaking score of 39 points on the rating book, which almost caused a catastrophe. That year's outstanding teacher selection, my mother suffered a serious blow because of this.
Young and vigorous, he showed an amazing talent in music, and at the same time dabbled in art fields such as fine arts and sculpture. Now that he has entered middle age, after going through vicissitudes, he finally emerged in the film and television industry, and chose to stay away from the prosperity and return to his home.
However, as soon as he makes a slight appearance, he will immediately become the focus of attention, triggering heated discussions and inquiries.
Second, a former emotional entanglement has left a deep imprint in my heart
When he recalled the emotional entanglement with Gao Yuanyuan, he couldn't help but feel sour in his heart. The story began with a chance encounter in Yunnan in 2006, where he was filming a film, while Gao Yuanyuan and Shawn Yue were filming the film "Talented Men and Women" in Dali.
The two looked at each other in a bar, smiling slightly, but didn't communicate much. Two years later, in 2008, at a banquet at Tang Jili, they met again. At that time, Gao Yuanyuan had just broken up with Xia Yu, and he was depressed, sitting alone in the corner, his eyes full of sadness.
As a descendant of the "Tomb School", Gao Yuanyuan, with his outstanding beauty and unique temperament, can always attract the attention of many male friends. Her first boyfriend was the well-known director Teng Huatao, but Gao Yuanyuan, who was only 19 years old, became Teng Huatao's lover in ignorance.
Subsequently, she had an affair with the music genius Zhang Yadong, and the two fell in love at first sight, which eventually led to Zhang Yadong's divorce for her.
After five years of love, Zhang Yadong treated each other with all his heart, but failed to let Gao Yuanyuan ignite his desire to enter the marriage hall, which deeply touched the other party. Soon after, Gao Yuanyuan had an affair with Xia Yu, and even photos leaked out, showing that he stayed overnight at the other party's home, although Gao Yuanyuan solemnly refuted this rumor, but it still couldn't stop public opinion from surging like a tide.
At this lowest point in his life, Yu Xiaowei saw the loneliness and sadness in Gao Yuanyuan's heart, and his heart was filled with deep sympathy, he resolutely reached out to help, gently took her into his arms, and tried to give her endless comfort.
Gao Yuanyuan is also like a girl, under the care of careful care, gradually revealing the other side of gentleness and demureness.
They soon frankly vented their sincere and fiery love, and Yu Xiaowei took care of Gao Yuanyuan with great patience and care. However, this relationship cannot escape the fate of breaking up after all.
Once during the filming of the TV series "The Prequel to the East of the Guandong", Yu Xiaowei was often helped back to the hotel after being drunk because he was addicted to the role, and this deep friendship was really impressive.
3. An opportunity for a career turning point, leading the actor's career to a new peak
Just as the relationship with Gao Yuanyuan was gradually stabilizing, an unexpected opportunity completely changed Yu Xiaowei's acting career.
In 2013, the well-known director Gao Mantang began to carefully select actors in order to shoot "The Prequel to the East of the Guandong". As the finale of the series, Gao Mantang's attention to this matter can be seen.
In the previous work, the wonderful performance of the veteran actor Li Youbin left a deep impression on the audience, so this casting must be cautious, otherwise the previous efforts may be wasted.
When someone recommended Yu Xiaowei to him, Gao Mantang's impression of this actor was still at the stage of his "little fresh meat". However, he still decided to do it himself, so he carefully planned a unique "wine banquet" interview.
After makeup, Yu Xiaowei has dark and strong skin, and his eyebrows reveal a heroic and resolute temperament, as soon as Gao Mantang saw him, he immediately became interested, and the character image in his mind became clear.
Yu Xiaowei understood in his heart, and the two raised their glasses and drank freely, chatting and laughing. In this way, Gao Mantang selected Yu Xiaowei to play the important role of "Guanliang" for "The Prequel to the East of the Guandong".
Once the camera was turned on, Yu Xiaowei devoted himself to this role. Guan Liang's rugged and bold image is in stark contrast to Yu Xiaowei's sunny and handsome on the screen before.
In "The Prequel to the East of the Guan", his performance with all his strength can be called the "ashes" level, showing the enthusiasm and heroism of this Guanzhong man in front of the audience without reservation, which is amazing!
In this way, Yu Xiaowei took a firm step forward and successfully realized the gorgeous transformation from an "idol faction" to a "powerful faction". Facing the camera, he proved his acting talent with a solid pace, and since then, the trajectory of his life has also changed.
In the following years, Yu Xiaowei continued to display his unique charm in various masterpieces, creating many characters that are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. For example, the reckless hero "Ganwilling" played in "The Legend of the Beacon Heroes", the idealistic young "Xu Lingjun" in "Spirit and Flesh", and the ruthless killer "Liao Daqiang" in "Warrior", etc., each role shows his unique performance style.
However, the most talked about is undoubtedly the "heavy" role he created in the 2019 costume masterpiece "Celebrating More Than Years". In this TV series that brings together Chen Daoming, Wu Gang, Zhang Ruoyun, Yuan Quan and many other powerful actors, Yu Xiaowei stood out with his superb acting skills and won warm applause from the audience.
"You have to focus on the role of Shen Zheng. Even the ruthless Chen Pingping praised the character he created. When Shen Zhong debuted, his calmness made people immediately feel his hidden city.
When dealing with the enemy envoys, he is calm on the surface, but in fact he is scheming, but in the blink of an eye, he mercilessly dismantles Sean's legs, and even kills the innocent old woman.
This character has a complex personality, both evil and affectionate, and Yu Xiaowei's excellent performance has made the audience praise him. In order to perfectly present this character, Yu Xiaowei has made great efforts, not only studying the script in advance, digging deep into the inner world of the character, but also carefully designing many detailed auxiliary actions to portray this complex and changeable character vividly.
It is precisely because of his wonderful performance in "Celebrating More Than Years" that this "old drama bone" has once again attracted widespread attention. And all of this can be traced back to the "Prequel to the Kanto East" many years ago, and it was this work that brought an important turning point to his acting career.
Since that audition, his career as an actor has entered a new stage.
Fourth, marriage and family life have gradually matured and stabilized, and the belated happiness has finally bloomed safely.
On that cold and windy, ice-cellar-like winter day, Yu Xiaowei's road of love gradually came to an end, and that time undoubtedly became an indelible painful memory in his heart.
At that time, he was in a low temperature environment of more than minus 30 degrees, fully engaged in the intense filming of the TV series "The Prequel to the East of the Kanto", and experienced the special charm brought by alcohol for the first time - it is not only a good medicine that can temporarily forget his troubles, but also a magical drink that can warm the body and mind, even more intoxicating than coffee.
Whenever Yu Xiaowei was intoxicated by the aroma of wine, he would always be carefully helped back to the hotel by the crew to rest. He anesthetizes himself in an almost laissez-faire way, trying to leave behind the good times he spent with Gao Yuanyuan.
However, affection cannot be easily erased after all.
It was during this lowest period of his life that Yu Xiaowei firmly decided not to look for insiders as his love partner from now on. He knows that the fast-paced and stressful nature of work in this industry makes it difficult for people to maintain a stable relationship.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, 2017 has come. This year, Yu Xiaowei was captured by the media shopping in the mall arm in arm with a mysterious woman who was pregnant, and his marital status and the good news that he was about to usher in a new life were also made public.
It is worth mentioning that his wife is not an entertainer, but an ordinary outsider, from the photo, it is not difficult for us to find that she is tall and beautiful, not inferior to Gao Yuanyuan.
Since then, the sweet daily life of Yu Xiaowei and his wife has been frequently displayed in public. Sometimes he carefully carried his sick child to the hospital for treatment, followed by his wife, and sometimes the two of them sent the child to school together, his wife laughed and teased the child, while Yu Xiaowei was silently guarding on the side, his eyes were full of endless tenderness and sweetness.
Through these pictures outside the lens, we can clearly feel Yu Xiaowei's meticulous care for his family. He is good at cooking all kinds of delicious dishes, and he is also an excellent hairstylist, which can be called a good family man.
However, out of respect for his family's privacy, Yu Xiaowei has always maintained a low-key style, rarely revealing details about his family life.
This low-key attitude not only effectively protects the privacy of his family, but also fully demonstrates Yu Xiaowei's professionalism as a senior actor.
In the entertainment industry, he almost never takes the initiative to create topics or spend money to buy hot searches, except for the necessary publicity for his film and television works, he rarely appears in the media spotlight.
Over the years, Yu Xiaowei has always adhered to such a low-key principle, devoted himself to the creation of film and television dramas, worked hard, and constantly pursued excellence. He used practical actions to interpret the noble quality of "words must be believed, deeds must be fruitful", and finally found his own spiritual home.
Fifth, the career is thriving, and the winner of life is willing to return to the mountains and forests
For a long time, Yu Xiaowei has always believed that as long as he perseveres and deduces with his heart, he will one day break out of the world. After years of unremitting efforts, he has finally made remarkable achievements in the creation of film and television dramas.
One after another excellent works have come out one after another, winning warm praise from the audience.
In addition to the two classic masterpieces of "The Prequel to the East of the Guandong" and "Celebrating More Than Years", Yu Xiaowei's image of the educated youth "Xu Lingjun" in "Spirit and Flesh" is even more impressive for this middle-aged actor.
The story of him full of ideals and striving to chase his dreams in the play undoubtedly has a deep resonance with Yu Xiaowei's own experience.
In the action blockbuster "Warrior", Yu Xiaowei fully showed his manly side. The role he played as "Liao Daqiang", a mortal tiger, although fierce and ruthless, also showed his excellent martial arts skills.
Whenever people see his heroic and vigorous posture on the screen, they will always involuntarily think of the young "old boy" Li Zhihao.
In addition, another thriller and suspense movie "No Such Person" is also Yu Xiaowei's rare and superior work. He plays a cardiac surgeon in the film, with a cold expression and witty behavior, which forms a strong contrast with his previous roles, and can be called superb acting skills and dares to challenge himself.
With the gradual stabilization of family life and the vigorous development of his career, Yu Xiaowei can be said to be a winner in life in the true sense. In addition to his professional identity as an actor, he has also ventured into many fields to invest, and his business operations have flourished and made a lot of profits.
Today's Yu Xiaowei has become a top actor with both strength and popularity, and can be called a leader in today's entertainment industry. However, this middle-aged man does not seem to be interested in showing off in the spotlight, but chooses to return to nature and live an ordinary and fulfilling life.
After returning to the mountains and forests, Yu Xiaowei became more low-key, and as in the past, he always put the safety of his family first. The occasional picture captured by the media is just a warm scene of him taking care of the children with his beloved wife.
He is still attentive and takes care of his family, whether it is cooking food or getting a haircut.
Obviously, Yu Xiaowei's positive attitude towards life is precisely the decisive factor for him to be able to achieve a happy life. After years of hard work and profound accumulation, he is like a fish in water on the road of his career, and his family life has also reached a stable and harmonious level, and his low-key and calm personality traits make him good at listening to the opinions of others and realizing the pursuit of an ideal life.
Today's middle-aged stage, when Yu Xiaoda is flourishing and has a bumper harvest in his career and family, has not fallen into the trap of arrogance and lasciviousness that those so-called successful people have fallen into. He has always adhered to the low-key and reserved attitude that an artist should have, integrating happiness into every detail of his daily life.
This calm and quiet calmness and steadiness are the key to his gradual growth from a "bad boy" to a winner in life.
6. Summary: From controversy to solemnity, the low-key life course of an artist
Looking back on Xiaowei's life journey, he has encountered many controversies and criticisms. Since he was a child, he has been a naughty and naughty "bad boy", and he is often punished by his parents for making mistakes, which has also brought a lot of trouble to his mother, who loves music.
Later, the emotional entanglement with Gao Yuanyuan made him bear the huge pressure and doubts from public opinion.
Some people believe that Yu Xiaowei intervened in the relationship between Gao Yuanyuan and Xia Yu back then, which led to the final breakup of the two. And Gao Yuanyuan's own past is not innocent, he has become a third party in other people's marriages when he was young, and he even caused the other party to divorce during his relationship with the music genius Zhang Yadong.
These past experiences undoubtedly brought a certain degree of hindrance to Yu Xiaowei's acting career, and even made his career as an actor a difficult one. However, he did not give up because of this, but worked harder to learn and learn from the lessons learned, and gradually matured.
Fortunately, by chance, he ushered in an important turning point in his life in the TV series "The Prequel to the East of the Kanto", and he made a gorgeous transformation overnight, successfully transforming from an "idol" to a "powerful" actor, and handed over satisfactory answers in many excellent works such as "Celebrating More Than Years", winning the praise and love of the audience.
In terms of personal emotional life, Yu Xiaowei has also made remarkable progress. He was accompanied by ordinary people, formed a happy family, had a son, and finally found his own peaceful harbor.
At the peak of his career, Yu Xiaowei chose to return to nature and lived a low-key and ordinary life.
It is this calm attitude that has enabled this previously controversial public figure to finally pass through all stages of his life journey in silence.
Today, he is an undisputed winner, with impressive double successes in both professional and family life.
Under the dazzling spotlight, he always adhered to that humble and restrained quality, lived as an ordinary citizen, and lived the most simple but meaningful life.