Yu Xiaowei's childhood experience
The city of Tianjin is filled with the atmosphere of music, and Yu Xiaowei was born in such a musical family. His father was a piano teacher, his mother was a singer, his brother Xi violin, and his sister Xi classical dance.
At a young age, Yu Xiaowei was immersed in the sound of the piano and singing every day. When he was five or six years old, Yu Xiaowei was asked by his parents to learn the piano to strengthen his basic skills.
However, practicing the piano tired of the young man's heart. Whenever the clock in the piano room ticks, Yu Xiaowei looks forward to ending this boring torture as soon as possible. Fortunately, my brother would always keep an eye on the door of the piano room, and as soon as there was the footsteps of his parents, he warned Yu Xiaowei in advance to prepare for the surprise inspection.
However, her mother was extremely strict, and she ordered Yu Xiaowei to complete three hours of piano practice every day, and if he did not meet the standards, he would be grounded.
Boredom and unfreedom enveloped the young man's heart, and after graduating from high school, Yu Xiaowei resolutely left home to work to make a living. He started out as a bartender in a bar, but was often met with drunken and promiscuous customers.
One day, two drunks smashed all the bottles on the bar, splashing glass shards everywhere. Yu Xiaowei had a bloody mark on his forehead and had to be wrapped in a thick bandage.
Unable to endure such a chaotic environment, Yu Xiaowei left here. Later, he became a barber, met a friend who aspired to be an actor, and by chance he would enter Chinese opera to learn Xi acting.
met Gao Yuanyuan and fell in love at first sight
It was a hot summer day in Yunnan, and Yu Xiaowei ended a day's filming and was invited to a local bar with his crew partners for a drink. The early summer evenings are cool, but the noise and smell of alcohol and cigarettes in the bar are almost breathless.
Yu Xiaowei walked through the crowd with a wine glass, and suddenly caught a glimpse of a petite figure sitting alone at the bar.
The moonlight was like water, spilling through the cracks in the shutters to the girl's side face, and the delicate face was even more fragrant and moving in the hazy light. Yu Xiaowei couldn't help but hold her breath and take a closer look, only to see her brows tightly locked, her eyes gloomy, drinking alone one cup after another, as if she was telling the bitter alcohol about the pain that could not be expressed.
This is Gao Yuanyuan, the little flower girl from Yunnan who came to shoot a new drama. Yu Xiaowei listened to her peers privately discuss her failed love history, and her ex-boyfriend Xia Yu had an old love and reunited with her ex-girlfriend for eight years after breaking up with her; The musical genius Zhang Yadong was passionate but refused to get married...... She gave her heart and soul in every relationship, but it ended in tragedy.
seems to be a glamorous star, but it is difficult to escape the torture of emotional wounds.
Yu Xiaowei couldn't bear her pain alone, so he mustered up the courage to come forward and chat. The two talked about the ideals and aspirations of the performing arts, drawing strength from the dramatic experience of life...... Late at night, Yu Xiaowei sent Gao Yuanyuan back to his residence and said goodbye reluctantly.
The joy of love at first sight sprouts in two hearts.
After that, the two began dating, and Yu Xiaowei tried his best to play the role of a gentle and considerate lover - sending English roses to express love, cooking delicious food to celebrate his birthday, and waiting with a smile outside the set...... Gao Yuanyuan finally opened up his inner world, no longer faced the bitterness of life alone, and found solace in him.
The breakup was due to work, and the two were inseparable
The sweet period of love did not last long, and the overwork of the entertainment industry soon eroded the hearts of the two lovers. Yu Xiaowei worked hard to shoot new dramas in the Northeast, and Gao Yuanyuan also continued to promote three new films one after another, and the days of gathering less and leaving more than two years have been more than two years.
"Thank you Nong for accompanying me through the unforgettable years of my youth, I will always remember it. But we are destined not to be together for too long, this is the fate of stars. Let you be free, and I need to be free.
Receiving Gao Yuanyuan's sad and resolute message, Yu Xiaowei felt helpless.
A long separation is not a test that lovers can withstand. What's more, they also have to face criticism and provocation from the outside world - some people ridicule Gao Yuanyuan as an out-and-out "green tea", and some people question Yu Xiaowei's lack of strength to match the diva-level goddess.
Under all kinds of pressure, the two hearts fall apart, and the boat of love is also in danger at any time.
"It's okay, I understand...... Straight men of steel can also be sad, and I will work hard to forget about all this. After filming the last scene, Yu Xiaowei sat alone on the snow-covered roof and swallowed the bitterness of his loneliness, he knew that this was the career he chose.
Many years later, the two met unexpectedly at the airport, hurriedly walked by, and there were a thousand words in one eye.
Gao Yuanyuan married Zhao Youting
After Yu Xiaowei and Gao Yuanyuan broke up, Gao Yuanyuan quickly took over the new movie "Search". On the set, she met Zhao Youting, a handsome little guy in the same crew. Zhao Youting is four years younger than Gao Yuanyuan, with a wealthy family, and has lived in a deep courtyard since he was a child.
Not only is his appearance outstanding, but he is also gentle and polite, and he is even more professional and dedicated at work, often working overtime, which has won praise from the whole crew.
During the filming of the sea scene that encountered a storm, Gao Yuanyuan was physically and mentally exhausted because of the wrong lines 12 times. At this time, Zhao Youting volunteered, hugged her shoulders and comforted her softly: "It's okay, let's take our time, don't be pressured."
I believe in Yuanyuan's acting skills!" His clear eyes reveal sincerity and tolerance. Gao Yuanyuan's wounded heart suddenly had something to rely on.
Zhao Youting gradually resolved Gao Yuanyuan's extremism and cynicism due to emotional failure. They go on low-key and secret dates, walks, watch movies, and live a sweet and relaxed life as a small couple.
Three years later, Zhao Youting knelt down on one knee on the lawn in Cambridge, England, and put on a diamond ring symbolizing love and responsibility for Gao Yuanyuan.
Now, they live a carefree and happy life in a high-end villa on the outskirts of Shanghai. Whenever the public's eyes focused on Gao Yuanyuan and questioned her style change, Zhao Youting always patted the back of her hand and whispered in her ear: "You will always be the most beautiful angel in my heart."
Yu Xiaowei finally chose an ordinary wife
After Yu Xiaowei and Gao Yuanyuan broke up, there was a period of mental lethargy and a period of alcoholism. Later, with the encouragement of his old friends, he gradually walked out of the shadow of broken love and rekindled the torch of his dreams.
Yu Xiaowei realized that in this highly competitive entertainment industry, he must work harder and make greater achievements in his career in order to be recognized by the public and professionals.
So he took on the difficult historical biopic, carefully conceived the inner world of the characters, and excavated the charm of life hidden behind the historical records of the characters. He chose costume dramas to change his image, strictly controlled his body weight, and refused all alcohol.
He began to learn Xi singing, dancing and equestrian skills to enrich his performance skills. He even took the initiative to invite Ying to participate in challenging villain roles, making them three-dimensional and plump, and making people sweat.
Hard work finally paid off, and Yu Xiaowei stood out with the role of "Xiao Maozi" in "Breaking through the Guandong" and successfully promoted to the actor level. Naturally, resources and performance opportunities followed.
However, on the emotional road, Yu Xiaowei no longer wants to be as delusional as before. He longs for a simple and realistic life, for a warm home without glitter, and for spending the rest of his life with ordinary and sincere women.
Under the introduction of an old friend, Yu Xiaowei met Li Na, an ordinary campus English teacher. Li Na is not familiar with all kinds of open and secret battles in the entertainment industry, she loves literature and art, and is gentle and generous.
She doesn't have a dazzling halo, but Yu Xiaowei feels that she is his bosom friend. Now, they are married and have a pair of lovely children. Yu Xiaowei will do everything he can to walk hand in hand with Li Na on the road of life and never let go.
Theme experience
The love process of Yu Xiaowei and Gao Yuanyuan reflects the illusory and difficult love in the entertainment industry. In the process of chasing the light and roaring fever, the stars who work hard in Vanity Fair have little time and energy to maintain their relationships, and marriage is often regarded as a luxury, but it is difficult to operate in vain.
However, people's hearts are not rocks, even if they are successful actors, there will be times when they are weak and sad, and they need to talk and rely on.
Yu Xiaowei finally married the simple and virtuous Li Na as his wife, leaving the wreckage of a frustrated and broken relationship, which may be a right choice.
Husbands and wives are partners who support each other. Li Na doesn't care about Xiaowei's dazzling starlight, she uses the gentleness of a long stream of water to care for her husband's heart. She threw herself into this commitment, like facing the sea.
Husbands and wives are fellow travelers who grow together. Yu Xiaowei does not force Li Na to enter his circle, he appreciates his wife's personality of independent life. They respect each other's way of life and communicate their feelings regularly, so that they can keep up with the times and inspire each other.
Husbands and wives are the creators of family happiness. Simple homely warmth, laughter surrounded by children, this is what Yu Xiaowei wants to have most after leaving the hustle and bustle. Li Na also lived a practical life with fireworks because of this.
There is no absolute standard answer to true love, but it can give people the strength and motivation to face the ups and downs of life. Perhaps this is the mystery of the ongoing relationship between Yu Xiaowei and Li Na.