I heard that there are some taboos after pregnancy, such as not being able to drink happy wine after pregnancy, and not being able to hold other people's babies after pregnancy. Hearing this, is the head a little confused, what is the principle of this? However, when it comes to not being able to hold someone else's baby after pregnancy, lazy mothers have heard this before.
It is said that after pregnancy, you can't go to hold someone else's baby, because this will make the baby thin, at the same time, the baby in the pregnant mother's belly is easy to miscarry, otherwise, after birth, the baby's temper and personality are also very bad, easy to get angry.
In this way, this is also a practice of hurting 800 people and losing 1000.
But now everyone knows that this is just a folk saying, and there is no scientific basis at all.
Maybe it's just that the previous pregnant women didn't want to work so hard, in order to avoid taking the child during pregnancy and "passed it out", I didn't expect it to spread.
Although I don't know why this is the case, lazy mothers do agree with this practice very much.
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Why is it recommended not to hold a child after pregnancy?
In fact, pregnant women holding other people's babies will not cause the baby to thin, and will not cause their own babies to be difficult to carry because they hold other people's babies.
It is recommended not to hold the child after pregnancy, in fact, it is also for the safety of the pregnant mother and the fetus.
First of all, in the first trimester, the fetus has just found its right place in the womb, but it has not reached the point of being deeply rooted, and it is easy to encounter danger.
Pregnant mothers should focus on protecting the fetus in the abdomen and avoid abortion due to excessive force or other reasons when holding other babies.
Even after the second trimester, the fetus has taken root and sprouted in the womb, but it is not 100% safe, for the sake of safety, the act of holding the child can be avoided.
In the third trimester, it is even more unsuitable to hold other babies, because their stomachs have become larger and larger, and if their abdominal pressure increases because they hold other babies hard, the consequences may be very serious. Such as premature rupture of membranes.
Secondly, not every baby is so well-behaved, and when they are picked up, they are very gentle and attached to the body.
On the contrary, most of the babies are more naughty, when holding other babies, if because the baby naughty kick to the pregnant mother's belly, or because the child is shaky, resulting in the pregnant mother standing unsteady, the danger can be large or small.
Don't underestimate the destructive power of any baby, the second treasure of the lazy mother's family often dances at three or four months, kicking the lazy mother several times.
Don't say that the life force of the fetus is more tenacious, this kind of thing Who will fight, win without saying, lose, who can bear the consequences?
Finally, the pregnant mother herself is getting bigger and bigger, resulting in a heavier burden on her body, and the action is not so convenient.
If you hold another baby, it will undoubtedly increase your burden.
In particular, some pregnant mothers will have various pains such as low back pain and pubic bone pain in the third trimester, and then spend energy to hold other babies will aggravate the pain on the body.
Therefore, doctors often remind pregnant mothers not to work too hard and not too hard.
However, it is not necessary to hold the baby during the whole pregnancy, many pregnant mothers may not be able to do it, after all, it is possible to hold their own baby. But no matter who you are holding your baby, the first priority is to pay attention to safety.
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How should I hold my baby after pregnancy?
First, if you can't hug, you can't hug
If someone else's baby wants to hug, the pregnant mother asks someone to do the work, or use the hug instead, then there is no need to hold the baby up hard.
If it feels difficult to squat down and hug the baby, then politely refuse, if the other party really does not know each other, it is okay to refuse directly.
If you can't hug it anyway, don't hug it, don't be embarrassed. The other parent is not embarrassed, what are you embarrassed about?
Second, if you have to hug yourself, you can sit and hug
After pregnancy, the stomach is getting bigger and bigger, and pregnant mothers are easily unstable in their center of gravity, and the waist and abdomen are also very strong.
When you have to hold the baby, you can sit and hold, at least the waist is not so strong, and you don't have to worry about the problem of standing unsteadily.
However, be sure to pay attention to protecting the abdomen and avoid accidentally bumping into the baby.
Third, carry the baby
Most of the babies are more active, some are still relatively leather, meet this kind of baby, pregnant mothers do not say hug, sit as far as possible to sit a little farther, safety for the sake of.
There are also some babies, not very old, but a lot of weight, this kind of baby pregnant mother is best not to hold, too much effort.
Small-month-old babies can consider hugging, but it also depends on their physical condition. But also to consider the other person's ideas, if others do not like, you must also be interesting, so as not to make everyone unhappy.
Some families have a relatively short time difference between the first and second children, only one or two years apart, and when pregnant with the second child, Dabao often asks for hugs.
Sometimes their own baby does have to be held, one is because of love, the second is really unbearable, and the third is because of insufficient manpower, pregnant mothers also need to bring big treasures.
In this case, the pregnant mother should repeat to the baby from the day of pregnancy why she did not hold him, and the more times she said it, the more the baby could slowly understand and grow up with the baby.
All in all, whether it is someone else's baby or your own baby, first of all, you can not hold it if you don't hold it; then it is not long, you can get through the barrier; the most important thing to pay attention to is safety, to ensure the safety of the fetus and yourself.
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