When the mother is a little crooked, the parenting is very positive! (Wen | Crooked Mother)
Friend Kobayashi has a 10-year-old daughter, the little girl is smart and beautiful, Kobayashi and his wife are very attentive to the cultivation of children, every night to take turns tutoring homework until very late, usually on weekends with children to cram classes, dancing classes, Go classes, children and adults time are occupied full, the recent period of midterm exams, children are studying every day until the early morning, very hard, tired face, dark circles are very heavy.
One night it was 11:30, my daughter was still doing practice problems, Kobayashi was next to me, the child was too tired to whisper, "Mom, I'm too sleepy, just sleep for a little while", said and closed his eyes, fell off the stool. Kobayashi was frightened and quickly picked up the child, but felt that the child's whole body was soft and weak, and his breathing was weak.
Kobayashi felt bad, while crying while sending the child to the hospital, but unfortunately, after rescue, he was unable to save the child's life, the doctor said that the child was due to long-term fatigue, resulting in multi-organ failure, and eventually cardiac arrest, sudden death from overwork.
The Kobayashi couple now wash their faces with tears all day, regretting that they are usually strict with their children, and wanted to make her better, but they lost their daughter forever.
Now many parents are very important to the cultivation of children, Wangzi Jackie Chan, Wangnu Chengfeng, in addition to letting children master the knowledge of learning in school, but also increased a variety of Olympic numbers, Austrian language, English, twelve hours a day to learn is not enough, weekends are also occupied by a variety of training classes, interest classes, and children grow in the process, adequate rest and sleep is very important, long-term fatigue, will damage the child's health, while a pleasant mood is also particularly important for physical health. As a parent, while raising children, we must also pay attention to their physical and psychological pressure, and correctly help children reduce stress.
Communicate more with your child and understand your child's needs
After a whole day of homework, the learning content in school has been enough for children to digest for a long time, for weak homework, you can communicate with children, how to improve, if necessary, you can carry out extracurricular tutoring, can not be determined by the will of parents. Extracurricular interest classes, choose children like to learn, learn children in a happy mood, but also appropriate decompression.
Get out and about and see the outside world
Children above the third grade, the requirements for schoolwork are relatively high, coupled with extracurricular interest classes, cram classes, the pressure is naturally greater, it is recommended that parents in addition to supervising children to complete schoolwork, but also should take children out to play, contact with outside things, go to the park, watch movies, playgrounds, etc., so that children can relax their mood at the same time can also enhance parent-child relationship.
Spend more time with your child and observe the subtle changes in your child
It is recommended that parents take more time to accompany their children, play with their children, learn, eat, etc., observe the subtle changes in the child's physiology and psychology, and the child may pour out pressure in the process of companionship, or the subtle discomfort of the body will also be perceived, timely intervention or medical treatment, not to the worst point.
Eat a reasonable diet, work and rest regularly, and strengthen exercise.
According to the nutritional needs of children of all ages, a balanced diet, eat more nutritious foods, milk, eggs, beef, fish, fruits, etc., to enhance physical fitness. Proper intake of foods containing crude fiber to prevent constipation. Cultivating a good work and rest time can not only ensure adequate sleep for children, but also urge children to complete their own things within the specified time and cultivate the concept of time. Exercise with your child every day, which not only enhances the physique, but also allows the child's pressure to be released and energetically invested in learning and life.
Crooked Mom Summary:
Children are like young trees, they need the baptism of wind and rain to thrive, but as a parent, they can't hang too many things on small trees, otherwise small trees will also break, and everything will be stretched and relaxed, so that small saplings can grow into towering trees.
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