As we all know, China is a humane society, as long as a person soars, there will be relatives and friends to come to the rescue. In a word: "The poor are in the downtown area and no one asks, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains." And as a "poor relative", if you want others to carry you, it is very important to be able to talk and do things. After all, it is the love of others to help you, and it is the duty not to help you. If you do something wrong, not only will you not be able to get help from your relatives, but you will even bring about the disaster of killing yourself. Today, I will introduce to you the story of Zhu Yuanzhang's two small requests for officials.
Zhu Yuanzhang's tragic childhood
The origin of Ming Taizu Zhu Yuanzhang, presumably everyone knows, he is the most poor family among the founding emperors of China. Although Liu Bang was also from the grassroots, he did not fall to the point of being about to eat, and Zhu Yuanzhang almost became a beggar. Zhu Yuanzhang was born in Haozhou, Anhui Province, in the last year of the Yuan Dynasty to a poor peasant family, and his ancestors were poor farmers for three generations.
Zhu Yuanzhang's childhood stills
The ancestors of the Zhu family were originally in Peidi, and to the generation of his grandfather Zhu Chuyi, they moved to Xuyi, Jiangsu. Zhu Yuanzhang's father, Zhu Wusi, moved to Haozhou, Anhui Province, in order to change his fate. But in Haozhou, the Zhu family was still poor, so Zhu Yuanzhang herded cattle for the landlords from an early age. There is no shame in being a cowherd, and many big people have experience of herding cattle when they are young. However, around three years ago, Zhu Yuanzhang experienced the destruction of his family.
Zhu Yuanzhang's parents died
In the third year, a drought occurred in Haozhou. The following year, there was another plague of locusts and plagues. In less than half a month, Zhu Yuanzhang's parents and eldest brother died one after another. The young Zhu Yuanzhang and his second brother wanted to bury their relatives, but they could not even afford to buy a coffin. They went to beg the landlord, and the landlord told Little Zhu Yuanzhang to roll aside. Because the landlords don't think they have the ability to repay. If he starved to death one day, wouldn't he lose all his money? Later, the neighbor Liu Jizu could not see it and gave them a piece of land to bury their parents.
Zhu Yuanzhang joined the army
In order to eat enough, Zhu Yuanzhang was forced to separate from his second brother and sister-in-law and go to Huangjue Temple to become a monk. As for his anti-Yuan path, it was completely forced by the monks of the monastery. At that time, Tang He wrote a letter to Zhu Yuanzhang to join the Red Turban Army, and when Zhu Yuanzhang was hesitating, the monks of the monastery planned to report him. Zhu Yuanzhang had no choice but to go to Tang He. Unexpectedly, this was actually a clear road, and he later grew stronger and stronger, destroying Chen Youyu and Zhang Shicheng, overthrowing the Yuan Dynasty, and establishing Daming.
Zhu Yuanzhang sent two small requests for officials
Zhu Yuanzhang became emperor and had a career, and those playmates when he was a child moved the mind of an official. There is a person who grew up with Zhu Yuanzhang wearing open crotch pants, and the relationship between the two is very good. Although there was not much contact later, in his opinion, it was not a problem to ask Zhu Yuanzhang to be a petty official. So he grinned and went to see Zhu Yuanzhang.
Zhu Yuanzhang
When the man was brought into the main hall, Zhu Yuanzhang was playing a fold. He suddenly shouted loudly: "Zhu Zhongba (Zhu Yuanzhang's previous name), you became emperor, put on the dragon robe, and sat there with five people and six people, and it was like that!" Zhu Yuanzhang was a little unhappy in his heart, but for the sake of his childhood friendship, he put up with it. Later, in order to close the relationship with Zhu Yuanzhang, the person took the initiative to help Zhu Yuanzhang recall his childhood past.
Zhu Yuanzhang stills
"Heavy eight, do you remember?" When we were young, we herded cattle for the landlord, and every day we couldn't eat enough, so we could only cook potatoes in the field. You almost choked to death because you hadn't eaten for a few days, pulled hard, and almost choked to death. If I hadn't poured water on your back and patted you, you would have died. You haven't forgotten that, have you? Now that you're emperor, what kind of official are you going to reward me with?" When he gleefully described the past, he did not see at all that Zhu Yuanzhang's face was already gloomy to terrible. After he finished speaking, Zhu Yuanzhang had people pulled out and beheaded.
Pulled out and beheaded
The advantages of high emotional intelligence
Later, another fellow villager went to Zhu Yuanzhang to seek an official, and unlike the previous person, he had bullied Zhu Yuanzhang when he was a child. He also didn't know whether Zhu Yuanzhang still remembered revenge, so as soon as he saw Zhu Yuanzhang's face, he knelt down and said, "When I was a child, I thought that my eldest brother was not an ordinary person. The eldest brother became emperor. Zhu Yuanzhang saw that he was quite polite and asked him to get up and speak.
Asking fellow villagers to do things naturally means playing the family affection card, so this person has also moved out of the old past. But he was not as blunt as the previous person, but said humorously and humorously: "Long live my lord, I want to be when Wei Chen swept the Luzhou capital with his car, destroyed the can state city, Marshal Tang fled, the red child was passed, and the bean general was held, thanks to the vegetable general." ”
Zhu Yuanzhang and old friends
In fact, what he said was also some childhood troubles, but Zhu Yuanzhang laughed and was not angry when he heard it, why is this? Because of this high emotional intelligence, speak euphemism. Not only did he get closer to Zhu Yuanzhang, but he did not uncover the scars of Zhu Yuanzhang's childhood, so Zhu Yuanzhang was naturally very happy. Therefore, the fellow villager got the official as he wished.