Uncle Kai Storytelling (ID: kaishujianggushi) by Qingyue
Some time ago, the parent group was swiped by an 11-year-old girl.
In the video, the young girl sits at the piano, and she sings "My Motherland and Me" while delicately pressing the keys of the piano, and the pleasant notes continue to flow from her fingertips.
Bouncing to the excitement, the girl raised her head slightly, and the light hit her face, revealing a hint of her difference:
She had no eyes.
Her name is Chen Lin, she suffers from the rare "congenital ophthalmia", and since birth, she is destined to live only in the dark for a lifetime.
However, after 2 years and 9 months of hard study, she was awarded the 8th Grade Piano Certificate of the Royal College of Music with excellent results!
How awesome is that?
The Piano Examination at the Emperor's Conservatory of Music has always been considered "IELTS in the Piano". Ordinary people generally have to go through 4 years of practice before the exam, and the results may not be excellent.
And Xiao Chen Lin not only did it, but even did it better than ordinary people, is the world's first ABRSM piano player Level 8, and has excellent results of Chinese visually impaired people!
This means that she is not only eligible to apply for admission to the Royal College of Music, but can even apply for further scholarships.
So inspirational!
Fate is unfair, and people are born different.
Some people are born healthy and peaceful, and their lives are rich and smooth, while others are destined to step on thorns and face setbacks and sufferings.
However, when the flood of fate strikes, there are always some people who choose to swim against the current and become the most beautiful retrograde.
In the face of difficulties, intransigence is the greatest confidence
Not long ago, a courier brother named Zhou Chunming in Lianyungang caught fire.
In last year's public examination, Zhou Chunming became a civil servant with excellent results in the first written examination and the first interview.
How hard the work of the courier is, I believe everyone can see it.
The wind and the sun, coupled with the cumbersome sorting process, require a lot of energy and physical energy every day.
However, under such conditions, in order to prepare for the exam, he insisted on getting up at 4:30 every day to study.
When I got home at night, even though I was exhausted, I still had to study from 8:30 to 11:30 at night.
At the end of the week, he did not relax at all, but instead seized the time even more and studied continuously for 14 hours.
In the face of thousands of troops and horses in the public examination, Zhou Chunming, who had no advantage, did not timidly step or compromise, but ran with all his strength and paid several times, or even dozens of times, efforts than ordinary people.
He wrote next to the schedule: If you can't eat the pain of self-discipline, you have to eat the suffering of life.
He said: "Don't give up, don't give up, actively work hard, go to action!" ”
Some netizens sighed and said: "With such spirit and perseverance, doing anything will have good results." ”
Deeply.
Sometimes, what hinders you from moving forward is not setbacks and hardships, but compromises and withdrawals, and it is never the difficulties that can limit you, but yourself.
If you want to harvest a different life, you must have the courage to face difficulties and fight hard.
Not admitting one's fate is the best attitude
I can't help but think of Tao Kai, a 41-year-old chengguan who caused a heated discussion not long ago.
As a law enforcement officer in the scenic spot, Tao Kai wears the scorching sun on his head, wears a cloak of wind and snow, and runs in the streets and alleys every day.
His back was often wet and dry, dry and wet.
The work is so hard, but Tao Kai still does not give up on improving himself.
He insisted on working while soaking in the library, often reading books until late at night.
Day after day, after 7 years of hard study, he not only won a doctorate degree from Wuhan University, but also passed the "legal examination" and obtained a legal professional qualification certificate.
Rousseau once said: "Heavy rain can delay our arrival, but it does not stop us from advancing." ”
In today's increasingly fierce competition, many people complain that it is "too difficult" and "unfair", but they do not make any effort and choose to "lie flat" and compromise.
However, they forget that although there is much helplessness in reality, and some external conditions we really cannot change, we can change ourselves.
When you face difficulties, but you can never give up and work hard, even if you can't reap success, you can harvest a better self.
Although some people, from birth, are destined to stand in the midst of thorns and endure the wind and rain.
But as long as we do not compromise on the arrangement of fate and strive to survive blood and tears, one day, we will break through the shackles of fate, harvest growth and joy, and open up our own beautiful life.
These 3 abilities will benefit children for a lifetime
Excellent people are always similar, and from these people who are not defeated by difficulties and can still achieve counterattacks in difficult situations, it is not difficult to find that they all have some of the same abilities.
These abilities allow them to be fearless and forge ahead even in desperate situations.
For children, having these abilities can also better combat the risks of life and benefit them for life.
Self-discipline is the foundation of success
Behind any success, it is inseparable from the shadow of self-discipline.
The 6 teenagers in the "Xueba Dormitory" of Hunan Normal University Affiliated High School were strict with themselves, and eventually all of them were admitted to Tsinghua and Peking University.
Haruki Murakami only started writing at the age of 30, and in order to realize his dream, he got up at 5 o'clock every day to write, and insisted on writing for nearly 40 years.
Only when a person learns self-discipline can he truly control his life and gain the initiative to change his destiny.
And the child's self-discipline is not innate, usually there is a "other law" before there is "self-discipline".
Cultivating children's self-discipline is inseparable from the teaching and supervision of parents.
From an early age, teach children how to plan their learning and life, and urge their children to complete the plan, in order to help children develop good self-discipline ability, so that children have the ability to control their own lives.
Resist the frustration and let the child go further
Life cannot be smooth sailing, every child will experience setbacks and pain, at this time, the resilience is particularly important for children.
Resilience refers to the ability to resist setbacks.
Children with high resilience, when facing difficulties, can always cope with them with a more positive attitude and way, and adjust themselves faster and strive to break through setbacks and dilemmas.
Last year, Ma Zihui, an 8-year-old girl who touched countless people, was a girl with high resilience.
In the short track speed skating competition, she fell and immediately got up, and finally won the championship by "overtaking in the corner".
Talent and conditions are important, but in the face of accidents and setbacks, but can not be afraid of difficulties, catch up with the mentality, is the key to determining the child's future can go further.
If you want to improve your child's resilience, you must be willing to let your child "suffer".
Parents do not take care of their children's lives, let the children try more and do more, so as not to deprive the children of the opportunity to encounter setbacks, and the children can cultivate a higher ability to resist setbacks in one setback after another.
The internal driving force is the driving force for progress
Many parents always complain that their children are good at everything, that is, they do not love to work hard and do not love to learn.
In fact, this is all because the child lacks internal drive.
Last year, Zhou Zhaoyan, a 6-year-old "guitar girl" who was popular all over the Internet, learned the piano with her father since she was 3 years old, and insisted on practicing for at least 2 hours a day, but never cried bitterness and tiredness, but enjoyed it.
She said: "Music is the best dream of my dreams. ”
Her love of music is her internal driving force, so that she can consciously strive to move forward even without external supervision.
If you want to cultivate your child's internal drive, the most important thing is to start from the child's interests and help the child find what he really loves.
Zhou Zhaoyan's parents once mentioned that when they first started to expose their daughters to music, they only focused on mobilizing their interests and only spent half an hour a day.
Starting from the child's interest and helping the child to cultivate the internal drive, the child can truly consciously work hard.
Children with internal drive will have the ability to grow independently even if they face difficulties when they grow up.
There are always many injustices in life, and we can never decide our own birth or predict our fate.
However, we can decide how to live our lives and what kind of mentality we should use to face life.
Perhaps, in a lifetime of poverty, we will not be able to reach Rome, but on the way to Rome, we can also harvest flowers and applause, courage and growth.
May every child have the perseverance to fight against difficulties to the end and the courage to die in fate.
This article is reproduced in Uncle Kai's Storytelling (ID: kaishujianggushi), which unites 40 million families, brings good hope to parents, and allows more children to have a happy childhood.
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