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For men's mate selection criteria, we will always be too arbitrary to judge, many people think that men like beautiful girls. If some girls have a bad image of themselves, after being rejected by the people they like, they will conclude that they have lost on the image.
Of course, I admit that lust is the nature of men, in fact, not only boys, girls will also have a face control side. In the process of getting along with the opposite sex, our first impression depends on the appearance of the other party, if the appearance does not grow on their own aesthetic points, even if the other party is good to themselves. It's also hard to be impressed by him.
Our first impression of a person directly determines whether there will be more in-depth development after that. Appearance has a decisive factor in how two people get along, but it is definitely not a necessary factor.
Because what we all need to know is that the appearance is like a bubble, and it is easy to be blown apart. Because of the appearance of a person like, in the end will also be because of the encounter with a more beautiful girl, so choose to leave.
In fact, men are not as superficial as we think, they like beautiful girls, but the decision whether they will like them for a long time lies in the personal charm of this person.
In life, we often see some handsome guys standing next to their unassuming girls. It seems that it is very wrong, and I will wonder in my heart what the other party has in mind?
But when you really understand their mode of getting along, you will find that those girls who are not good-looking have their own superiority.
It turns out that girls who can really enter the hearts of men often do not rely on beauty, but have a 3-point skill.
Emotionally stable, rarely emotional, rational handling of emotional contradictions
Emotional stability is a woman's highest level of emotional intelligence.
These four words are easy to say, but few people can do it, especially for women, who are very emotional in themselves, and it is easy to be swayed by emotions and do some confusing things.
Especially after falling into feelings, it is easier to stimulate the emotional side, because too much care about the other party, and often fall into troubled emotions.
If a person is completely swayed by emotions, then they will become very explosive and irritable. It's hard for you to communicate positively with her. Maybe at first men will want to talk to you, but when they see you, they will retreat, and then when they encounter problems, they will choose the cold war and leave you alone.
Two people together, is bound to encounter a lot of contradictions. When encountering emotional problems, you must deal with emotions first, and then deal with problems. Being completely emotionally controlled will only make things worse.
Women in the relationship, can appropriately maintain the sensibility. However, when encountering contradictions, we must be able to deal with them rationally. Don't be overwhelmed by emotions and communicate with each other calmly. I will not say something irreparable because of my emotions, and I will not push the other party away again and again by my own nature.
Once or twice, men can tolerate your bad emotions, but over time, sooner or later they will get bored.
Women who can be liked by men for a long time can control their emotions, deal with emotional problems rationally, and maintain benign communication with each other, and many problems can be solved.
Strong sense of self-worth, a firm inner order, and will not be easily influenced by others
There are women who will see love as greater than the sky, and in their world, love is always in the first place. For them, many things can be missing, but love can't.
They can't stand the loneliness of a person, and they never learn to be alone. Therefore, it will fall into some bad love again and again, and it is impossible to get lost.
This is because they don't have a firm inner order, all value is based on men, and they enjoy the feeling of being held in the palm of their hands by men. There is no way to accept the fact that the other person does not like themselves.
Their world has always revolved around men, with no personal value. When you are not loved, you would rather bow down and keep it. I can't turn around and go.
Such women are often not cherished by men because they have seen you through. Knowing that you can't leave him at all, you have already looked down on you from your bones, how can you know how to cherish you?
What men really cherish are often women who have a strong sense of self-worth, can always maintain independence, and focus on their inner world. It's easy to change yourself because of others. Whether you are single or alone, you can live a very relaxed life.
When women are completely loyal to themselves and focus on themselves, then men will look up to you.
He is good enough, has a strong aura, and has a strong personal charm
A man's love is very realistic, whether he will choose you, and how long he will love you, is entirely determined by your value and personal charm.
Love is never a charcoal in the snow, but the icing on the cake. Love is not poverty alleviation, but two people joining hands.
Women always want to be looked at by quality men, and their other half is a sparkling presence. But if you are covered in mud yourself, how can you be attracted to those good men?
Everyone wants their significant other to be good, and men are no exception. Men often hate to leave you behind because you can't keep up with him, and they can't help but want to show off to the world because of your excellence.
Men love women from the bottom of their hearts, they are all excellent, strong in temperament, and have a strong personal charm. They stand with men without being afraid of the stage, will not be drowned by men's light, such a woman, love for them, has never been a necessity, but dispensable existence, when women do not need love at all, but it is the most able to be treated well by men.
It turns out that women who can really get into men's hearts. Often not rely on beauty, but on their own personal charm.
Beauty is only a temporary after all, and if you are relying on your own beauty, you have won the heart of a man. Then be prepared to be replaced at any time.
Only the personal charm that melts into one's own bones cannot be stolen by anyone. No matter how long it has been, it will be forever.
High-ranking women are never limited to their appearance, but will constantly sculpt their own interior. They can be dependent on men or they can be completely without love. Only such a woman can truly enter the heart of a man.