Love, a simple word, is the knot in the hearts of thousands of men and women.
For love, when we are young, more, our hearts are longing, is longing, is to feel that love is very beautiful.
Then, with the beginning of the love sinus, we will like a person, because of a person and be excited.
We think that is love, but many times, this heartbeat comes and goes quickly, and there may not be anything left, and with that person, we may not be able to have a result.
Going around, we will meet some people and experience some different feelings.
In the end, it is also after a lot of personal experience that we will finally understand that the original love, unlike what we imagined, is not only sweet, but also has a lot of bitterness.
Yes, true love is never as complete as it seems, and it is divided into different stages.
Loved it, always wanted to stick together.
The first stage of love, naturally, is to be interesting to each other, to have a good feeling for each other, to feel like each other.
There are so many people in the crowd, but in our eyes, we can only see each other, and whenever we look at each other, our eyes are always full of deep affection.
From time to time, I always miss each other madly, and I want to stay by each other's side at any time, even if we have just broken up with each other, the next moment, we have begun to miss each other in particular, and I want to rush to each other's side.
I don't know what happened, but I suddenly became particularly deep, unconsciously, I forgot a lot of things, I just want to look at each other well, and I am often tired of being with each other.
For that person, we will always want to give care, to give care, to give preference, to give everything we have to each other. Even so, I always feel that it is not enough, and the other party is completely worthy of all the beauty in this world.
Between each other, a day is not seen, as if a long time apart, every day to contact several times.
At this stage, we are the rarest of each other, and we will always smile unconsciously because of love, thinking that everything at the moment is so perfect, because with each other, life is so complete.
In our hearts, there will also be a feeling of meeting and hating each other, but we are glad that we just met each other.
Want space, enter the thinking phase.
After intense love, our love, ourselves, tends to calm down.
No longer whenever there is time, I will rush to the other party's side, not even if there is no time, even if I take the time to make a phone call to the other party, chat with the other party quickly, and quickly warm up.
I can't say why, we start to feel like we're always with each other, and that seems to affect our normal lives.
We no longer want to never be separated from each other, but hope that while loving each other, we will also have some time of our own, as well as our own independent space, to meet some other people and do other things.
In addition, instead of impulsively wanting to marry each other quickly, we will also begin to think and weigh, compare all aspects, and ask ourselves whether the other party is really suitable for us, and whether it is the right person.
Instead of symbiosis, we begin to want to separate, to return to ourselves, to become more independent.
At this stage, they are no longer always very harmonious with each other, but there are a lot of problems, there will be some differences, and there will be some places that are not so satisfied.
It seems that this is the feelings disappearing, in fact, each other is just running into each other, adapting to each other. A relationship, only after a run-in, is it possible to really last, and each other can continue to walk together.
Return to the plain, and share the burden together.
A lot of love, after the initial sweetness, because of some contradictions, even if there is no contradiction, each other will break up.
This kind of love, but only a momentary passion, is very short-lived, and it is not true at all.
Good love, sweetness will disappear, there will be problems in getting along, but each other will not easily let go of each other's hands, will only from affection to recognition, the order through the run-in stage, to the stability period.
Two people will not be because the feelings seem to fade, the problem seems to increase, and then break up, and then look for a person again, but will identify with the blandness of feelings, feel that it is the most real love.
If we like it, we will want to go to the end, together with chai rice oil and salt, together with three meals for four seasons.
In the days to come, the brightest moments will be shared with each other, and the low points of life will also be overcome with each other.
No matter what happens to the outside world, each other's small world is always particularly stable, each other is willing to become each other's reliance, and they are willing to become each other's safe haven, always giving each other a warmth, a support, a shelter.
Anyway, no matter how many temptations there are, no matter how many times you want to give up, no matter how many problems you encounter, you always stand firmly by each other's side, never give up, and work together to create happiness exclusive to each other.
Love, it is not just a moment, but it will last for a long time.
At first it was enthusiastic, then it was doubtful, and finally it was the ordinary days.
There is not so much vigorousness, some are just a tacit understanding formed over time.
Each other always understands what the other person says, and each other is always able to understand each other's ideas at the first time.
True love, in fact, begins with the heart and returns to the ordinary.
Only when we know how to settle for the ordinary, enjoy this ordinariness, and live well with each other, can we really feel a contentment in the ordinary years and have the kind of happiness we want.
Otherwise, always chasing a feeling, a heartbeat, no matter how many people are changed, we will only feel that something is wrong, our hearts are still drifting, and we can't leave anyone around us.
Text/Tan Meng
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