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Tang Ruoxin learns original works, and those who violate them will be investigated
In life, if we want to make our life more and more smooth, we need to understand that in fact, in essence, you only need to do yourself well, and the more you know how to do yourself, the more victorious your life path will be.
And your life is not smooth, in essence, we do not know how to be ourselves, we lose ourselves, we will suffer, we lose ourselves, we can not be safe to be ourselves.
If you want to make your life better and better, please learn to be yourself, when you are yourself, your life path will really be smooth.
First, being yourself is essentially accepting yourself
Chen Danqing was once asked by reporters why you have so much influence, Chen Danqing said, because I don't want to be influenced by others.
So the essence of being yourself is not to sacrifice yourself, but to be self-sufficient, to respect yourself, to make yourself feel comfortable inside. Chen Danqing expresses himself truthfully, so he will form his own series of influences, of course, this is inseparable from the insights he has accumulated over the years.
In fact, many times, we must have a stable self in our hearts to be ourselves. If our inner growth standards are not established, then our ego will be very vague, and naturally what others say, we will be easily affected.
Accepting ourselves requires accepting our truthful growth experiences and accepting everything that life has given us. Some people are dissatisfied with their original family in the process of growing up, they will not accept their parents truthfully, and even deceive others in front of others, how good my family is.
Accepting our original family is essentially a deep understanding of our own source, and understand that human potential is unlimited, the original family is not everything that determines us, we can work hard to better improve our own life source, thus bringing new opportunities and new starting points.
Others are dissatisfied with their academic qualifications, and he is not accepting enough to deceive others with lies. Once we are able to accept our academic qualifications and realize that learning is lifelong, often our inner pressures can be lifted.
Learning to accept ourselves is essentially not to judge ourselves by anything external, but to know how to see everything about ourselves completely, at which time our inner potential will be fully activated and the growth channel of life will be established.
Second, keep a state of continuous exploration to face life
The essence of being yourself is also to accept your own life problems, everyone comes to this world has their own problems, if we want to make our lives more smooth, the sooner you find your own life problems, then your growth will continue to amplify.
To be yourself is to maintain a continuous exploration mentality to face your own life, life is impermanent, when you are no longer attached to everything, when you understand the impermanence of the world and life, you may understand that learning to bravely face everything that happens in life, you have surpassed most people.
In fact, in the process of growing up, many people do not face their own lives, but habitually avoid and avoid, and since then, their lives will not be stretched, and their egos will collapse more and more.
The true self is the need to bravely pick up the responsibility of our own life in the face of the challenges of life, and not slacken off what happens to us, so that we can slowly gain control of our own life.
The biggest difficulty in being yourself is to escape and dare not face, is that in the process of growing up, when we encounter problems, we do not find ways to solve them, but habitually throw problems to others, which will only make the ego shrink more and more.
The true self is established in the commitment, and the courage of the self and the core of the self will become more and more stable. When you are running away, your ego cannot be established, and you cannot be yourself.
If we want to be ourselves, the most important way and way for us to face ourselves positively and connect with our inner selves will be restored.
The true self is essentially full of courage, faith, love and wisdom. The more we connect with our true selves, the more we will not be afraid, but dare to do whatever we want to do, which will naturally open up the situation in our lives.
Third, to be yourself is essentially to respect one's own will in life
There is never an absolutely correct way to live in this world. To be yourself is, in essence, to respect one's own will in life.
Some people, from a young age, have longed for a plain and simple life, but their parents want him to become an excellent talent because of their high expectations, so that he dares not be himself, so that he thinks that his ideas are wrong, and learning to respect his own wishes is the most important.
To be yourself is essentially to see what your life desire is, what kind of way you want to live, the more you can understand the desire of the heart, the more you understand what the lifestyle you want is, and you are also continuing to do it, naturally your life will be very smooth.
In fact, the essence that affects us to be ourselves is our distrust of ourselves, we are swept up by the social environment, the influence of the mainstream concept of society on us, the judgment of the self does not believe, we will habitually listen to the mainstream opinions, ignore their own voices, resulting in weak self-confidence, unable to make good decisions, and wait until the opportunity is missed, only to suddenly repent.
The growth of life is in the process of continuous exploration and continuous trial and error, and only then will we find a correct path of our own. If we want to be better at ourselves, the best way is to listen to our inner voice and ask how we feel and what our most desired lifestyle looks like.
This way of life is not necessarily completely in accordance with the mainstream standards, but the most suitable for ourselves, this appropriate feeling is gradually discovered and seen in the continuous exploration of life.
When we are able to treat ourselves in this way, when we feel happy and happy in our hearts, naturally our lives will enter a good development track.
A good life needs to be connected with the self, and we need to maintain the ability to accept ourselves and the ability to appreciate ourselves, which is not narcissism, but a deep self-care and self-empowerment, when we continue to do this, we will make you dare to face all the challenges of life.
Learning to be yourself is the same, seeing your own advantages in practice, knowing how to respect yourself, and knowing how to connect yourself and live out your own life wishes, our life will come true.
Today's topic: Do you think that being yourself, whether life will be smoother and smoother, welcome to discuss and communicate.