Author | Fan Deng Reading · The clouds are light and the wind is light
Anchor | Fan Deng Reading · Children
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The protagonist who appears today, who has traveled to 59 countries in his life, is one of the most popular female writers in the Chinese;
Her love with her husband is romantic and classic, and it is touching and sad to read.
Her short life, ups and downs, wonderful.
But 31 years ago today, she left this world.
Let's walk into the legendary life of female writer -Sanmao together
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The first impression is that Sanmao's book is very boring, and after shelving it for a few days without reading it, the person who suddenly feels bored is himself.
She is an angelic, unconstrained by the world, truly living like herself, not a person who writes to please others.
Sanmao's style charm, you can turn the powder at any time.
Sanmao traveled to 59 countries in his lifetime, and wrote countless touching stories about his experiences.
Her writing is moving, her footprints are full of love and romance.
More than forty years later, the desert town of Ayoun, where Sanmao and Jose lived, is still full of yellow sand, but many people are willing to buy more than 10,000 tickets and go there to find Sanmao footprints;
The hotel is ridiculously expensive, and fans do not hesitate to place orders, preferring to eat soil for a month and also to see where Sanmao has lived.
The Canary Islands, where Sanmao lived, have up to 15 million tourists every year, mostly for Sanmao Jose's love story.
"Olive Tree" written by Sanmao, "Don't ask me where I came from, my hometown is far away..." has also become a classic that will never fade.
Sanmao lives into a legend, she yearns for freedom and distance, and can't let go of trivial warmth; she is sensitive and fragile, strong and brave; she is out of the ordinary, and she loves fireworks in the world.
She was as fluttering as a cloud and as strong as a tree.
Sanmao practices in the refinement of love and love, and pursues in emptiness and thickness.
Step through the mud, cut through thorns, boil until life drops into beads, and condense love and pain into eternal poetry.
Read all the books of Sanmao, summarize these four philosophies of life, and read them together.
A self-described "abandoned woman" wrote to Sanmao for help.
After her husband went to the United States to study, she filed for divorce, and she broke up with pain and almost collapsed.
She asked Sanmao, "Why should I live any longer?" ”
The story takes place decades ago, when women longed for love and marriage as if they were the whole of life.
Without love, there is no way to live.
If it's now, divorce is no big deal. When you are sad, you will cry, wipe away your tears and continue to live a good life.
Divorce is about closing a door, but opening a window for yourself.
Sanmao encouraged her: No one can abandon you unless you "abandon yourself"; a bad marriage, leaving early is a good thing; without a husband, you can live well.
Sanmao asked with a soul, "Do you have the courage to die, don't you have the courage to live?"
Seeing Sanmao say this, people may ask: Sanmao, you speak lightly, what about yourself?
Yes, the "greedy" Sanmao, twice "lost" the beloved: the beloved fiancé died suddenly in her arms the night before marriage;
She and Jose, who had waited for her for six years, wandered to the Sahara Desert, and her life was hard but infinitely wonderful.
Six years later, Jose left her, separated from life and death. She said: "I hid in the darkness, thinking of Jose almost into madness, acacia, slowly nibbling at my body like a worm until I became a big empty hole. ”
Sanmao heals wounds, writes, speaks, and encourages others to love life. But at the age of 47, he hanged himself and died.
Netizens hurt her: Then why don't you live well?
But someone helped her to defend: she was persuading herself, not the world, you persuaded yourself to be strong and brave, how can it be so easy to do.
Sanmao has experienced more suffering and suffered more pain than others; the degree of pain he feels is still acute and intense.
But she was carefree, and the harder it was, the more courageous she was to move forward; the more painful it was, the more she had to bloom in the wind. Live full in barrenness, live in bleakness and be pure and simple.
On the road of life, she sprinkled the fragrance and left a fragrance all the way.
Sanmao is in the Sahara Desert, water is scarce, and it is difficult to find firewood for a bed... She "started from scratch", and the two built a warm and special home.
She went to the islands of the Atlantic Ocean and lived like a "stupid person", simple but tasteful.
She said:
"The original humans, like other animals roaming the wilderness on Earth, struggled in the natural environment and only wanted to survive."
From the most primitive to create a life of their own, there is a unique charm.
Sanmao said: The form of the body is not important, the realm is created by the mind, and one thought can spend a world, a sand and a heaven.
A transparent and simple person, a flower on the windowsill, can feel its brightness; a undisturbed heart, as small as a grain of sand, will not ignore its existence.
Sanmao lived a simple and lively life.
The marriage procedure is complicated, and the simple Sanmao said that it would not be knotted, but Jose insisted on giving Sanmao a ceremony.
The two ran the post office for three months in anticipation, and when the results came to fruition, they decided to get married the next day.
Josela Sanmao went to a not-so-decent movie theater to watch "Greek Zorba" and celebrate saying goodbye to singleness.
Jose's wedding gift to Sanmao was a somewhat scary camel skull. On the day of the wedding, the two went to the court to pay their respects, and they were as simple as watching the hilarity.
Sanmao wanted to look more solemn, and took the coriander in the kitchen and pinned it to his hat.
During the ceremony, Sanmao inadvertently slapped his hat a few times, and the coriander fell to the ground.
Back at the residence, they found that the judge had forgotten to let them exchange rings, and the two exchanged themselves.
If you change to someone else, you feel that you will be wronged, right? Sanmao married himself in this way, willingly.
Her years in the Sahara were the sunniest days of her life, and she was inspired to write "The Sahara Desert" and "The Rainy Season Will Not Come Again", which amazed the world.
Sanmao went to the dump to pick up old tires and made wind lamps for Jose with tin and glass. The two were poor, but they lived a rich and happy life.
"People complain about complex lives, but they refuse to simplify," she said. It is also natural for the heart to form. ”
"I cry when I like to cry, and laugh when I want to, as long as it's all natural. I don't seek profundity, I only seek simplicity. ”
The Analects say, "Sage! Back also. A spoonful of food, a scoop of drink, in the dark alley. People are overwhelmed by their worries, and they will not change their happiness when they return. ”
Those who learn to simplify their material desires can live out the abundance and brilliance of the soul.
"An unhappy woman" sent a letter: 29 years old, unmarried, low-level clerk ... Very inferior, what is the ultimate purpose of life?
"Lowest, poor, bleak, inferior..." depressing words.
Sanmao told her that the meaning of life is to "seek true freedom" and then enjoy life to the fullest.
Sanmao said: You have a legitimate job, can afford to rent a room, your appearance is not bad, and you know how to explore the meaning of life. - It's not poor.
You see, appreciate yourself from another angle, pessimism is goodbye.
Sanmao said: "A person who does not appreciate himself is difficult to be happy. ”
Sanmao said that she would dress up her "bucket room" with a new look: whitewashing, hanging beautiful curtains, making a bookshelf in the corner, raising bonsai and hanging a few paintings...
Buy yourself a beautiful dress; change your hairstyle and refresh your eyes.
To recharge and learn, to make friends, in fact, most people are like you, ordinary and beautiful life...
Beautiful life, does not need too much money, change the mood to make yourself richer little by little.
Sanmao paints a blueprint: you calm down to cultivate one or two interests, add value to yourself, and you are an attractive woman.
A person becomes beautiful and vibrant, in learning to appreciate himself, to make himself beautiful and good.
"Next time, will you delete the word 'no'?" - Your friend Sanmao on"
Sanmao is always gentle and meticulous in helping others, just like helping himself at that time.
When Sanmao was still two hairs, he had low self-esteem, sensitivity, rebellion, depression, and suicide by cutting his wrists.
It is the love of her parents and the appreciation of her teachers who teach her to learn self-help, help her learn to learn, strengthen herself, write to gain a new life, and get out of the haze.
Sanmao said:
"My happiness is one of the rights to survive as a person, and I will pursue it year after year, month, day and day, until I die."
In a long life, pain is a day, and happiness is also a day.
Instead of complaining about inferiority, it is better to change the angle to see your own shining point; instead of retreating, it is better to pick up the burden and stride forward.
Learn to appreciate yourself in order to release energy; bravely pursue happiness, and love life with sonorous strength.
"I like to regard reading as an eternal pursuit, and I am willing to give the rest of my life to books."
Sanmao is obsessed with reading, and reading books is always like meeting the deceased.
Reading is "hide-and-seek" When Sanmao read the sentence he liked, a surprise suddenly arose: he was looking back and looking back, and he was in the middle of the light.
Unconsciously reading the oriental white outside the window, she suddenly realized, "I forget both things, falling flowers and flowing water, heaven and earth." ”
You see, sanmao reading is to go to the book to meet the old knowledge and enter the fairyland.
Sanmao said, "Studying is not for anyone, reading is only for yourself." ”
When encountered can not read, Sanmao will read the white characters. Reluctant to leave to look up the dictionary, she said: Misreading the white characters will not bring disaster to the country and the people.
When reading "Dream of the Red Chamber", Sanmao was glad that she did not ask her to read the "serious book" of her father, if there is, there will be one less writer in the world.
Sanmao read all the miscellaneous books, scientific gods and monsters social religious love martial arts detectives... All-encompassing, close the eyes. All over the world, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, please read a pleasant.
Sanmao read that two pedantic Taoist gentlemen bragged to each other about their best. The argument could not be stopped, and finally Confucius was invited.
Confucius said: The avenue is boundless, and there is no need to seek consensus.
Both of them are people I admire, what is the wrong reason?
The two walked away happily. The disciple asked Confucius: Why are you flattering them so much? Confucius said: Such a person is just as good as coaxing, why bother him?
Pedantic and transparent, really self-aware, and hilarious after reading.
Some people say that there is poetry and bookishness in the belly, and as long as Sanmao walks on the shelf like a city wall, he feels that the flowers are flying all over the sky, and his heart is peaceful and clear and full.
All famous artists and book lovers have quirks, and Sanmao is no exception.
Sanmao felt that the borrowed books were guests, and when they read, they simply did not borrow them; when she found a good book, she bought 10 copies in one go, and if someone wanted to send one.
"Books and toothbrushes are not loaned, I really insist on giving people toothbrushes." You see, Sanmao Loves Books is so stubborn.
Sanmao is maverick and radiant, and people who like her love her to the bone.
People say that she is: no prejudice, dedicated to helping others; always with a pure heart, sincere and lovely; excellent in herself, embroidered with a heart; completely open, willing to accept and understand; have the eyes and heart to discover beauty.
Sanmao "reads thousands of books and travels thousands of miles." " Colorful and uninhibited.
She experiences darkness and obscurity, but yearns for light; bears the blows of life, but is always open-minded and free.
The books she has read, the people she has met, and the things she has carried have all turned into colorful landscapes and carved into her life.
Sanmao said to his sister Chen Tianxin:
"I live one life more than you live ten lifetimes."
Sanmao has been gone for many years, people miss her, read her emotional words, and always can't help but burst into tears.
Sanmao said: "I try not to remember the past as much as possible, because the road when I came cannot be turned back." ”
"I'm careful to love others, because comparisons don't flood."
We all love Sanmao. Love her innocence and bravery, through the storms of life, still do not change their true colors.
Miao Jinlan, the mother of Sanmao, said:
"Sanmao is an innocent person... She lives steadily, maybe her life, her encounters are not perfect, but we know that she did not escape her fate, she bravely faced life. ”
Yes, life is not long, we have to live passionately.
Learn to accept and appreciate yourself and release the energy of life;
Learn to be calm and calm, build bridges in the face of water, and open the way in every mountain;
Bloom in the moment, live warmly and wonderfully.
Control yourself, never escape fate, and face life bravely.
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Author | The clouds are light and the wind is light, the time is like wine, and the pen is slightly drunk.
Column Director | Cheng zi
Typography | Zheng to the north
Image | The pictures in this article come from the Internet, and are invaded and deleted
Music | Lowe "The Olive Tree"