On the first day of Sanmao's arrival in the desert, he just settled in the rental house and asked Jose: How much does the rent here cost for a month?
Jose answered: 10,000 (about 7,000 Taiwan dollars), water and electricity are calculated separately.
Sanmao asked again: Is water expensive?
Jose said: A gasoline drum filled with 90 pieces.
The two went out to buy daily necessities, and Jose saw Sanmao carrying a pillow of money and told her: Tomorrow she will deposit the money in the bank, and then use the salary he earned to live.
Although Sanmao was angry, he was also determined to prove with his actions that he could completely live in the desert with hardship and hard work.
In her, it explains what it means to be truly happy in suffering. And this should also be the key to the harmony of husband and wife.
1. Poor couples do not necessarily have to mourn.
According to Sanmao's family situation, the life of the two is not poor. But in the desert, it is by no means rich.
Sanmao's "Starting from Scratch" details the process of establishing a home with Jose in the desert a little bit, and every time he reads it, it makes people feel emotional.
Although we cannot live by "sentient drinking water", the emotional factor can never be ignored.
I have always believed that as long as the heart is together, no matter what kind of difficulties they encounter, they will slowly survive.
As long as we can support each other when we are poor, as long as we do not forget our original intention after becoming rich, in fact, the problems in life will be slowly solved, and life will develop in a good direction.
What is afraid is that they are in the same bed and have different dreams, and each has his own thoughts.
2. The attitude towards life determines the quality of life.
Sanmao loves life, whether in the bustling city or in the barren desert, he can live a colorful and colorful life.
She arranged the burrow in the desert into a temple of art, and she still did not forget to read and make friends among the barbarian desert people.
People who have a great passion for life can overcome even the greatest difficulties.
People who live with this state can also manage their married life happily and sweetly.
Because, a happy marriage is afraid of complaining to each other and getting bored with each other.
3. The wisdom that life gives is itself wealth.
Material wealth is actually very variable, only by treating life with heart and being good at getting the spark of wisdom from life can we make the days better and better.
Sanmao said that he was stupid before, because he only had one pot, so he had to divide the cooking and cooking twice.
Later, I learned to put rice and vegetable meat together to make a dish rice, which was much easier and more convenient.
The seemingly inconspicuous wisdom of life cannot be obtained without a heartfelt understanding of life.
Those couples who live happily may not be rich themselves, but they can make full use of the existing conditions under the inspiration of the wisdom of life, and still live a tasteful life.
Happy families are all similar, and if these simple truths can be used one or two, everyone can live happily.