In the modern ideological emancipation movement, a large number of talented people have been born, some of whom have spoken out in the new cultural movement, some of whom have left their names in the progressive press, and some of whom have contributed to the road of emancipating the minds of the people. And in such a group of people, there is no shortage of progressive women... For example, Lin Huiyin of "April Day on Earth", Zhang Ailing of "Red and White Rose", Xiao Hong of "Literary Roselle", and Sanmao, who fell in love with the Sahara and married love.
Beautiful love is always enviable, but the more beautiful the easier it is to be jealous, this is not, after the death of Sanmao, there is a person named Ma Zhongxin, spent more than five years, just to try to verify that the love story between Sanmao and Jose is purely fictional, and listed a lot of so-called findings, such as Sanmao before knowing Jose actually had several "lovers", and after Jose's death, she also quickly came out of sadness, ambiguous with Jia Pingwo and others. There is even a claim that the love between Jose and Sanmao is actually a scam.
Is this kind of love really suspected of being fake? Ma Zhongxin spent 5 years to prove that the love between Sanmao and Jose was an illusion. So is this really the case?
Looking back at Sanmao's life, this woman born in Shuxiangmendi, the education she received from childhood is actually doomed to her future extraordinary.
On the one hand, this stems from Sanmao's experience of moving to Taiwan with his parents when he was a child, which laid a certain foundation for Sanmao's enthusiasm for travel in the future, and on the other hand, it stems from the strong learning atmosphere in Sanmao's family, which makes Sanmao read poetry and books at a young age, and is informal.
Sanmao's personality was a bit jumpy for people in that era, especially the world's requirements for girls always expected them to be quiet and generous, and Sanmao's dare to say and dare to do was very inconsistent with public expectations. Therefore, during the school period, Sanmao not only did not get the likes of teachers and classmates in school, but also was often excluded, and after living in such a depressing atmosphere for a period of time, the young Sanmao once suffered from depression. This made Sanmao's parents very dissatisfied, and soon went through the formalities for her to suspend school, allowing her to start a career of self-study at home.
Leaving the school, Sanmao not only did not restrict her studies because of this, but her literary attainments were rapidly improved, and at the same time, she also studied painting under the hands of famous artists, and her artistic attainments also developed. In 1964, Sanmao's outstanding artistic level was valued by the founder of the Cultural University, who recruited her to the university as an auditor, and it was here that Sanmao met his first love, Shu Fan.
Their interaction process is sweet and happy, but the good times are not long, with the arrival of the graduation season, when Sanmao proposed to Shu Fan the need to get married, she did not wait for Shu Fan's affirmation, but in exchange for a breakup.
Sanmao, who was injured by his love, chose to go to Spain to improve his studies while healing his love injuries. It was also here that Sanmao met Jose, who was six years younger. The young Jose was enthusiastic and flaunted by Sanmao's pursuit, but Sanmao did not accept Jose's love, because in her opinion, Jose was still too young to understand what love was. To this end, Sanmao also issued a ban on Jose, telling him not to come back to him. After that, Jose really stopped looking for her, and Sanmao returned to Taiwan after finishing his studies.
Shortly after returning to Taiwan, Sanmao confirmed his relationship with a photographer under the introduction of his family, but unexpectedly, on the eve of entering the wedding hall, the photographer suddenly died of a heart attack, which made Sanmao fall into love again. Fortunately, then a painter entered Sanmao's life and solved her from her sadness, but he did not know that this painter was a husband with a wife, which made Sanmao angry after learning the truth, and once again stepped on the plane to Spain and cut off contact. And it was because of this return to Spain that she once again met the man who had waited for her for many years, Jose.
Six years have passed, and it's still Spanish land, still the familiar man. Over the years, Jose's love for Sanmao has not been reduced by half a point, but has become more determined. Coupled with the fact that the years made Jose grow up quickly, giving him the charm of a mature man, which gave Sanmao enough security, so this time they finally walked together.
Soon after they were together, the two of them ushered in another major challenge, that is, once Sanmao saw the Sahara in a magazine, she was fascinated by the vastness and mystery, as if she regarded it as her "lover in a past life".
In order to meet this place that she longed for, she proposed to Jose that she wanted to go to Africa. In other words, ordinary people may not understand and accept Sanmao's approach, but Jose is different, he not only fully respects Sanmao's decision, but also quits his job and takes the lead in reaching the Sahara, just to prepare everything for her before her lover arrives.
This affection touched Sanmao quite a bit, she believed that Jose was the one who could accompany her for a lifetime, so they married in the Sahara, a simple wedding, no high-end friends, no fine wine and food, but a broccoli, a camel skull, they set a lifelong in such an environment.
After marriage, Jose and Sanmao, the enthusiasm of life was not engulfed by the wind and sand of the Sahara, but became more and more enthusiastic. Here, Jose is willing to accompany Sanmao to feel the beauty of the Sahara, and Sanmao is also willing to go to the desert with Jose to find fossils.
What a happy couple, those little bits in "The Story of the Sahara" can always capture some sweetness through the description of the text. Unfortunately, Cang Tian wanted to tease the couple, and in the seventh year after their marriage, an accident took Jose's life.
The blow to Sanmao was enormous, and Sanmao did not eat or drink for several days, and even thought about suicide, which made her parents sad, and launched a number of relatives to persuade her to dispel Sanmao's suicidal mentality.
And it is such a friendship that some people question.
For each case, ma Zhongxin's questions can be summed up in only four aspects:
First of all, Sanmao is actually ugly and old, and his strange behavior is a bit neurotic, and he is not likeable at all. Secondly, Jose did not love Sanmao at all, and even avoided Sanmao's "pursuit" many times, so he did not hesitate to go fishing alone in the distant seas, and often did not return home at night after marriage. Third, Sanmao is a hypocrite, and most of the "Sahara Stories" are her imaginations. In the end, Sanmao's private life is not in order, there are many lovers before knowing Jose, and Jose is entangled with many men after his death.
But in fact, looking at the full text of "The Truth of Sanmao", readers can easily see Ma Zhongxin's strong personal prejudice, and many of his words are not objective. And these four questions, in fact, only need to know a little about Sanmao's life, can be responded to one by one.
The first is sanmao's appearance and personality, the appearance is originally a matter of opinion, not to mention whether sanmao looks beautiful, even quasimodo, as long as he has a noble character, it is ten thousand times stronger than those who look good but have a bad stomach. What's more, Ma Zhongxin's so-called Sanmao's so-called unsightly looks and bad personality are originally obtained through interviews with a neighbor who has a conflict with Sanmao, and this neighbor once stole her family's water when Sanmao was out.
The second is the problem that Jose does not love Sanmao. This is even more ridiculous, if Jose really did not love Sanmao, he would not have waited for Sanmao for six years, let alone give up his stable job for Sanmao to go to the Sahara. And the so-called go to the isolated island fishing, Sanmao himself actually has a record in the book, that is because the island is rich in fish, is a good place to fish, but such a place is too far, every departure has to delay some time, so there will be a situation of no return at night. The third is that Sanmao is hypocritical, and "The Story of the Sahara" is fiction. Not to mention the authenticity of this statement, it is that the book really has a false component, the novel as a work of art, not a news report, the appropriate processing is also reasonable.
Finally, there is the problem of Sanmao's private life. Sanmao's previous boyfriends have been told before, there is no problem of chaos, and after Jose's death, although Sanmao has intersected with Jia Pingwa and others, it is all after Sanmao's suicide has not been successful, and for them Sanmao is more appreciative, there is no ambiguous behavior. The use of words such as "misconduct" to plant stolen goods for Sanmao is not only Ma Zhongxin's motives are not pure, but also a common means of maiming women in feudal society for thousands of years, as if women should not have any social interaction of their own, and can only stay alone in the empty boudoir, which is obviously unreasonable.
In general, Ma Zhongxin's general questioning was nothing more than seeing that Sanmao had passed away and could not respond to his content. And this practice of eating celebrity dividends is also a faster way to fame, just like the large amount of black powder that many stars have now, it does not make much sense to explore.
After all, no one is perfect, for a celebrity, we only need to learn his excellent side, always stare at the stain of the celebrity, but will fall into a bunch of stains...
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