Wen | Du Lanjun
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Hugo said, "There is one thing that is more like us than our face, and that is our expression; there is another thing, more like us than our expression, and that is our smile." ”
To judge a person, it is often not to look at his wallet, but to look at the smile on his face.
I like Sanmao's words very much: "When I smile, my face is like a spring flower, and I will be able to move people, no matter who he is." ”
A smile is a flower that blooms on people's faces, regardless of the four seasons, regardless of north and south, and always emits fragrance.
Smiling, which can drive away sorrow, heal people's hearts, and is the most powerful weapon against depression.
A person's true wealth, spiritual abundance, does not lie in external objects, but in the smile from the heart.
I went to a breakfast restaurant, and everyone called the owner "Uncle Li". The business of this shop has always been good, every time you pass by, you can always see a long queue in the store,
The breakfast restaurant next to it was deserted, and asked other guests to know the reason.
It turns out that in addition to the good quality of Uncle Li's breakfast, the service attitude is more popular with everyone.
When customers come to buy breakfast, Uncle Li always greets them with a smile, greets customers with a kind attitude, and silently notes the preferences of familiar customers and mingles with customers.
Selling breakfast requires getting up early and greedy, and at the end of the day, people's spirits are often tired, and it is rare to be able to keep a smiling face.
Compared with the breakfast restaurant next to him, the clerk always likes to put on a face, as if others owe him money, and no one wants to go in.
The high judgment was made, and the smile was lost.
The poet Tagore said, "When a man smiles, the world falls in love with him." ”
If the eyes are the windows of the soul, then the smile is the business card of the personal image.
If a person's face is frowned and his expression is serious, it is inevitable to give people an impression that it is difficult to approach.
And the face is always smiling, the face is kind and warm, not only to make yourself happy, but also to warm others.
After a warm "business card" is handed out, others will feel the sincerity and approachability;
Whether it is doing business or dealing with people, they are more liked by people, and the road of life is naturally getting wider and wider.
Heard a story:
In ancient times, there was a philosopher who, because he lived in poverty, could only live in a small crowded house with a few friends, but when others were complaining, he was always able to enjoy himself.
Puzzled, he explained: "Although the residence is a little crowded, it is also convenient for everyone to communicate and talk at any time, which is a happy thing." ”
Later, his friends moved out as families, leaving him alone. Looking at the philosopher who stayed alone but was still at ease, my friends were even more curious.
He smiled and said, "Now that I finally have the space to read quietly, it's also worth rejoicing." ”
The master of life has always been full of confidence, happy mood, and often has a warm smile on his face.
Life is only 30,000 days, and who does not harbor joy and sorrow. In life, who has not been troubled and sad, and who has not experienced setbacks and unhappiness?
People who love to laugh are not happy in life, but they understand that it is never depression that defeats suffering, but optimism and smile.
Even if you can't control the fate of the bad luck, at least the smile on your face is something you can decide.
The heart is full of sunshine, and no one is afraid of the darkness of the road ahead.
Seize every opportunity to smile and be happy in the midst of suffering.
Be a cheerful person, be a warm person, be an upward person, be a person full of positive energy.
Bai Yansong said:
"Sometimes, we live very tired, not because life is too mean, but because we are too easily infected by the atmosphere of the outside world and swayed by the emotions of others."
The mood is your own. If you just live in the eyes and mouth of others, you will not have the initiative to make yourself happy.
People live, not to live for others to see, only to be the most true self, live to see themselves, smile brightly.
Once, the writer Mo Yan invited guests to eat roast duck, and after everyone was full, there was still a lot of roast duck left.
Mo Yan thought to himself, this is not a waste. So, I kept eating and didn't stop.
Someone said, "Look at Mo Yan, you have to eat his little money back." ”
Mo Yan felt that his face was dull, and went home to tell his mother about it. His mother told him that he would go to dinner later, drink two bowls of porridge in advance, and eat two steamed buns.
After returning to Beijing, Mo Yan did so. And friends went to dinner again, Mo Yan ate slowly and logically.
As a result, some people still said: "Look at Mo Yan's fake strength, as if he can eat Jia Baoyu with only his front teeth." ”
It is true that the world is complex, everyone has a mouth, and it is impossible to manage.
There will always be people who appreciate you, there will always be people who criticize you, it is impossible to make everyone satisfied, and being happy to be yourself is the most important.
Life is short, there are too many beautiful things worth appreciating, too many precious times worth enjoying.
In the gossip, just focus on yourself, live yourself, no matter when and when, there will always be a confident smile on your face, life will be full of sunshine, everywhere there is beauty.
Smiling is a gift to others and an asset to oneself. Your smile is the most healing force, better than the most beautiful scenery in the world.
Sanmao said: "Try it, eat a piece of sugar every day, and then tell yourself that today's day is indeed sweet again." ”
Life is short, remember, good times, bad times, to turn happiness into a habit.
If life is hard, then I wish you happiness.
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