Children are the hope of every family, and we will encounter various problems in the process of children's growth.
When children are disobedient, the old man often says that he must make rules from an early age, but there are too many rules to be established, which rules are necessary and must be established from an early age?
First point.
When you meet people, you must say hello, which is the most basic courtesy.
A polite child must be liked by everyone, no matter how naughty the child, as long as he understands politeness, it is not expensive to do something offensive. After all, the child's mind is still very simple.
Second point.
Don't influence others in public.
The volume of talking is as small as possible, in fact, empathy vaguely knows that we sometimes feel particularly annoying when we hear children who are screaming and screaming when they are outside.
Third point.
No matter what kind of secret, if you don't want to tell your mother, tell your father, and if you don't want to tell your father, tell your mother.
Don't hide it in your heart, today's children are small and big, and many of the secrets in your heart are unimaginable to you.
It is important to be able to speak out the dissatisfaction and secrets in your heart, and let the parents know the reasons and enlighten the child. This requires parents to communicate with their children more often.
Fourth point.
Don't lie. Lying is the beginning of losing trust and friends, honesty and trustworthiness are rare and valuable, do not lose this innate precious.
And lying is a habit that will become, slowly you will feel very unnatural when you tell the truth, and lying will be more real.
Fifth point.
punctual. Punctuality should be cultivated from an early age, and you would rather wait for others for a while than let others wait for you.
Punctuality is often an important measure of success, don't take it for granted that others are waiting for you. There are not so many things in this world that are not taken for granted.
Sixth point.
Take the initiative and admit mistakes bravely. Doing the wrong thing is not terrible, because everyone will do the wrong thing, and bravely admitting mistakes is the best way to solve this problem.
Getting forgiveness from others will make you feel relieved as a whole.
Seventh point.
Don't waste food. There is no such thing as food that falls from the sky, they are all planted by the hard work of the peasant uncle, and after processing, they become what they are now.
Every process is hard, and we can't ignore the fruits of other people's labor in this way.
Eighth point.
Give it your all for what you want to do. It's not the age when the process doesn't have results, so what's the use of having a process if it's not for that result?
Point nine.
Learn to be tolerant. If others accidentally hurt you, learn to treat others with a tolerant person;
Allowing others to make mistakes and momentary careless kindness are much-needed qualities in this society, and the best way to treat yourself well.
Tenth point.
In times of danger, all principles can be abandoned, and no principle is more important than life.
Some people think these things are easy to say but difficult for children to do.
What I want to say is that these rules are not only requiring children, but also requiring us adults, adults to set an example by example, and children will slowly learn in a subtle way.
We who really don't understand and don't understand guide it. Society is changing, our children are also changing, they will be the fresh blood of this society, what the future society will look like, they are also dominant.
Therefore, among the many rules, these ten points are the starting point and foundation of the child's rules. Everything else is built on these and slowly developed.
So parents must first change themselves, and then change their children.