When there is a child in the family, the child will definitely be stared at by the people in the family. Both parents and grandparents will scramble to treat their babies like babies.
However, it is also a point to remind everyone that there is no problem for parents to show love for their children, but newborn babies are easily "destroyed" by their parents. Therefore, parents should also know how to be moderate in their love for their children, and the younger the children, the more careful they are.
For 6 months after the birth of a baby, no matter how much parents love their child, don't treat him like this!
1. Often hold the baby in your arms
This is a common misconception that parents make. In the first month of this baby, everyone can't help but want to hug. But that's not good for kids either. At this time, the baby's spine is not yet formed, so try to lie flat.
And once the baby has formed this problem, then it will be difficult to take care of in the future, when only the mother takes care of the child alone, once the baby is put down, the baby will scream, which is very harmful to the growth of the baby.
2. Tie the child's arms together
Some elderly people feel that children's arms are often active, colds may be cold, it is best to tie them together, so that babies will not move around, just tie their arms together. However, the baby's arm is very fragile, it is likely to be injured, even if it is not injured, it will cause him a certain discomfort, will have a certain impact on his body. Think about whether you are uncomfortable with your arms tied, put yourself in the shoes of yourself, and think about it, don't be so unsympathetic to children.
3. Kiss your child often
Many parents, after the birth of their babies, will be particularly fond of their children and kiss their babies for catharsis. However, the baby's skin is more delicate, the immunity is relatively low, and regular kissing will increase the child's chance of getting sick. And kissing can affect your baby's sleep. The child has just been born, and if it is not their own child, the parents cannot bother.
4. Pull the child's finger away
Children's fingers are bent state, some parents can't help but reach out to break, finger bending is not because of the baby's physiological reasons, but because of the baby's physical and mental factors, if you want to break the finger, it may cause greater damage.
Every parent wants to tell everyone that she loves her daughter, to spend the rest of her life with herself, to educate her, to protect her, to love her, and that the love of parents does not need to be so strong, because she wants to show her love for her, which will only cause her more pain.