The girl Kiki is 8 years old this year, in a primary school in Foshan, Guangdong Province, the second grade, Kiki is a small and quiet little girl, the academic performance in the class belongs to the upper middle level, is a very obedient and disciplined good student. But recently Kiki is a little bit dislike to go to school, her mother asked her the reason, she did not say it, her mother said to go to school to ask the teacher, Kiki strongly opposed. Mom was very confused about this, so she hid it from Kiki and found a teacher.
The mother told the class teacher Li about Kiki's strange behavior, but Teacher Li said that Kiki was normal at school and did not find anything abnormal. In the chat, the class teacher said a small thing, that is, two weeks ago Kiki had a small conflict with a boy in the same class, but she had already solved it, and there should be no problem.
Under the questioning of Kiki's mother, the class teacher said that it was a boy in the same class, who stabbed Kiki with a pencil during class, she had already criticized the boy, and later changed their seats, which should be no problem. But Kiki's mother suspects that there is something wrong with this matter, which should be related to Kiki's recent boredom.
After Kiki came home from school, her mother specifically talked to Kiki, asked about the situation at school, asked for a long time, Kiki finally cried, and reluctantly told her mother that the boy In the same class, Xiao Yong, always bullied her, she told the teacher, the teacher changed their seats, but every time after class, Xiao Yong always looked for her, sometimes scolded her, sometimes beat her, or tied her with a pen, pulled her hair or deliberately "touched" her things on the ground, Xiao Yong also had a few followers around him who would also watch and laugh at Kiki, Kiki was very afraid, But Xiao Yong said that if she dared to tell the teacher or parents, he would beat her to death, and Kiki was very scared and did not dare to go home and say. After Kiki finished speaking, she repeatedly begged her mother not to go to school, otherwise Xiao Yong would kill her after she knew.
Kiki's mother heard her daughter's narration, her heart was almost broken, and when she saw the tear marks on Kiki's face, she also shed tears in pain, blaming herself for not discovering Kiki's abnormality earlier. Kiki's family is a migrant worker, usually work is very busy, Kiki's father often works overtime until very late, the attention to his daughter is indeed relatively small, the mother saw Kiki suffered such grievances, the heart is uncomfortable to die.
After Kiki's mother comforted Kiki, she immediately called the class teacher, Teacher Li, and told her what Kiki said, but Teacher Li acted very indifferent, only perfunctorily saying that she would criticize Xiao Yong tomorrow and let Kiki's mother not worry. Kiki's mother asked Teacher Li, is she just criticizing Xiao Yong? What if the male classmate doesn't listen to the criticism? Can you transfer Xiao Yong to another class?
Teacher Li was a little upset at this time, she said that she was the class teacher, she knew the situation of the students best, and she herself knew how to deal with it. Kiki's mother saw that the class teacher said this, and did not dare to say anything more, so she repeatedly asked the teacher to pay more attention to Kiki.
In the evening, after Kiki's father came home from overtime, Kiki's mother did not dare to tell him about her daughter's situation at school, thinking that Kiki's father hurt his daughter the most, and his temper was hot, since the teacher promised to solve it, don't let him know.
The next day, picking up Kiki came home from school, her mother quickly asked Kiki Xiaoyong if she had bullied her, Kiki said that Teacher Li talked to her and Xiaoyong, telling her that there was something to tell the teacher in the future, and not to let the parents call the teacher for a small matter. He also said that the teacher criticized Xiao Yong, but Xiao Yong threatened her at the end of class, saying that she dared to complain to the teacher and must give her a good look.
Kiki's mother saw that the teacher did not solve the problem, so she thought of an article she saw on the Internet, and said to Kiki according to the method said in the article: "Kiki, don't be afraid, being bullied by your classmates is not your fault, it is Xiao Yong who is not right." You were right to tell your mom too. Although your mother usually teaches you to get along well with your classmates, you must learn to protect yourself in the face of malicious attacks from others. You can bravely warn Xiao Yong: You make me very uncomfortable like this, I am very angry. If he still bullies you, you must be bold enough to tell your mother and teachers, and we will definitely help you. ”
Kiki nodded cautiously and didn't say anything. In the next few days, Kiki seemed to have nothing to do at school, and when she went home and asked her how she was, Kiki also said that XiaoYong did not bully her. Kiki's mother felt that the method taught by online experts was really good.
But three days later, her mother found that someone had drawn a few puppies with black pen behind Kiki's school uniform, and quickly asked Kiki what was going on, at which time Kiki cried out, saying that Xiao Yong had drawn it, and Xiao Yong was always looking for trouble for her these days. Kiki's mother asked her what I taught you, did you talk to Xiao Yong? Kiki said no, she didn't dare to talk to Xiao Yong at all.
Kiki's mother knew that her method was useless, and she wanted to send a private message to XiaoYong's father in the class group, but Xiaoyong's father had not agreed to add friends, and Kiki's mother did not want to say this in the large group, afraid that too many people would know, and the impact on Kiki would not be good.
In the evening, Kiki's father went home, Kiki's mother told him all the things, Kiki's father heard the frying pan, and was about to go to Find Xiao Yong's family, he called Teacher Li to ask about Xiao Yong's home address and telephone, but Teacher Li was unwilling to say, just told Xiao Yong's father's phone, and also said that Xiao Yong was a single-parent family, but also a poor child, so that they had something to discuss.
Kiki's mother was afraid that her husband was impatient to talk about bad things, so she called Xiao Yong's father herself, but after Xiao Yong's father listened to this matter, he showed an indifferent attitude, saying that his family Xiao Yong was very well-behaved and would not bully female classmates, and finally said lightly that this was just a little contradiction of a child, no big deal, he would criticize Xiao Yong.
Hearing Xiao Yong's father's attitude, Kiki's father on the side couldn't help it, he said loudly to the phone: "My daughter is not a bully, you better discipline your son, if you don't manage well, I will go to school to help you discipline!" ”
The next day, Kiki's father took a leave of absence to send Kiki to school with Kiki's mother, blocked Xiao Yong and his grandmother at the school gate, Kiki's father said to Xiao Yong's grandmother: Tell your grandson, if you dare to bully Kiki again, I will let him know the pain of being bullied.
Xiao Yong, the boy, saw Kiki's father's serious and cold eyes, and was also a little scared, and quickly hid behind his grandmother.
When school was out that day, Kiki's parents went to the school to pick up Kiki together, and met Xiao Yong's grandmother and father at the school gate, Kiki's father repeated the morning words in front of Xiao Yong's father, Xiao Yong's father began to take this matter seriously, and said that he would definitely educate Xiao Yong when he returned home, so that Kiki's father could rest assured.
Later, the parents of other students in the same class told Kiki's mother that Xiao Yong had bullied his classmates at school for the first time, and that several female classmates had been bullied by him before, and recently he changed his goals and only then did he set his sights on Kiki.
In the following days, Kiki's father took leave to send Kiki to school, and warned Xiao Yong several times in a row, these days, Kiki began to become cheerful after returning home, asked her about school, she said that now Xiao Yong did not dare to bully her, and even avoided her, Kiki's parents put their minds at ease.
Later, Kiki's mother privately told the mothers of the other girls in the same class about the handling of this matter, making them wary of such things.
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