Introduction: Fast-paced modernity, very competitive, the variables of life are very fast, often caught us off guard, the heart is afraid. But at any time, it is better to please anyone than to please yourself. Only by paying attention to their own inner cultivation will they turn the tide and turn the tide against the wind in the storms of life.
In a world of drunken fans and lights, the pace of life is fast, and before you can react, life has opened a new chapter.
People's life, no one can be smooth sailing, maybe today's life is relatively calm, but tomorrow's life will be uneventful, so that you are caught off guard.
It is said that people have no far-reaching worries but will have near-term worries, and life should be prepared for the rain. However, our plans are always behind our imagination, and everything in human life is variable.
One of yours is caught off guard, and today becomes a memory of tomorrow. And their own life ups and downs, the storm of life is still continuing.
Human nature makes up our own destiny is not only our own composition, life is like acting, in our own world, everyone is their own protagonist, and everyone else is a supporting role.
Scientists have a study, which is about magnetic forces. As a result, everything around you revolves around your thinking, what you need in life, what you avoid, these will happen to you with gravity.
Born in the worldly glitz, everything around us holds a temptation, in order to make ourselves better, only by seeking benefits and avoiding harms in the worldly glitz, cultivating their hearts, will they make themselves strong enough to be fearless of life's wind and frost, snow and rain, and without fear of life's ups and downs.
A quiet mind is a quiet life, and a peace of mind is a peaceful life. As long as the mood is rich, life will be abundant.
Looking at the hustle and bustle of the world, accumulating inner strength, not caring about the influence of the outside world, and focusing on your inner feelings, you will be on the road of life, unashamed, hopeful, and live freely.
1, do not care about the evaluation of others, only pay attention to their own inner feelings.
In life, we always care about what others say about us, and always want to live like others. In fact, the evaluation of others is only a topic after dinner, everyone has an evaluation, and there is no one who does not have external evaluation.
Life is your own, and living as you want is the most important thing. If you care too much about all the comments around you, you will end up being torn apart by other people's comments.
And if you follow your inner feelings and take your own will as the transfer, you will move forward steadily on the road of life.
Wang Xun said: "Hard work is to jump out of the circle you hate, reading is to stay away from the scum garbage people, fitness is to make people talk to you calmly, only to become a better self in the world is yours." ”
The effort is to live without getting tired.
Adler, the father of modern self psychology and the founder of individual psychology, is the world's leading psychologist, his mental theory is very unique, profound, and has a deep research and influence on contemporary social psychology.
However, as a child, Adler had a rickets and poor academic performance, and many people despised and ridiculed him, and even his teachers said that he would be at most a shoemaker in the future.
However, Adler's father always told him that you must believe in yourself and not be trapped in a predicament, which is only temporary and it will not affect your life.
Father's words encouraged Adler and gave him plenty of confidence. Adler continued to study relentlessly, and finally crossed the obstacles of life and became a good psychologist.
"If you don't live your life for yourself, then who else will live for yourself?" This is the truth.
Don't feel inferior in life because you are flawed and have failures. Build a strong psychological awareness for yourself to overcome the difficulties in life.
People who only see the results of others and ignore their own existence can hardly get out of the shackles of imprisoning thoughts, and they can never get the real "life they want."
American hospices once did a survey, and the most regretted thing for the dying elderly was: "If life can be restarted, I will live once according to my wishes." ”
Respecting our inner thoughts is what everyone aspires to, but we are always unconfident and care too much about the outside world.
In a person's life, if you are always attached to the outside world's opinion, you will not succeed, and you will only regret your regrets in later failures.
So, don't pursue the approval of others, but care about your own inner feelings.
2, do not care about the entanglement of trivialities, only pay attention to their own inner growth.
There's a saying, "You're entangled in one thing, and when you look back, you'll find a lot of things missing." "Life cares too much, and as a result, you will lose more."
Entanglement in bad things will turn out to be worse; entanglement in small things will make things grow from small to large, too big to be controlled; and this will do nothing but increase one's troubles and expand one's losses.
In the past hundred years of life, he has been pestering rotten people and rotten things, and sometimes it will be better to put it down. Letting go means starting a new life.
Some people will understand the great righteousness here, while others will only struggle and entangle, and the result will be more than worth the loss. In fact, sometimes in life, you really need your own wisdom to complete yourself.
There was a shop owner who was dressed as a dresser. One day, a scoundrel came and got into an argument with his clerk, and the scoundrel said that the clothes he had been used for had to be brought back to him now.
The clerk explained several times that he had already given him money. But he just wanted clothes and wouldn't leave. Then the owner of the shop understood the righteousness, and after figuring out what was going on, he took two pieces of clothing for him, told him that one was cold and one was worn when he went out, and the scoundrel left.
Then a few days later, the boss heard that the scoundrel had also gone to another store and blackmailed a lot of money.
The boss was relieved that he did not entangle with him, so he survived.
Nietzsche said, "If you fight with a dragon for too long, you will become a dragon yourself." Stare into the abyss for too long, and the abyss will stare back. ”
It is better to have a fight with the good than with the wicked. Befriend the good and you will be better off, and if you make friends with the wicked, you will only get worse.
Sometimes, suffering losses is better than taking advantage of your consciousness, because suffering losses is a blessing.
There is an idiom called "broken and disregarded", which means that when the crock pot is broken, it is broken, and it is not worth repairing, which is time-consuming and labor-intensive. The same is true of the trivialities in life, as long as they are picked up, they are not things, and they are not things to put down.
Do not entangle, put energy and time on themselves, enhance the armor of life against wind and frost, and only then will you get the greatest sobriety and transparency in life.
3, do not care about the hustle and bustle of the world, only care about their leisurely solitude.
Lin Qingxuan wrote in "The Most Beautiful Life is Qing Huan": "See the world with a pure heart, celebrate the New Year with joy, have a normal heart, and remove obstacles with a soft heart." ”
If the heart is impetuous, life is full of troubles, if the heart is quiet, and the days are leisurely.
In a person's life, everyone will encounter sadness and joy, and will show only themselves on the stage of life. If you want to live well, you must repair your state of mind, learn to be at ease with the situation, and learn to be calm and calm.
Su Dongpo was framed that year, and in the process of fleeing, he once passed through a river. There was a tower on the other side of the river, and he had heard that if he entered this tower to worship, he would be safe all the way, so he went into the tower to worship, and sure enough, the wind was smooth.
Many years later, Su Dongpo has read the world's conditions and is familiar with the world. He crossed the river again and saw the tower. But he did not go in to worship, but remembered the episode of many years ago, and sighed in his heart: compared with the past, the situation is different, but the tower is still the tower, and the river is still the river.
Su Dongpo was framed, of course, there will be a lot of negative evaluations, but he did not pay attention to the noise of the world, but followed his own inner feelings. I lived quietly and finally survived.
The world, all sentient beings, each of us has our own road to go, this road has a flat place, naturally there will be rough places, but whether the road is muddy or potholes, you must go strong.
Walking in the world, no one can transcend nature, the so-called life, that is, there should be Su Shi's mood. Don't care about the hustle and bustle of the world, but only pay attention to their inner solitude, will meet the beautiful on the road of life.
Zhou Guoping said: "Only when the heart is rich and full can we calmly resist all the uneasiness and restlessness in the world." ”
People's life, do not need to pursue too much fame and fortune, but should pay more attention to their own inner abundance, so that their lives are full, is the best way to maintain health.
When you are tired, stop; when you are tired, take a break. If there is a rotten thing that annoys you, you put it down, and if there is a rotten person who annoys you, you stay away from him. In life, don't care about the outside world, but pay attention to your own inner growth. Only in this way will the sun shine brightly.
In a person's life, everything needs to be controlled by himself. Whether it is a good situation or an adversity, we must know it in our hearts. Being able to let yourself not follow the tide in a good situation, face difficulties in adversity, and flip with the wind is the best life.
As Michelpan said, "Life is a difficult canyon through which only the brave can pass." ”
May your life, harvest freedom, win wonderful, live freely.
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