I've walked the path you came, and that's not a blessing.
"By the grace of a man who drips water, he will repay him with a gushing spring."
On May 12, 2008, the Wenchuan earthquake, Zeng Jiafu's hometown of Dujiangyan, a good city was instantly devastated.
Nine-year-old Zeng Jiafu was rescued by the People's Liberation Army, which participated in the earthquake relief, and placed in a model house.
Here, he met an uncle of the "Iron Army" who touched his life.
Uncle "Iron Army" is the People's Liberation Army that fights earthquakes and disaster relief, and when he has time, he will hold the hand of Xiao Guofu and chat, encouraging him to be brave and strong.
Before leaving, he gave Jiafu a notebook and watercolor pen to accompany Guofu through this difficult time.
Since then, the appearance of the uncle of the "Iron Army" has been burned in the heart of the family rich, and the green of the army has also become the dream of the family rich, and he is determined to become a person like the uncle of the "Iron Army".
Thirteen years later, Zeng Jiafu grew up, and he also put on his military uniform as he wished, becoming a person like Uncle Tiejun.
In a recruit training base in 2021, Zeng Jiafu came here with a notebook that had been kept for 13 years.
He hoped to find his uncle who had not been seen for a long time, let his uncle see, and now he also put on a military uniform to continue the mission of the soldiers.
This notebook has been kept by the family for a long time, and even after many moves, the notebook is still new.
This uncle of the People's Liberation Army 13 years ago, now a colonel officer named Li Hongzheng, is the chief physician of a hospital of the joint logistics support force.
With 26 years of military experience, he was invited to award the rank of new recruit, and at the new recruit awarding ceremony symbolizing the mission and mission, he saw the benefactor of the year, The Uncle Tiejun, the family was in tears, and the uncle of the "Iron Army" personally brought the rank to the family rich, and handed over this responsibility and mission to the family wealth.
Thirteen years have passed, the uncle of the "Iron Army" has not yet grown old, and the rich family and uncle have become comrades-in-arms fighting side by side. When I grow up, I will become you, put on the military uniform and shoulder the mission and responsibility to defend the country with you.
The story of Zeng Jiafu and the uncle of the "Iron Army" has touched many people, and some netizens said: The years are like shuttles, and 13 years have passed in a flash! You are not old, but I have grown up and become what you are.
Some netizens said that the salute to the like, this is the power of example!
After getting the help of the country and his uncle, the family rich know how to be grateful, and use great love to give back the love of the country and the love of their uncles, but not everyone can know the reward, and some people are veritable white-eyed wolves, and even bite the benefactor.
"Niangniang" Sun Li once did charity to fund a student Xiang Haiqing, after xiang Haiqing went to college, began to ask Sun Li for a large amount of money, using this money to eat, drink, have fun, and fall in love, Sun Li stopped funding him after knowing these things.
Xiang Haiqing watched Sun Li stop funding, not only unrepentant, he also wrote an article attacking Sun Li, so that Sun Li fell into the whirlpool of public opinion.
Pushing the benefactor into public opinion, this kind of ungrateful behavior is chilling.
"It is not a virtue to be favored by others, but to repay kindness", how to teach children to learn to be grateful?
First, teach children to be grateful to their parents
First of all, we must teach children to be grateful to their parents, and only when they are grateful to their parents will they be grateful to others.
Many children feel that their parents are invincible, everything will, parents should learn to show weakness in front of their children, you can properly tell your children, parents are not easy, do some things is also very difficult.
There is such a baby, she thinks that the father is a big lazy worm, every time after twelve o'clock in the afternoon is still sleeping, she will deliberately make a noise, let the father sleep badly, the mother saw it, she told the child: Dad is a writer, every day to work overtime until very late, when you go to bed at night, the father is writing, and the father is so hard for our family to live better, the child listened, never disturbed the father's rest, and even quietly helped the father to cover the quilt.
It is not easy to tell the child's parents, let the child give back to the parents for some care, let the child be grateful to the parents from the heart, only in this way can the child go to the society, will respond to the efforts of others, and be grateful for the efforts of others.
Second, see gratitude from daily life
Every time someone else has helped the child, even if it is a very simple move to help the child pick up an object, let the child say thank you to others.
On the bus, when you see someone giving up your seat, you should also tell the baby that this is not someone else's obligation, not someone else's rightful will, but the kindness given by others, and you must know how to be grateful for the kindness of others.
No one is obligated to help you, to do something for you, to face the kindness given by others with a grateful heart.
Third, teach by example
Parents are the first teachers of their children, and parents should teach their children gratitude through words and deeds.
During the holidays, you can bring gifts to see the elders, thank the elders for the grace of cultivation, and when others help themselves, they should also give back to others and thank others for their help.
Children will learn the behavior of their parents, and if the parent is a grateful person, the child will not be worse.
Teach children to be grateful, so that children have a grateful heart, so that they can pass on love and hope forever.
Life between heaven and earth, wearing the great grace of heaven and earth, and always maintaining a grateful heart is the most precious.