Introduction: Husband and wife are both 985 masters, but the son's academic performance is very difficult to say, netizens: this is the negative negative positive.
Recently, in Beijing, a mother shared her parenting feelings, a mother said that she and her husband are both 985 masters, but I don't know why, my son is a proper "scum". Since the first grade, the father has been tutoring the child every day and taking the child to learn, thinking that with the blessing of such a bully father, the child can have a smooth ride on the road to learning. Unexpectedly, when it came to the third year of high school, the child began to have a boredom psychology, and now let alone one, even three books may not be able to be admitted.
It is already remarkable to be able to mix until high school graduation, and I did not expect that the two school bullies would actually teach a scum, and this mother felt very sad about it. Dad has been angry with the child twice heart attack, and now even he is completely disappointed in the child, only hope that the child can grow up safely and healthily, for other academic qualifications have long been no extravagant.
Netizens who saw this scene were also full of emotions:
"I think these two parents should reflect on themselves, why force a child without talent to learn?" You have to admit that some children are not suitable for learning, learn to ignore their talents, but also learn to accept the child's mediocrity. ”
"Is it possible that the two parents put too much pressure on the child, and it is not necessary that the two bully children are also the school bully, but it is also possible to bear the negative positive?"
"Don't think about learning first, but also look at the psychological growth of children, maybe the parents' guidance method is not appropriate."
In fact, Xiaobian feels that what netizens say is still very reasonable, and people should have learned to ignore their talents, and they should also learn to accept the mediocrity of children. It is never that parents are learning to bully children, that is, to learn to bully, if you really can't become a talented person, then it is good to let your child live this life plainly and simply. People say yes or no?