How to maintain the best mentality when chasing girls?

To tell the truth, whether boys or girls, after meeting the person they like, the mentality is generally unbalanced, not because the other party is a little enthusiastic and happy to forget themselves, or because the other party's indifference is despondent. Eh, so you're pinched by girls! How to take the initiative of love back into your own hands?

You just need to do the six unprincipled principles and easily pull her like into your arms.

Ideologically: not on top, not serious, not caring

Behavior: no guessing, no fantasy, no expectations

Boys with a bad mentality usually have a fatal common disease in thinking, I said one, I said that the little dumb melon in the bullet screen brush wave 1 let me see, the answer is too high, too serious, too persistent, girls are not how to it, you just met her side even what the child's name is, where to go to primary school, what university to go to in the future, but also told people girls, this life is not you do not marry! Once you commit these behaviors, the girl will only resent you even more, and you have no chance of redemption.

After talking about thoughts, how do you change your behavior?

1 Don't guess, what does she mean by this to me? She should have feelings for me, right? She didn't reply to my message because what I said was wrong and upset her? Blind guessing will only make you fall deeper and deeper, don't guess, you can't guess the girl's mind at all.

2 Don't fantasize too early about the sweet spots after you are together, many people are dating for the first time, feel that girls are not bad, so they start to fantasize about how happy they will be after being with girls. You just like her more and more in the fantasy, and here you are just a normal friend.

3 Don't expect the girl to like you as much as you like her, don't expect her to come back to you in seconds, everyone has their own life, even if you confirm the relationship, it does not mean that the girl will live according to your imagination and expectations, not to mention that you are just a suitor.

In fact, the pursuit of love is not to make you forget to please others, the real feelings are that you are keeping yourself at the same time, to find more common ground with each other, mutual attraction will go further.