1. The difference between concubines and concubines, the inversion of dignity and inferiority, actually stems from Mi Shu's "non-self-respect".
I felt that it was difficult to understand why Mi Shu, as a princess concubine, could not get the sincere respect and favor of the King of Qin, but instead the Mi Yue of Shu could get the true love of the King of Qin? After carefully reading it, I suddenly realized.
It turned out that Mi Shu had done the ugly thing of "losing her virginity and crossing the courtesy" with the King of Qin long before marriage.
A princess of the Chu kingdom, before she left the cabinet, she and the King of Qin "made cooked rice with raw rice" and stayed with the King of Qin for a whole night. This not only exceeded the etiquette system, but also humiliated the noble status of the princess.
Although the "perpetrator" was the King of Qin himself, the King of Qin would also look down on Mi Shu later, believing that she was not self-respecting and would casually do such a thing with a strange man.
Even if you kiss, you should also have three media and six certificates, or follow the formal steps of marriage in the dynasty to fulfill the marriage contract, such as: first worship the heavens and the earth, and then enter the cave house. How can you give your precious discipline in the simple house between the streets and alleys, outside the palace walls? Who do you think you are?
2, the weakness of men Qin Wang also has, "do your own thief, the thief shouts to catch the thief." ”
The common problem of men is that they are thieves, but they often "shout to catch thieves". Obviously, he took the initiative to ask for pleasure, but after the incident, he always felt that the other party was not reserved enough and tempted himself. Buckle the hat of "lowliness and self-respect" to the other party.
Unlike Mi Shu, Mi Yue seems to be very self-respecting and reserved. Although the elf is strange, lively and cheerful, he has a very bottom line, at least in front of the King of Qin, he "behaves" with a bottom line, and is also a "fierce woman" who is loyal to his love, such as Huang Xie.
From the heart, men love and respect this kind of "loyal and martyr woman" the most. Moreover, the King of Qin, a common disease of men, also had: "The women of the Laliang family went into the water and persuaded the women who had lost their feet to conform to Liang." ”
In the process of interacting with the King of Qin, Mi Shu seemed to be too proactive, and even disregarded the identity of her own princess, and personally ran out to date the King of Qin, which made the King of Qin think? How can you be so shameless and self-respecting in your big girl's family?
3, people, you are in self-respect, no matter the concubine, Mi Yue "did" very well.
Regardless of whether you are born noble or lowly, you are noble in self-respect, and Mi Yue has grasped this very well, and has shown great "preciousness" in front of the King of Qin. The more difficult it is to obtain, the more precious and beautiful it is. Why wouldn't this be the case with the King of Qin? He obviously likes Mi Yue, but Mi Yue is not yielding and not obeying, which makes his heart itch and can't catch it, so he worries about it day and night, and sleeps and thinks about it. Just in response to that sentence: "A wife is not as good as a concubine, a concubine is not as good as stealing, it is better to steal than to steal..."
Mi Yue is something that the King of Qin "didn't get easily", how can he not cherish it? All in all, Mi Yue's trick of "wanting to catch the old and indulging" is very slippery. So that once the King of Qin succeeded, he was intoxicated and could not extricate himself.
It was because mi shu was too real in her heart and eyes, and she was seduced by Mi Yue, that she did something disdainful, so that she could not be respected and favored by the King of Qin in the future. Instead, she was taken over by the scheming Mi Yue latecomer, almost completely robbing her husband and the limelight.
4. There is another reason why the King of Qin alienated Mi Shu and was close to Mi Yue.
Moreover, the King of Qin was not true love for Mi Shu at first, but looked at her background and the identity of Princess Chu Guo. Only the marriage of Qin and Chu could disintegrate the Five Kingdoms Alliance. This was the result that the King of Qin ultimately wanted. To put it bluntly, Mi Shu was just a hostage of the King of Qin.
However, there is no such "value" in Mi Yue, and the value of Mi Yue is only the self-value of "itself", and there is no other use or added value. In addition, Mi Yue was repeatedly persecuted by Wei Hou, so she hated the mother country, and even more hated the Chu king Qi Huai's inaction, and did not know how to protect his sister.
Therefore, when the King of Qin wanted to invade the State of Chu, Mi Yue would not be as strong as Mi Shu to interfere with the great cause of the Founding of the Qin King. There was a fundamental conflict of interest between Mi Shu and the King of Qin, but Mi Yue did not exist.
Once Mi Yue became the woman of the King of Qin, she was only concerned about the Qin State and had no distractions. Moreover, Mi Yue knows how to read people's minds, and she also knows how to judge the hour and size up the situation, and seek advantages and avoid harms. Naturally, it will be between the King of Qin and Mi Shu and the Chu State. This is also one of the reasons why Mi Yue was valued by the King of Qin, while Mi Shu was snubbed and alienated by the King of Qin.