At first, when I was in the Chu Palace, Mi Yue and Mi Shu each had someone to love, there was no conflict of interest, and Mi Yue also promised Mi Shu that as long as she was her sister's sweetheart, I would definitely not rob you.
However, after Yin And Yang mistakenly entered the Qin Palace, in order to protect herself and her relatives, Mi Yue had to make concubines to the King of Qin and gain power and status.
Mi Yue's commitment to the King of Qin can be said to be a completely helpless move, but there is no intention to plant willows and willows, and the King of Qin's favor for Mi Yue once exceeded Mi Shu.
For this reason, Mi Shu's jealousy exploded, and she resented Mi Yue for stealing her husband's favor, because a man, a former good sister, ended up with a vendetta.
Mi Shu is gentle and virtuous and has a noble status, while Mi Yue is only a concubine, why in the end Mi Shu still lost to Mi Yue in her feelings.
Today's article, let's talk about why the King of Qin single-handedly favored Mi Yue and snubbed Mi Shu? There are three main reasons.
1
In fact, the reason why Mi Shu lost to Mi Yue had a lot to do with her being too active in front of the King of Qin.
Although we often say that if you like a person, you must be proactive, if you don't take the initiative, it is likely that you will be taken first by others, but in the relationship, if a woman is too active, she is likely to be looked down upon by men.
Let's take the case of the waiter.
The first time Mi Shu gave the Qin King a bedchamber was when the King of Qin went to the Chu Kingdom to ask for relatives, when Mi Shu and the King of Qin did not have a single word, Mi Shu touched the night and went to the inn to cook mature rice with the Qin King's raw rice.
In Wei Hou's words, Mi Shu's behavior is to degrade herself and be willing to degenerate.
Although at that time, Chu Feng was civilized, and it was normal for men and women to be unmarried and happy, but after all, Mi Shu was the princess of Chu Guo, and she actually gave up her identity to have a private meeting with a strange man late at night, and it was spread out to some extent affect the reputation of the nobles of the Chu State.
Moreover, Mi Shu rushed to the King of Qin like this, and in the eyes of the King of Qin, he would more or less feel that the price was reduced.
Generally speaking, it is better for women to be reserved in front of men, and it is too casual like Mi Shu, which will inevitably make the King of Qin feel that it is too easy to get, but not cherished enough.
Taking the initiative to run to the King of Qin to sleep, in order to make the King of Chu agree to his marriage with the King of Qin, Mi Shu went so far as to openly state in front of the chancellor that he and the King of Qin were happy with each other, and this wave of operations by Mi Shu not only disgraced her brother, but also put herself in a situation where she could not turn back.
Just imagine, if the final marriage contract between the King of Chu and the King of Qin could not be negotiated, if Mi Shu accidentally became pregnant again, wouldn't the rest of her life be ruined?
It can be said that Mi Shu let herself fall behind in the relationship with the King of Qin at the beginning, she was too active, often too active women, will make men lose the challenge, and then pampered for a period of time, after the freshness passed, it felt tasteless.
Compared with Mi Shu, Mi Yue obviously understands the game of feelings better.
The same is the bedchamber, Mi Yue in front of the King of Qin to show more passive and reserved, she as far as possible to increase the input cost of the King of Qin on herself, until the King of Qin paid a lot for her, Mi Yue and the King of Qin further developed.
Human nature is the more difficult to get things, the more cherished, Mi Shu is too active, let the King of Qin get her too easily, it is inevitable that the King of Qin does not cherish her efforts enough, and Mi Yue knows how to refuse to return the favor, delay satisfaction, so that she has the upper hand.
2
In addition to being too active, Mi Shu also made a fatal mistake, that is, she cared too much about the Qin King's thoughts, and even lost herself.
Ever since the wedding night, the King of Qin told her that he didn't like the harem women to provoke trouble and fight with each other, Mi Shu began to swallow everywhere, lest she be careless and make the King of Qin unhappy.
As a result, Mi Shu's blind concession not only failed to keep her feelings, but made the King of Qin feel that she was timid and cowardly and did not have the ability to rule the harem.
Although the King of Qin had said that he did not like the harem women to have trouble, if things were found and there was no way to avoid them, what Mi Shu needed to do was to deal with them bravely, rather than just knowing that she was passively defensive.
In fact, the King of Qin does not care at all whether you have trouble or not, if you take the initiative to "cause trouble", in the end, you will suppress the harem concubines and purify the atmosphere of the harem.
To put it bluntly, women can properly meet men's requirements, but can not act in full accordance with each other's ideas, if they blindly suppress themselves and sacrifice their own personality to please men, even in the short term, avoid contradictions and conflicts, but in the long run, a woman who lacks self-characteristics, men will gradually lose interest.
Compared with Mi Shu, Mi Yue has a much distinct personality, she will not blindly suppress her personality to cater to the King of Qin, if she encounters a situation that differs from the King of Qin's thoughts, Mi Yue also dares to sing the opposite tune with the King of Qin.
The King of Qin had seen too many concubines with low eyebrows and pleasing eyes in front of him, and occasionally there was a person who dared to give him a different opinion, and the King of Qin would naturally look at him differently.
3
The focus of Mi Shu's life was too biased towards the King of Qin, which was also a point that caused the King of Qin not to care about Mi Shu.
In life, there is a type of woman, as long as you fall in love, the whole person is immersed in love.
For the so-called love, give up your career, social circle and even hobbies, and just know to circle around a man all day long.
When a man coaxes her a few words when he is happy, a woman can be happy all day, and if a man ignores her in the cold, the woman will lose her soul and cannot be interested in anything.
There is no doubt that the first Mi Shu was like this, she put all her energy and focus on the King of Qin, who loved other women, and Mi Shu was sad when she slept and ate.
However, as the king of a country and a harem of three thousand beautiful women, the King of Qin was doomed to not be able to spoil only one person.
Instead of wasting your time in unnecessary jealousy, do something meaningful.
And Mi Yue obviously knows better about rational and objective treatment of feelings.
For example, when Mi Yue was just sleeping, the King of Qin spoiled her for more than two months in succession, causing the harem to quarrel.
For this reason, Mrs. Win must know how to stop at the right time, so as not to make too many enemies.
After listening to Lady Win's advice, Mi Yue took the initiative to pretend to be ill and avoid favor after returning to the palace.
After the King of Qin transferred to other concubines, Mi Yue did not feel jealous and sad, but instead made a firefly lamp with the maid.
Mi Yue knew in her heart that the love of the king could not belong to a woman alone, so in the days when she was not pampered, Mi Yue was living a good life, working hard to run herself, and not wasting time in jealousy.
After all, putting all the focus of his life on a king who is doomed to not be able to have a heart, first, it is easy to be exhausted, suffering from gains and losses; second, affecting his independent growth.
Finally, the reason why the King of Qin favored Mi Yue and snubbed Mi Shu, in the final analysis, is because Mi Yue makes the King of Qin more challenging, in order to get Mi Yue, the King of Qin has paid a lot, and often the more difficult it is to get things, the more cherished it will be after getting it.
Past articles
"The Legend of Mi Yue": At the end, why is Mi Shu reluctant to reconcile with Mi Yue?
Why didn't Empress Wei of the "Biography of Mi Yue" cut down the grass and root out the mi yue when she was in the Chu Palace? Three reasons
Mi Yue Biography: From the way Mi Shu and the King of Qin communicated, I finally understood why the King of Qin hated Mi Shu
"The Legend of Mi Yue": Why did Yiqu Jun not see that Mi Yue was using him at first?
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