In the drama version of "The Legend of Mi Yue", Mi Shu Mi Yue is a little sincere to each other, and really treats each other as sisters.
When he was in the Chu Palace, Mi Shu, who was deeply favored by her mother Chu Weihou and had a noble status, was naïve and kind, had a simple mind, was not accustomed to the means of killing her mother Chu Weihou, took good care of Mi Yue, who left a good impression on herself during her childhood, and repeatedly relied on Chu Weihou's favor to protect Mi Yue, helped Mi Yue to avoid several disasters, and even took her out of the Qin Kingdom to marry qin and stay away from her mother Chu Wei.
And Mi Yue is an eccentric and clever person, and she has no less advice for Mi Shu, especially in promoting the marriage between Mi Shu and Qin Wang, Mi Yue is not small.
At that time, they would not have imagined that one day the two would turn against each other for a man and desperately want each other's lives. At that time, Mi Shu was in love with Qin Wang, Mi Yue was in love with Huang Xie, the two people had a heart, there was no conflict, and when they were chatting, the two also inadvertently said rumors.
"Fortunately, you and I each have a sweetheart, otherwise my sister would not have been able to rob you."
"Sister rest assured, as long as it is my sister's sweetheart, I will not rob you."
As Mi Shu said, she could not grab Mi Yue, and Mi Yue had no intention of robbing Mi Shu, but the situation forced her, in order to survive, for the sake of the people around her, she had to become the favorite concubine of Qin Wang.
Mi Shu hates Mi Yue, believing that Mi Yue has robbed her husband and favor, and her son has blocked her son's path to the throne. In fact, the reason why Ying Si prefers Mi Yue to Mi Shu is mainly because of 3 points.
1, one can not do without him, one remains independent, he is naturally more worried about losing the latter;
Qin Wang's way of getting these two women was different, and according to the degree of difficulty, his attitude towards these two women was also different.
For Mi Shu, although it was not smooth sailing when the Qin King Asked to marry her, she was obstructed by Chu Weihou and the King of Chu, but Mi Shu fell in love with her at first sight, put down her body, put down her reticence, and even disregarded Princess Qin's shelf to meet the King of Qin privately, and broke into the main hall to ask Brother Wang to marry himself to the King of Qin.
After successfully becoming the queen of Qin, Mi Shu married love, full of expectations for marriage, full of expectations for her lover, hoping to get the attention of Qin Wang, get more love from him, therefore, her emotions will change with the attitude of Qin Wang. When Eun Seol comes to see her, coaxes her, and is pleasant to her, she will feel very happy, very happy, and all her troubles can be thrown out of the cloud of nine clouds. When Qin Wang was angry with her and snubbed her, she would be emotionally lost and trembling. Qin Wang's concubine pampered other women, and she would feel uncomfortable and miserable.
Eun Seol knows very well that Mi Shu can't do without herself, afraid of losing herself, as long as she gives her a little sweetness, she can firmly grasp her heart. Such a coaxing woman, how can a man care?
As for Mi Yue, it is different, Mi Yue's heart has always been on Huang Xie, her personality is independent, she will not be easily swayed by men, even if she becomes the pet concubine of Yingsi, she is also unwilling and unwilling, and she has not given her heart to Yingsi. A woman like her, if you don't bother, you can't conquer her.
There is a line in the song "Red Rose": "What is not obtained is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear." ”
The easier it is to get to, the less precious it is, and the less easy it is to get, the more interested it is, which is human nature. In marriage, the more a woman clings to a man, the more inseparable she is from him, and the easier it is for him to ignore and not care.
2, can make men can not give up the woman, will become a man's soul mate;
As the great king of the Qin Kingdom, the monarch sitting in the Jiangshan Mountains, there is no shortage of beautiful women around the Qin King, and whether these women are for their own mother's family or for more power, whether they are for their own families or for more power, they will have true feelings for him like Mi Shu, or for their own sons, they will respond to their needs, only promises, and dare not have any objections to his words, such a woman is more, Qin Wang Fei will naturally no longer have other feelings for Mi Shu.
However, Mi Yue was different, Mi Yue dared to argue with him, dared to contradict him, and dared to express her opinions. What made Qin Wang's concubine even more attracted was that Mi Yue could smell the strings and know the meaning of Ya, and did not need him to bother to explain, only needed him to add a few words to understand his thoughts, and even say suggestions that matched his ideas.
When two people communicate, the most feared thing is that the words are not speculative for more than half a sentence, you don't know what the other party is saying, what they are thinking, and their thoughts are not on the same channel. When the other person talks to you and doesn't get the response you want, you will feel tired and lose interest in continuing to communicate with you.
Thomas. Moore once said: "A soul mate is a person with whom we feel deeply connected, as if communication and exchange with each other is not the deliberate effort of mortals, but by the guidance of God, and this relationship is so important to the soul that it can be said that nothing is more precious in life." ”
Compared with Mi Shu, who has no opinion and cannot understand his words, Mi Yue is the soul mate of Yingsi, who is in touch with him, so that he is willing to share with her, willing to listen to her opinions, and even more inseparable from each other.
3, the more excellent a man in the hard work of the career, the more need for women to support him, for him to solve problems.
As the great king of the Qin State, only by single-mindedly considering the interests of the Qin State and striving to strengthen the Qin State can he be qualified and be in his position to seek his own government. Therefore, Yingsi had a dream of dominating the world, so it was normal to attack Qi Shu's mother's mother, Chu Guo.
As a daughter, it is understandable that Mi Shu opposed her husband's attack on her mother's family, but in the eyes of The King of Qin, Mi Shu was his queen and the mother of the Qin State, and she should consider the interests of the Qin State, and if she refused to support him, there was no need to stay.
Scott Pike wrote in The Few Ways: True love is not simply giving, but also appropriate rejection, timely praise, decent criticism, proper argument, necessary encouragement, gentle comfort, and effective urging.
The more excellent a man is when he is working hard for his career, the more he needs women to support him and solve problems for him, rather than pulling him back. What he needs is a woman who shares his heart and works together, and what he needs is a woman who supports him, as the saying goes, behind a successful man, a successful woman is inseparable.
In the final analysis, for a man like Qin Wang's Concubine, what he wants is not a vase, he wants Xiannei help, and he wants a soul mate. Unfortunately, Mi Shu can't do it, and is doomed to lose his favor, even without Mi Yue, Mi Shu can't become a winner in life.
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