Do you often experience "disturbed" moments?
Loud out-of-the-box music on the high-speed train, the ringing of bells in the cinema, the bouncing sound of bouncing upstairs during night breaks, and the fear of nowhere to be found when encountering unchained dogs in the elevator.
Therefore, we urgently need a "do not disturb" consideration.
20 "don't disturb others" small things, don't bother, is gentleness to each other.
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Going out early in the morning or coming home late at night, with sleeping family members and neighbors in your heart, turning the doorknob quietly, and the footsteps are light, trying not to make disturbing noises. There is a kind of non-intrusive call: the sweet dream of caring for others.
2
In the elevator, consciously put a chain on the pet. Not everyone is not afraid of dogs, even if you think your dog is docile enough to be cute enough to keep a leash when you go out. There is a kind of non-intrusive call: caring about the discomfort and fear of others.
3
Not driven by near-water towers or curiosity, launch offensive inquiries and socialize with those around you. "How old is this year?" "Do you have a boyfriend?" Married? Did you have a baby? "Parents are very capable, what do they do?" "Do you have a room?" How many flats? Another day to play at your house? "What's the position now?" How much can you earn in a month? "There is a kind of non-disturbing call: others do not say, do not ask; others say, do not ask more.
4
Whenever someone does something embarrassing or out of shape, slips and falls while walking, makes jokes at the exit, calls on the street and cries and loses his voice... Don't look around at the embarrassment of others, let alone if you encounter a disabled person. There is a kind of non-disturbing call: not looking directly at the embarrassment and pain of others.
5
When driving, slow down when encountering places with standing water, turn on the turn signals in advance when you are on the road, and use high beams reasonably at night in the city. When parking, consider the ease of getting in and out of the cars on both sides. There is a kind of non-bother called: the cultivation of a good driver.
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When watching a movie, entering on time, finding a seat after the opening will block the view of others watching the movie; consciously turn the phone into silent mode, so as not to let the sudden bell interrupt the audience's emotions. There is a kind of non-disturbing call: perfection in front of the screen.
7
In WeChat, there are no group sales advertisements, no group copy-pasted blessing templates, and no group sending of all contacts to verify whether they are still friends... There is a kind of non-disturbing call: do not use the private rights of the group to disturb other people's mobile phones.
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Don't play videos in public places, don't make loud noises in crowds, and don't eat smelly food in offices. There is a kind of non-disturbing call: do not brush the "uncomfortable" sense of existence.
9
Knock on the door before you enter, even if you go into your own child's room. There is a kind of non-disturbance called: not trespassing on "private territory".
10
After eating fast food, clean up the table, put the finished items in the store, put a transparent waterproof bag on the umbrella when entering the house, and simply put the bed and garbage when checking out. There is a kind of non-disturbance call: raise your hand, do not add trouble.
11
Usually do not have much contact, as soon as you open your mouth to entrust others to help with things, you need to know clearly: there is a kind of non-bother call: nothing is taken for granted.
12
"When I was young and inexperienced, my father taught me a sentence that I still remember. Whenever you want to criticize anyone, remember that not everyone in this world has had the advantages you have. ’”
So, don't judge lifestyles and paths that you can't understand. There is a kind of non-bothering call: respect for a life different from yours.
13
When life is not going well and the mood is not smooth, learn to bear and digest on your own. Don't blindly use your bitter water to disturb other people's lives. Some pain cannot be shared, and the love of others can only divert your attention from pain, but it cannot change the essence of pain. There is a kind of non-intrusive call: do not treat others as emotional garbage cans.
14
After the breakup, be decisive. Don't dwell on the cause and effect, don't beg to love again. Do not frequently leave messages on social platforms to ask questions, do not ask around for each other's news and recent situations. There is a kind of non-intrusive call: letting go is my last tenderness.
15
On the subway, a mother was afraid that her sleeping child would kick others and that her shoes would stain other people's clothes, so she held her child's shoes with her hands. This move may be insignificant, but it is very heartwarming in the eyes of others. There is a kind of non-disturbing call: a tutor with a warm demeanor.
16
When she went to school to deliver something to her son, worried that the sound of high heels walking was too loud to affect the students' listening to the class, the lady in Liyang, Jiangsu Province, quietly took off her shoes and carried them in her hands, and ran barefoot for four floors.
This scene happened to be recorded by an old name of the school. The teacher was very touched, "I think she did this to respect the teachers and students, and to make the respect for education even greater!" "There is a kind of non-disturbing call: the upbringing of walking quietly.
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"When I was a kid, I was naughty, bouncing and jumping on the floor with my brother, racing remote control cars. Dad said angrily, 'The downstairs neighbors need to rest, have you considered the feelings of others?' Although it was a very small thing, it was only then that I realized that in addition to myself, there were also upstairs and downstairs. "There is a kind of non-intrusive call: not to base happiness on the suffering of others.
18
"In my senior year, I had a roommate in my dorm room. She studied very hard, learning late every day. In order not to disturb our rest, she specially bought a table lamp that can adjust the brightness, and whenever other people slept, she would silently dim the light. "There's a kind of non-bothering call: turn down a gear.
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"Once in a taxi, because I was too tired, I fell asleep with my backpack. The driver silently turned down the volume of the radio, raised the window to make the night breeze that poured in a little less, so that I could breathe more on the way in a hurry. "There is a kind of not disturbing call: the kindness of pingshui meeting.
20
A 96-year-old grandmother in Zhengzhou became popular for insisting on setting up stalls for 30 years. The anchors went to the booth to broadcast the traffic live, and for a time, the water leaked and was very lively. When netizens asked grandma how she felt about becoming popular, she replied: I don't want to be popular, and I don't want to be watched! There is a kind of non-disturbance called: not disturbing the peaceful life of others.
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Not disturbing is the details of a person's words and deeds, the gentleness between demeanors, and the courtesy of getting along.
Goethe said that a person's courtesy is a mirror that reflects his portrait.
May this mirror reflect you who have eyes on others and have a measured heart.