On the difficult road of parenting, fathers are always attacked for "absence".
But recently, there is a "fairy father" who is on fire, not only "correcting the name" for the fathers, but also provoking a group of mothers to collectively "admire":
This "fairy father" takes the child to make all kinds of small animals with vegetables and fruits, and the children next door are hungry and crying...
Eggplant becomes a dolphin▼
Radish becomes sea lion▼
Bitter melon becomes crocodile▼
Yuzu turns into a fortune cat▼
Onion becomes a squirrel▼
What a clever "fairy father"!
With such a father to accompany, the child's childhood is "sweet"!
According to the child's mother, the child's father is particularly patient, because he does not want the child to play with the mobile phone, he often takes the child to play together.
Needless to say, the effect is particularly remarkable, the child especially likes, especially admires the father, the father is his idol.
Many mothers have headaches about their children's addiction to mobile phones, computers, tablets and other issues, but in fact, the "recipe" to solve the problem is around...
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What was it like to have a childhood with nearly 120 toys?
If so many toys are made by dad himself, is it another real name "Mu"?
"Dad, I want that pagoda on TV, it's so cool."
A request from the daughter ignited the creative spark of "magical father" Zhang Shuai.
Zhang Shuai picked up the paper shell and the large glue gun, cut and built, and spent most of the day to make a pagoda that was almost the same as in the TV, as tall as his daughter, and the daughter stood in front of the pagoda and closed her mouth excitedly. He also invited his daughter to paint the pagoda together, and the two collaborated to complete the work.
Not only is this "massive" homemade toy, but even the Tetris game on his phone, he also simulated a enhanced version with a paper shell.
The biggest feature of this Tetris machine is that it requires parent-child cooperation, parents throw the lower block model above, and the child judges on his own and deals with it quickly.
There are also game console games in the playground that can also be made of paper shells, such as speed racing, shooting games, running trains...
These toys greatly reduce the time for children to interact with mobile phones, and this is zhang Shuai's original idea - to let her daughter quit her mobile phone and increase parent-child interaction.
Zhang Shuai will also play mini shooting machines with her daughter, and the small basketball and ball frame will attract the child's attention, allowing her to exercise the small muscle groups of her hands and improve her hands-on ability.
Later, Zhang Shuai also successively "produced" a gacha machine and a controllable lifting crane... Each one is exquisite, and the more you do it, the more you feel it. The media rushed to report, attracting the envy of netizens: Who doesn't want such a fairy father?!
There is no Superman in the world, and for children, the father who has Doraemon's pocket is his Superman.
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Many boys like to play mobile games, and they like the tense and exciting feelings brought by the games.
In this regard, Hebei Kou's father has a high trick!
Kou's father was busy with work on weekdays, leaving early and returning late every day, sometimes even spinning, and could not go home for several days.
A few years passed, and Kou's father found that he and his children had less and less communication, and the father and son were getting more and more strange...
It wasn't until Kou's father reduced his workload because of the epidemic that he found that his son was obsessed with playing with mobile phones and watching TV.
Worried about his son's vision, Kou's father decided to "grab" the child with his mobile phone and TV!
The first step starts with "playing with you":
Kou's father bought a small excavator van for his son, but he did not expect that after buying it back, both father and son were addicted to playing.
Then, Kou's father bought planes, cannons, tanks... He also took Xiao Kou to build a sand table in the storeroom:
Stacking rockeries:
Dig out meandering rivers and ravines:
At this time, his son's interest was completely stimulated, and his mobile phone and TV were all left behind, and he also began to use small branches as railings.
In the end, the sandbox really became a miniature battlefield, with bridges, trenches, and highlands!
Ready, father and son officially "go to war"!
In order to record the "results of the battle", Kou's father had a clever move, set up his mobile phone, and began to shoot the "war film" with his son.
Unexpectedly, the process of shooting actually pushed the fun of "battle" to a "step".
Shoot remote control tank movement▼
Use interval timer to get the toy soldiers moving▼
Use the keying method to let the plane fly in the sky▼
While shooting "war movies" with his children, his son completely "quit" his mobile phone, and both father and son also learned a lot of new knowledge.
Scripting, filming, dubbing, guest actors...
More than 200 episodes of "toy war films", every time they are made, father and son are fully engaged and happy.
Companionship is the best education.
Therefore, if you want to solve the problem of children addicted to mobile phones, computers, and tablets, the best medicine is to "grab" children with mobile phones!
In some families, compared to the seriousness of the mother, the humor and "boyishness" of the father, it is more likely to "play together" with the baby, and the success rate of "robbing" the child is also higher!
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How good are dads at "playing"?
Father Li in Beijing often read Liu Cixin's "Cretaceous Past" to his children, and because the children were interested, they taught themselves to draw and turned the story into a lifelike picture book.
I drew dozens of small pictures every day and insisted on it for a whole year. Today, he has completed two children's picture books.
And these are just the tip of the iceberg that he will "play". Do crafts with children, design and decorate houses together, invent together...
Driven by his father, his son gradually became a master of painting and created many imaginative paintings full of childlike fun:
Even at the age of 4, his son was able to build all kinds of complex shapes.
In order to facilitate travel, Li's father also tested and invented a travel equipment with his son and applied for a national patent.
Bringing children to experience and learn together also sows the seeds of invention in children's hearts.
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For children, a good education is not the amount of material, but the companionship that is not absent.
Fathers actively participate in family life and give their children companionship in order to create a loving family environment.
Growing up in love, children will be more confident, confident, and loyal to their hearts.
So fathers, even if the work is busy, do not miss the growth of their children.
Don't think that the day is long, and the child's growth is only once.
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Some of the materials in this article are synthesized from Uncle Kai's storytelling, the diary of Little Fish Daddy, Little Ten O'Clock, and Primary School Chinese.
Edited by: Lucky
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