Love the wrong person, every day is April Fool's Day; love the right person, every day is Valentine's Day.
It's just that when love comes, it often not only blinds everyone's eyes, but also blinds the mind, resulting in a momentary loss of direction.
What is heard in the ear, what is seen in the eyes, what is thought in the heart, is all that person, and if it is the right person, then everything will become worthwhile, but if it is the wrong person, everything will become a joke.
Everyone has their own methods for how to judge whether it belongs to true love, but some methods are not obvious, and the answers obtained are not so accurate, which may then mislead everyone.
If you want to know whether the other party loves you, you may wish to look at it from this matter, if a man never asks you these three words, he must love you deeply.
1. Have you ever had an intimate lover?
How possessive men are, presumably everyone has feelings, although it is the 21st century, everyone's thinking has been very open, will no longer be bound by traditional feudal ideas, but there are still many men are very concerned about whether women's past has been intimate lovers.
If you have only been in love, this is a very normal thing, after all, when you meet, you are no longer young, and it is normal to meet excellent people and have a heart of admiration.
So for whether women have been in love in the past, in fact, most men do not care from the heart, but what they care about is whether everyone has an intimate lover.
Some men are unacceptable, in fact, behind this non-acceptance, there is not only his own ideological and conceptual problems, but also means that in fact, he does not love you so much.
If a man who really loves you, even if he is very concerned about this matter, will let go, just like Ying Qin in "Ode to Joy", although he is very concerned, he finally accepts it.
And in order to avoid their own discomfort, the men who really love you will simply not ask, because no matter whether you have had an intimate lover in the past, everything has passed, and they only hope to be with you in the future and always guard your side.
2. Have you ever had a child?
If men can really care at all, whether a woman has an intimate lover before, almost no man can do it and not care at all whether a woman has had children.
This is a change in nature, in the eyes of most men, a woman who has children is no different from a second marriage, so on their list of lovers, it will become the first object to be deleted.
Especially for women who give birth to children, even if they have not been married without a license, they are still legally unmarried, but men are unacceptable.
Most men can't do it to get them to raise children for others, but if there's a man who doesn't even care about it, he must love you and love miserably.
Because for them, whether you've had children or not, whether you're a mother now or not, it won't have any impact on each other's relationship, and they'll still choose to be with you.
So in this case, asking or not asking, it doesn't matter much, they will care more about every day with you.
3, whether you owe money
The two main parts of our lives, one is the feeling and the other is money, although some men say that they love you, but as long as they talk about money, the attitude will immediately come to a 180-degree turn, but also known as the name, these are two different things, but in fact, these two are often the same thing.
If it is a man who truly loves you, he will not be stingy with you in terms of money, and even you will become the motivation for them to struggle, and they will work hard just to be able to give you a better life.
For this kind of man, it doesn't matter if you have owed money outside before, if you owe money, they will take the initiative to help you shoulder the corresponding repayment responsibilities, and will not let you bear it alone.
And some men, their feelings are prerequisites, before the relationship is determined, they will find out all your bottom details, once they find that you have financial problems, they will directly turn around and go, because compared with you, money is the most important thing in their hearts.
The reason why there are many lovers who are separated when it comes to talking about marriage is because of the problem of money, so in this regard, everyone must open their eyes and look carefully.
Like a person, starting from the appearance, respect for talent, in line with the character, for a long time than kindness, and finally on the character.
In life, there may be a lot of men who are good at some aspect of their ability to attract you, but not all of them will be your best choice.
Some people may be very motivated, but possessive, some people are very considerate, but macho, and so on, and so on, and everyone needs to be clear about what they really want and what kind of people they can accept.
But no matter what kind of man, in the end, he must really love you, and his character must pass, as long as one of these two is missing, it will make your life fall into a place of perdition, and it will be too late to regret it.