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There is a saying in "For sleepless nights": anger at every turn, indicating that childishness cannot control themselves.
Deeply.
A person's open-mindedness is reflected in the time of downfall; a person's cultivation is reflected in the time of anger.
Not being able to control your temper is a disaster.
Don't worry about the past, don't worry about the bad things in front of you, control yourself, less temper, more reason.
To be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others.
It not only plunges yourself into the vortex of emotions, but also causes harm to the body.
It is better to let yourself go and be kind to yourself.
Know that happiness is not because you have more but because you think less.
Less resentment is a kind of wisdom
There is a good saying: people always cherish what they have not received, and forget what they have.
When faced with something that cannot be changed, complaining will not play any role, but will make the emotions terrible.
I've seen a story like this:
One young man had to flee his hometown because of persecution at home.
One day, he came to a village, and the village was washed away by the flood.
He looked at the devastated village and couldn't help but feel sad, feeling that his fate was like that of this village that had been washed away.
As he walked, he saw a farmer standing next to a flooded field.
The farmer was smiling, no complaints or sorrows.
The young man felt very strange and went to ask the farmer:
"Why don't you complain about the calamities brought by heaven? Why don't you grieve over the submerged crops? ”
The farmer said:
"These are already things that can't be changed, and complaining is useless. Although the flood flooded the crops, it also brought a lot of nutrients, making the land fertile, and I believe that there will be a good harvest next year. ”
Young people are inspired to stop complaining about fate and live hard ever after.
To be a human being, you need to have the wisdom of a farmer, not to complain blindly, and to find life from pain.
Saion lost his horse, and he knew that it was not a blessing.
Have a normal heart for people and things, and don't be harsh on others to do as perfectly as you imagine.
Gold is barefoot, no one is perfect, don't always complain about others.
Change yourself and don't immerse yourself in complaining.
Learn not to complain, learn to find a way to survive in adversity, and learn to face everything with peace of mind.
Less anger is a kind of cultivation
I've seen a sentence like this:
"When the people around us are good and amiable, we can also be meek and courteous, and if the people around us are evil, we will soon become teeth and claws." 」
Anger is the emotion at the top of a person, a person full of anger, IQ is basically zero.
Being able to control one's anger is a rare cultivation.
There is such a story:
A camel trudged through the desert.
The midday sun was like a big fireball, so hungry and thirsty that it was so anxious that it didn't know where to send it.
At this moment, a fragment of a glass bottle slammed the sole of its foot, and the tired camel suddenly became angry, lifted its foot and kicked the fragment out.
However, he accidentally cut a deep opening in the sole of his foot, and the bright red blood immediately stained the sand red and rose up a puff of smoke.
The angry camel limped along, and the blood trail along the way attracted vultures in the air.
The camel was shocked, and ran wildly despite its wounds, leaving a long trail of blood on the desert.
As they reached the edge of the desert, the thick smell of blood attracted wolves in the nearby desert, and frightened camels rammed like headless flies.
In a hurry, he ran to a man-eating ant's nest, and the fishy smell of blood caused the man-eating ants to pour out of the nest, and the black pressure rushed towards the camel.
In a few moments, the poor camel fell to the ground in blood.
Before dying, the camel regretted it and said, "Why should I be angry with a small piece of broken glass?" ”
In the moment of anger, people will lose their minds and become hurtful and hurt themselves.
Patience is often more effective than anger.
Many times, you should be grateful to those who do not care about you, and the more desperate others do, the easier it is for you to get out.
There is no greater sorrow than the heart not dying, and fortunately there is no more death than death thoroughly.
Thomas Jefferson once said:
When angry, count dozens before opening your mouth; if you're unusually angry, count to a hundred.
Therefore, calm your mind, let the anger pass by yourself, and leave a pure peace for yourself.
Less idleness is a way to live
There is an interesting sentence in "Strange Story":
"Ask Qu Na to be as clear as promised, Qu said to take care of yourself."
At first reading, I thought it was funny, but reading it again tasted the deep meaning.
Life is the process of sweeping the snow in front of each door, instead of getting angry with others, it is better to take care of your own acres and three points of land.
Someone asked the writer Yu Guangzhong:
"Li Ao looks for your stubble every day, and you never respond, why is this?"
Afterglow groaned for a moment and replied:
"Scolding me every day shows that he can't live without me; and I don't care, proving that my life can be without him."
Regardless of idleness, not being idle is both polite to others and respectful to oneself.
Once, Einstein and his friends went to the supermarket to buy something, and when they went out, they carried a large bag in their hands and thought about things with their heads down.
So I accidentally bump into a young man, who punched Einstein without saying a word.
Einstein said only one word of "I'm sorry" and continued to walk forward with his head down.
Friends hurriedly went up and asked Einstein why he didn't theorize with him. Einstein looked at his friend doubtfully:
"Bumping into someone is not right for me, maybe the young man is unhappy about something annoying!" Wouldn't it be nice to meet me bumping into him and just venting out? ”
The friend asked again, "Aren't you angry?"
Einstein replied, "He's angry with him, and what does it have to do with me?"
There is nothing in the world that cannot be passed, only oneself and oneself cannot live.
Many times, looking back on a lot of bitter things, in fact, they are competing with themselves.
Suffering is also a day, happiness is also a day, let go of yourself, do not get angry, live well.
Actor Chen Daoming said this:
A person's cultivation is not when the heart is calm, but when the heart is impetuous;
A person's rationality is not when the wind and waves are calm, but when the crowd is noisy;
A person's compassion is not when he is condescending, but when he speaks softly;
The respect between couples is not when they are idle, but when they have different views;
The love between husband and wife is not at the end of the moon before the flower, but when the great trouble is imminent.
Life is to take it step by step, to throw it away little by little.
What comes out is the road, and what is thrown away is the baggage.
In this way, the road will go longer and longer, and the mind will go quieter and quieter, so that it can leave a little time for itself to think.
There are nine times out of ten things that are not satisfactory in life, and learning not to be angry is another realm of life.
Author: Philosophical Jun Xiaoxiao
Source: Philosophical Life Network (ID: zxrsnet)
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