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One day, the nine-year-old son looked at his one-year-old brother crying and impatiently admonished: You know crying, in addition to crying, what else will you do!
The father on the side picked up the younger son and said to the eldest son: Do you know that when you are as old as him, you also cry loudly, especially when you were just born, you cried more fiercely than he did!
The son looked up and down at his father and said, "I was crying because I was ugly, but it's okay, now I look a bit like my mother!" Don't miss you anymore! “
"Men look at strength, not face value!" The father glanced at his son.
The son said dismissively: "What is called strength, strength is multifaceted, I call this appearance has strength, is a very popular look among female students." ”
Dad scoffed: "Superficial"
The son "Oh" a sound: "I don't know who said that my mother looks better in blue clothes than in white clothes!" It's not about looking at what you're wearing My mom is my mom, and I don't abandon my mom to wear colored clothes! ”
Dad is a little helpless in his heart, this adolescent child has to say a word, he can top you ten sentences, all are some crooked reasoning, but the mouth said: "Well said, Dad is optimistic about you, Oh, my eldest son looks strong, and he also has strength in learning!" Definitely better than Dad in the future.
The son muttered, "That's nature!" I'm going to write my homework! ”
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Is there such a feeling, the adolescent child either ignores you, thinks that your concept is outdated, can not keep up with the pace of the times, or is particularly able to top the corner of the mouth, you say one sentence, he can say ten sentences to refute your point of view, or is particularly disgusted with what you say, can not listen to it at all.
In fact, think about it carefully, children in this period are experiencing the stage of "self". The child who can resist the mouth shows that he is not afraid of you, which is not necessarily a good thing, at least he can communicate, if he ignores you, or blindly obeys, you do not know what he is thinking, gradually, the family relationship will be estranged, unless one day he himself is enlightened, realizing that it is not easy for parents, the love of parents, but if you are not enlightened! In the future, the relationship will be very stiff, and it will not only be the child, but also the parents.
The child who can resist also shows that he has his own thoughts! It's just that sometimes his ideas are not approved by us. We need to communicate with children with more experience in the past.
Adolescence requires parents to have more patience, to be friends with children, to joke like friends, to talk, and to cultivate a filial child, which will be the greatest happiness of parents in the second half of their lives.