Use letters to undertake the great spiritual construction project

One-on-one customization and companion family education

Text / Big Goose 丨 ed. / by reins

Dear parents and friends

Hello!

01.

For a long time, I have worked tirelessly and have not dared to slacken off, just so that when you display the letter, you can see the words I have burned on the paper, which can make you full of joy!

I've always thought that putting handwritten letters in envelopes, filling in addresses, stamping them, and delivering them to your mailbox is the happiest thing.

Not to mention that at the other end of the letter, the child holds the letter from the trek through the mountains and waters, sits around you, holds his hands on his cheeks, blinks his eyes, and listens to you read, and the letter flows with the voice heart written by a distant friend for the child, not to mention how happy!

02.

Yes, at this moment, it should be the time to be closest to each other's hearts, to feel each other's love and sincerity, which is undoubtedly the best gift.

The beautiful language and true confessions in the letter, as well as the condensation of the writer's spiritual ingenuity and wisdom proverbs, will sow the seeds of knowledge in the child's heart under your recitation.

With the passage of time and internalization in growth, it will emit the aroma of books that people envy today, talented but gentle, knowledgeable but sunny! Isn't that what the child you have in mind is like?

03.

I've seen too many parents who don't hesitate to give their children beautiful clothes, high-grade toys, a mobile phone or iPad, and even arrange various cram schools and training classes.

The most core companionship and care in the family is entrusted to other people and things, consciously or unconsciously avoiding the overwhelm behind this companionship and care.

I mean it's not that you can't, but I hope you can experience the time and effort that is condensed behind true companionship and love.

In all relationships, what is needed is not efficiency, but time invested. The value of time requires the user to give him meaning, and meaning needs a process to create.

04.

You must also know that the growth and education of children is a slow process, a silent process of moisturizing things, not a process of achieving efficiency and cost performance overnight.

In the slow and invisible, do a good job in the child's spiritual foundation work, do a good job in cultural foundation work, so that he will have a deep foundation and full elasticity, not depressed by setbacks, not proud of success, relaxed and moderate, unlimited potential. This is the way everyone is looking for education.

In this day and age, when letters are exchanged, as an exchange of information, it may be a bit abrupt.

But I have always been unwilling and unwilling to surrender and the information that appears in WeChat in a flash, naturally more regard voice and video chat as a fearful way, thanks to the gift of letters, accidentally read the "Fu Lei Family Letter", let me suddenly understand the significance of letters to education.

Education, in the final analysis, is to educate people, to respect the personality and to respect human nature.

05.

In family education, this is especially true, because it is not only to eliminate the confusion of the moment, but also to devote itself to long-term planning, and ultimately to resist uncertainty and win in the future competition!

This requires a carrier to meet the needs of the family education system engineering, but also without losing harmony, but also seamless and smooth connection, think about it, only letters can carry this real and warm, sincere and ritualistic responsibility.

06.

Through letters, you can tell your child what beauty is, what life is, what kind of life is worth pursuing, what kind of life is worth living;

You can also show your children through letters how the world has become the world, why beauty has become beautiful, and how freedom has become freedom;

Even, you can be more realistic, tell the child a hundred thousand whys, how to learn mathematics, what are the benefits of brushing teeth, how to greet the elders, etc., I can guarantee that the child will be happy to accept all the orders.

Of course, through the letter, what you give to the child is not a conclusion, but the whole process of derivation, and the key to open the world, which is the proper meaning of the letter.

07.

Thank you very much for your patience!

I just want to revive the culture of epistles through my craft, my experience, and this love in my heart.

And for you and your children to provide a series of foolish, but profound and touching; sincere, but warm and full of letters, will love and mood, Hongyan book, let you see the letter as a meeting.

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